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Brolic Scholar wrote:
Women in relationships (marriages or otherwise) who are not happy will NEVER be happy because they are looking for a man that does not exist.
Here is where cheating comes in for women. When they creep and YES men, they creep more often and with more stealth than you can even comprehend, they go out to find a man who can meet NOT 30 of those characteristics, but only the 6 to 10 that their man can't provide.
There's a few things to take from this, but I'll share with you two:
1. A man who is filling the 6-10 slot will never be able to make that woman happy on a long term basis because she will always be looking for an idealistic version of a man who can make her "happy".
2. If you try to step your side/JO role up into the full-time slot you not only have to provide what her last man provided (financially, emotionally, etc.), you have to step your game up at least 3 times, but more than likely four times (4 x 6 = 24) and guess what? You're still not that dude she really wants. Oh, you'll fill the slot for a while, but sooner or later, she'll be out looking for someone to make up for your 6-10 short comings.
Take that and run with it men. Oh yeah, discuss...
gatdamnnn...prolly the realest %+%+ ive ever read on NT.
its sad to think about but its true...she can be committed for 15 yrs and it only takes one hr and another slick talking cat to step in and handle business. Even if its for only one night.