Originally Posted by
cocotaso1
don't do it. but if you must, remember that regardless of him showing you he has changed he still has it in him to be a dirtbag and still wants to hit it. if you can deal with those facts, not hold it against him and resume some sort of relationship more power to you. but know you are walking into a world of potential problems.
damn this thread moves fast, the beast was only in effect for 30 mins.
No, I know he genuinely cares. We discussed if we get into it...he says as long as it doesn't ruin our relationship. But if I am getting to do it, I'd want it to be him. I am not the casual type and do not think I am getting in a relationship soon.
But yes, I agree, this can be problematic, but just depending on how we each decide to handle and take this friendship if it works. I know he cares for me and loves me as a person. He always will. He even cried when I got into my Masters program. I didn't even cry. lol But he was that proud of me. He was just very self-destructive person back then, depressed,etc. Due to my parents and their religious views and conservative ways and backgrounds, I hid him from my parents for 5 years and a half. He was scared and it got to him. It was just a mess. We should have ended it when we could have. He says I did not deserve him and I was too good for him, which is true. But I am independent now,grown,and a lot stronger and mature.
Thanks guys for your perspectives. My girls gave so many different viewpoints. So good to see what men and Cap think of this type of situation since you are all unbiased (you do not know either of us two).
