the thread about nothing...

THIS

I will never forget the convo I had with my good friends Dad... he was a stevedore down at the harbors here in Hawaii... big bucks, but long hours... he sat me down one day and started pointing at their boat, cars, etc and said "I bought all this stuff for my kids and family, but at the same time I never made it to any of his sporting events, art shows, and didn't even make it to the hospital when my grand kids were born... don't make the same mistake I did" - it really sank in with me to work hard and have financial stability, but don't focus on just that and instead focus on time with the ohana

A lot of people say this after they’ve made money though.

However, when you are broke / not well off and don’t have the security blanket of money there’s nothing more important to the long term well being of your family than stacking. It’s pure stress and terror knowing you are one bad car accident or one big mess up away from not being able to pay rent etc.

Id rather end up with my kids and I not having spent a lot of time together on activities like sports events etc but at least they had a roof, food, quality education, and the opportunities that I never had. That’s the sacrifice I’ll make for my family to not be broke and hopefully my kids recognize the sacrifice and build on the foundation in a good way.
 
A lot of people say this after they’ve made money though.

However, when you are broke / not well off and don’t have the security blanket of money there’s nothing more important to the long term well being of your family than stacking. It’s pure stress and terror knowing you are one bad car accident or one big mess up away from not being able to pay rent etc.

Id rather end up with my kids and I not having spent a lot of time together on activities like sports events etc but at least they had a roof, food, quality education, and the opportunities that I never had. That’s the sacrifice I’ll make for my family to not be broke and hopefully my kids recognize the sacrifice and build on the foundation in a good way.

I don't think we are referencing extreme wealth or poverty, just in general the concept of placing value on time/experiences over finances

With my friends Dad's example he was putting in overtime at work to be able to buy all those extra items when in hindsight he had provided his family with everything they needed and instead wishes he spent time with them rather than working OT to buy more "things"
 
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Wow never knew that
 
What of signals was she giving you?

Constant DMs on Instagram, trying to talk to me in person, etc

This means she’s testing the waters and is interested in adding you to her rotation. Probably having some doubts about her current dude and wants to be sure she can transition quickly from him to the next.

Prob. She’s in a long distance relationship. I dont got time for that. I ain’t no ones second option. Hurts, but I’ll live
 
Constant DMs on Instagram, trying to talk to me in person, etc

Prob. She’s in a long distance relationship. I dont got time for that. I ain’t no ones second option. Hurts, but I’ll live

She wants to be entertained. Typical women behavior when they are bored. I'll just make her jealous by posting pics with other girls in my ig, and keep my convos short while also keeping myself busy with other prospects. Can't put all your energy into one girl. Waste of time.
 
Facts. Stopped looking at all her Instagram stories and everything.
You must be looking for a relationship instead of a FWB. FWB better than nothing. Seems like she might be down for that. But sleeping with someone’s girl is drama though.
 
Facts. Stopped looking at all her Instagram stories and everything.

Don’t cancel yourself out of her possible rotation, might be missing out on some fun nights.

Like Ving Rhames said in Pulp Fiction...

“**** pride. It never helps, it only hurts”
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You must be looking for a relationship instead of a FWB. FWB better than nothing. Seems like she might be down for that. But sleeping with someone’s girl is drama though.
Girl is in a long distance relationship...it's GTD season and he needs commit to just that and not a actual relationship.

F all that she gonna go back home. Might as well break her back while the opportunity presents itself.
 
But sleeping with someone’s girl is drama though.

Facts...BUT he’s miles and miles away. I don’t know anyone who can see that far.

This married woman I was banging made the mistake of getting caught while still living with him. Homeboy started leaving death threats in my voicemail. That was drama but I just changed my number. Lesson learned? Don’t hit if she lives nearby.
 
Facts...BUT he’s miles and miles away. I don’t know anyone who can see that far.

This married woman I was banging made the mistake of getting caught while still living with him. Homeboy started leaving death threats in my voicemail. That was drama but I just changed my number. Lesson learned? Don’t hit if she lives nearby.

I can bet you her boyfriend pipping other girls in his hometown. What they don't know won't hurt them.

You a bad man for smashing a married women....I just tell em this is just for fun and keep it moving to avoid the drama.
 
This is from Fresh Prince, right?

If so, forgot Larenz Tate was in that.
Man, that's Garcelle Beauvais (sp), Jamie Foxxx Show. Damn y'all don't know Fancy?!?
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Didn’t dude just pay billions in a divorce??? And he’s doing it again?? Clown.
Dude's been reported to be on some Highschool-crush games with females. No game! So I hear.
He'll get played! I wish not, though Amazon is getting TOO big, gaining way serious monopoly. Ethics Committee watching I bet.
 
Haven't gotten my haircut by a female barber since like 2001-2002.
1999 for me. She was a hot milf but she was more interested in my pops, lol.

I can bet you her boyfriend pipping other girls in his hometown. What they don't know won't hurt them.
Oh you know it, especially if they’re young. Wouldn’t surprise me if she found out something about that and is trying to get even.

It should’ve been only a couple of times...but girl had superior porn star level skills. Makes me mad I didn’t record it :frown:
 
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