T Lo Sweater
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OH **** HE GOT A GUN!
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Nothing wrong with becoming monogamous. The problem is some men became full on lames. My best friend is no longer the same, he's gone. He moved in with his chick in April. Chick is older and running things. Men get it confused they are being responsible, by catering to the woman. Naaaahhhhh...
EXACTLY. 100 percent. The truth eventually comes out and it will be too late, when it does. Not hating on his situation, but it wreaks of that...I think it hit me when I was going through some personal **** and I needed someone to talk to, but didn't really wanna talk to the homies about my problems. None of the females that I was smashing would have given a damn. In fact, I hit one up and started talking about some of my problems and she tried to make light of it and put a laughing emoticon after what I said and I wanted her to slip in the bath tub and break her nose.
Having multiple women made me feel lonely honestly. It was almost like the me who was gaming them, wasn't really me. I had to be smooth and charming all the time and everything was about getting some. There were no real conversations, just a bunch of calculated responses and witty banter to get the coochie wet. So after conquering a female, there was nothing else there. I never let them spend the night and I was real cold as far as accommodating them.
When I decided to lock in my current gf, I still got calls from other females and one day my gf decided it was time for me to change my phone number. I did. But some of them still hit me up on fb. They would find me and start conversations. I told them the deal and for the most part ignored future messages.
Thinking back, there was only one female that I developed feelings for when I was just smashing, so I distanced myself. She had two kids and I wasn't trying to be anyone's step-dad. She wasn't even the best looking female. She was cute, but nothing too fancy. But her personality and mine clicked. We would have each other dying laughing for hours. In fact her sex was meh, but her personality was so on point. I used to take a viagra or cialus and KILL her all night. I'm talking legendary sessions, but it was almost like I was just putting on a show to stunt, because like I said, the sex was just aight. Last time I hit her up (a while back) it was out of the blue and she asked me why I dissed her. Man, that kind of stung. I told her I was going through some things and she understood.
I'm happier now than I was when I was playing. I have a good woman. She's not perfect and can annoy me sometimes, but overall things are too good for me to **** them up over some side P. I have everything I need and am not trying to be greedy and **** that up.
That's something I learned with age. SET EXPECTATIONS AND BOUNDARIES EARLY! If they don't like it from the jump, it just ain't gonna work. Don't be fake to get your gf. You can do that with a JO, but not someone you want to have a future with, because that fake, super accommodating you that you dated her with, is the you she'll expect to be with forever. Man on the real, I barely budge when it comes to compromising and it may sound wrong, but that's how she met me and that's how she knows me now. I'm not about that "you do what I say or else" life. My gf says I think I'm a king or something and I say you're damn right. Your homey set himself up for failure because at some point he's going to break and the real him is going to come out.I don't even let my girl slide on being short on her half of the rent. NOTHING gets a pass. Not about to set wack standards that are gonna make my life hell.
In for the fabricated stories that are about to arise...
They moved on just like I moved on The World doesn't stop spinning.
Yeah sometimes, I reminisce and wanna share my stories and try to fit in with the single guys or players at work/gym... ect.
But then I go home and see my chick and all the things we've accomplished together.
Having a chick waiting for you at home, food made, house cleaned.... ect >>>>>>>>> Forever Alone.
Stop listening to Abel, listen to John Legend fam.
I think it hit me when I was going through some personal **** and I needed someone to talk to, but didn't really wanna talk to the homies about my problems. None of the females that I was smashing would have given a damn. In fact, I hit one up and started talking about some of my problems and she tried to make light of it and put a laughing emoticon after what I said and I wanted her to slip in the bath tub and break her nose.
Having multiple women made me feel lonely honestly. It was almost like the me who was gaming them, wasn't really me. I had to be smooth and charming all the time and everything was about getting some. There were no real conversations, just a bunch of calculated responses and witty banter to get the coochie wet. So after conquering a female, there was nothing else there. I never let them spend the night and I was real cold as far as accommodating them.
When I decided to lock in my current gf, I still got calls from other females and one day my gf decided it was time for me to change my phone number. I did. But some of them still hit me up on fb. They would find me and start conversations. I told them the deal and for the most part ignored future messages.
Thinking back, there was only one female that I developed feelings for when I was just smashing, so I distanced myself. She had two kids and I wasn't trying to be anyone's step-dad. She wasn't even the best looking female. She was cute, but nothing too fancy. But her personality and mine clicked. We would have each other dying laughing for hours. In fact her sex was meh, but her personality was so on point. I used to take a viagra or cialus and KILL her all night. I'm talking legendary sessions, but it was almost like I was just putting on a show to stunt, because like I said, the sex was just aight. Last time I hit her up (a while back) it was out of the blue and she asked me why I dissed her. Man, that kind of stung. I told her I was going through some things and she understood.
I'm happier now than I was when I was playing. I have a good woman. She's not perfect and can annoy me sometimes, but overall things are too good for me to **** them up over some side P. I have everything I need and am not trying to be greedy and **** that up.
That's something I learned with age. SET EXPECTATIONS AND BOUNDARIES EARLY! If they don't like it from the jump, it just ain't gonna work. Don't be fake to get your gf. You can do that with a JO, but not someone you want to have a future with, because that fake, super accommodating you that you dated her with, is the you she'll expect to be with forever. Man on the real, I barely budge when it comes to compromising and it may sound wrong, but that's how she met me and that's how she knows me now. I'm not about that "you do what I say or else" life. My gf says I think I'm a king or something and I say you're damn right. Your homey set himself up for failure because at some point he's going to break and the real him is going to come out.I don't even let my girl slide on being short on her half of the rent. NOTHING gets a pass. Not about to set wack standards that are gonna make my life hell.
I think it hit me when I was going through some personal **** and I needed someone to talk to, but didn't really wanna talk to the homies about my problems. None of the females that I was smashing would have given a damn. In fact, I hit one up and started talking about some of my problems and she tried to make light of it and put a laughing emoticon after what I said and I wanted her to slip in the bath tub and break her nose.
Having multiple women made me feel lonely honestly. It was almost like the me who was gaming them, wasn't really me. I had to be smooth and charming all the time and everything was about getting some. There were no real conversations, just a bunch of calculated responses and witty banter to get the coochie wet. So after conquering a female, there was nothing else there. I never let them spend the night and I was real cold as far as accommodating them.
When I decided to lock in my current gf, I still got calls from other females and one day my gf decided it was time for me to change my phone number. I did. But some of them still hit me up on fb. They would find me and start conversations. I told them the deal and for the most part ignored future messages.
Thinking back, there was only one female that I developed feelings for when I was just smashing, so I distanced myself. She had two kids and I wasn't trying to be anyone's step-dad. She wasn't even the best looking female. She was cute, but nothing too fancy. But her personality and mine clicked. We would have each other dying laughing for hours. In fact her sex was meh, but her personality was so on point. I used to take a viagra or cialus and KILL her all night. I'm talking legendary sessions, but it was almost like I was just putting on a show to stunt, because like I said, the sex was just aight. Last time I hit her up (a while back) it was out of the blue and she asked me why I dissed her. Man, that kind of stung. I told her I was going through some things and she understood.
I'm happier now than I was when I was playing. I have a good woman. She's not perfect and can annoy me sometimes, but overall things are too good for me to **** them up over some side P. I have everything I need and am not trying to be greedy and **** that up.
Nothing wrong with becoming monogamous. The problem is some men became full on lames. My best friend is no longer the same, he's gone. He moved in with his chick in April. Chick is older and running things. Men get it confused they are being responsible, by catering to the woman. Naaaahhhhh...
That's something I learned with age. SET EXPECTATIONS AND BOUNDARIES EARLY! If they don't like it from the jump, it just ain't gonna work. Don't be fake to get your gf. You can do that with a JO, but not someone you want to have a future with, because that fake, super accommodating you that you dated her with, is the you she'll expect to be with forever. Man on the real, I barely budge when it comes to compromising and it may sound wrong, but that's how she met me and that's how she knows me now. I'm not about that "you do what I say or else" life. My gf says I think I'm a king or something and I say you're damn right. Your homey set himself up for failure because at some point he's going to break and the real him is going to come out. I don't even let my girl slide on being short on her half of the rent. NOTHING gets a pass. Not about to set wack standards that are gonna make my life hell.