TAY: thread about yambs...

[elderwatsondiggs]

I also feel like all the regulars should post a piece of advice they learned this year or use daily...


Mine would be something I learned years ago, but definitely used daily and that is:

APPROACH, APPROACH, APPROACH.

So many times I was feeling lazy and thinking in my head to just let that girl be and not say something to her... BUT these are the situations that make us better. Don't be scared to get shutdown! I hear excuses all the time from my boys about it but then they see me attack and get some confidence.

You learn a lot from failure. It's like in basketball when you shoot a jumper a LITTLE short... Where must ur next shot go? Put a little extra leg into it and nail it.

I probably wouldn't have scored 1/4 of the girls I did this year if I didn't approach them with something simple like my song of the summer line... I scored 5-6 off that ALONE.

All in all my advice is to approach and be confident when you do it. A simple question could lead a long way

[COLOR=#red]. This is great advice for ANY guy. I mean don't get it twisted sometimes you may doubt yourself..it happens sometimes but you have to suppress those thoughts and way of thinking and just go get her. Chicks are wired to respond to that.

This morning when ole girl came into the cafe I waited to see if she was meeting someone and after a short while I went in. She could have told me she wanted to be alone and I would have respected that, but the only way to know is if you try and like E said Approach Approach Approach,[/COLOR]

 

[demarco]

ex of 2-3 years ago texted me this at midnight, out of the blue:

"hi [demarco]. i hope all is well. i hope that you are growing as a man among other beautiful things. i pray for you everyday. i pray that you are blessed in any and every which way possible. have a good night."

i responded with thank you, i don't know what to make of this. we don't speak, and the last time i saw her, she looked really nervous and her eyes were darting in every direction but mine.

backstory: she played me a little (freshman year), i stuck with her only for her to eventually push me away a few months later. i took a 6th (wo)man off the bench immediately after... the ex came back, smashed two more times while not together, then she asked after the second time if i had sex with anybody. i didn't lie and she cut me off. i apologized like a sucker for months and she treated me like dirt. she apologized a year or so later and we've kept minimal contact in that time, but she has seen that i'm looking and am living much better... then boom, this.

what's the deal?

 

[olx9o]

ex of 2-3 years ago texted me this at midnight, out of the blue:

"hi [demarco]. i hope all is well. i hope that you are growing as a man among other beautiful things. i pray for you everyday. i pray that you are blessed in any and every which way possible. have a good night."

i responded with thank you, i don't know what to make of this. we don't speak, and the last time i saw her, she looked really nervous and her eyes were darting in every direction but mine.

backstory: she played me a little (freshman year), i stuck with her only for her to eventually push me away a few months later. i took a 6th (wo)man off the bench immediately after... the ex came back, smashed two more times while not together, then she asked after the second time if i had sex with anybody. i didn't lie and she cut me off. i apologized like a sucker for months and she treated me like dirt. she apologized a year or so later and we've kept minimal contact in that time, but she has seen that i'm looking and am living much better... then boom, this.

what's the deal?

You living much better you say?

"She just wanna **** with me.....cause she know im living comfortably" - Dom Kennedy

This happens when they **** up a good thing then later on realize that and look for ya sympathy

 

[humblemelord]

Missed out on some YAMBS recently. Got the word from my bro that this girl was feeling me. Saw her a few days later at a party, ran down on her and got the number. I was graduating in a couple days and wanted to take down this one while I had the chance and I knew my time was limited. We text for a couple days and the convo is going great and she comes over to chill after the second day of texting. We were watching a movie and I was about to smash but she stopped me right before I reached home plate. Wasnt mad or anything because I literally met her like 5 days prior. Day after im texting shordie and she says she not feeling well and she want me to come through and take care of her. Couldnt at the time cause I was with some other chick and I had just seen this girl the night before. Later in the convo she texts me asking if I graduated (which I did two days before). I told her yea and she tells me I should have told her. I tell her that I will still be around since I will be in the area and she keeps sending me frown Emojis, etc. Ever since that things went south. Tried to link up with her and she tells me she's studying, and the text convos aint even the same anymore. Not that I have a problem getting girls or anything but I really had this one in the bag and let her get away smh. Homegirl was real nice too (nice eyes, lips, etc). Still wondering who leaked the info about me graduating

HOMIE!..girls are smart... They have ways of finding information. "i never under estimate a *****"-Too $hort  ..don't be surprise if she knows your blood type, SSN or birth date

 

[アミーゴ]

HOMIE!..girls are smart... They have ways of finding information. "i never under estimate a *****"-Too $hort  ..don't be surprise if she knows your blood type, SSN or birth date

THIS THIS THIS. As I said, mine reads everything I write on here after not talking for like 18 months!!!!

But on the real just ignore that girl... Change ur number or something

 

[sfc415]

You living much better you say?

"She just wanna **** with me.....cause she know im living comfortably" - Dom Kennedy

This happens when they **** up a good thing then later on realize that and look for ya sympathy

So true. My ex broke up with me when I was looking for a job for some dude who lifts boxes at IKEA for a career. Blocked me on Instagram, facebook, deleted my phone #, etc. Fast forward one year, and I'm an accountant and about to get my CPA license in 2014. All of a sudden, look who decides to follow me on IG and facebook, look who decides to text me "what's up!!! why do you act like you don't know me anymore?" and look who starts commenting on all my pictures/statuses with smiley faces, winks, and kissing emojis She's one of my best friend's cousins and always knows what I'm up to, so it's no coincidence that all of a sudden her interest in me is reignited. @#$% is pathetic. I basically accepted her requests just to show how much better in life I'm doing than her. Call me petty but w/e

 

[hypebeast5]

Its awful being petty but i love stunting on all my exs it feels so damn good

 

[Maximus Meridius]

This white chick at my job wants the D something terrible. She be flirting with me almost everyday and today we were talking and I said "Damn I just noticed you got a tongue ring " she was like "I got my nipples pierced too ". Might go ahead and jump on that...

 

[oidreez]

How can you keep talking to an ex after months, even a year is what I dont understand. I'm just thinking back on the chick I met off POF that I took on two dates and then she texted me one day while I was at work that she's back talking to her ex. I never inquired further, jus texted back "ok" and havent heard from her since. This was last month. I haven't deleted her number though. I mean she's the best looking chick I met off that site.

 

[awwsome]

This white chick at my job wants the D something terrible. She be flirting with me almost everyday and today we were talking and I said "Damn I just noticed you got a tongue
ring " she was like "I got my nipples pierced too ". Might go ahead and jump on that...

Do that my guy, dome with the tongue ring will have you moving like

 

[sfc415]

I don't talk to her. The interaction is one way only. I don't text her back or comment/like any of her @#$@. I'm civil with her when I see her in person. That's it

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

So true. My ex broke up with me when I was looking for a job for some dude who lifts boxes at IKEA for a career. Blocked me on Instagram, facebook, deleted my phone #, etc. Fast forward one year, and I'm an accountant and about to get my CPA license in 2014. All of a sudden, look who decides to follow me on IG and facebook, look who decides to text me "what's up!!! why do you act like you don't know me anymore?" and look who starts commenting on all my pictures/statuses with smiley faces, winks, and kissing emojis She's one of my best friend's cousins and always knows what I'm up to, so it's no coincidence that all of a sudden her interest in me is reignited. @#$% is pathetic. I basically accepted her requests just to show how much better in life I'm doing than her. Call me petty but w/e

 

[keel252]

Year was pretty good to me far as buns, broke up with my ex. Then I had a mean rotation of about 5 who was down to get down whenever I said. That lasted for about 2.5 months, But man that was way too much work an annoying. Roster is down to 1 now and I'm so cool with that. Bachelor pad is where it's at fellas, get your own **** and flourish in it.

 

[Maximus Meridius]

This white chick at my job wants the D something terrible. She be flirting with me almost everyday and today we were talking and I said "Damn I just noticed you got a tongue
ring " she was like "I got my nipples pierced too ". Might go ahead and jump on that...

Do that my guy, dome with the tongue ring will have you moving like

My thoughts exactly.

 

[rocman23]

Any of yall ever feel like you shouldn't be piping these girls so well. i'm legit not trying to brag, but every girl i pipe gets extra clingy. I'm always like just go away.

 

[joepac12]

I don't talk to exs. I see no point. New yambs are better.

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

Any of yall ever feel like you shouldn't be piping these girls so well. i'm legit not trying to brag, but every girl i pipe gets extra clingy. I'm always like just go away.

[COLOR=#Red]Yeah basically...if you give your all to a chick and you have skills then there's a chance they'll become dickmatized and cling insets will follow. Ow for some that's what you might want, but for others that might be too much to [/COLOR]

 

[elderwatsondiggs]

[COLOR=#red]Tongue rings when they give head is all good till they try to get too cute with it and try to put the round part in your pee-pee hole. That s*** feels uncomfortable as heck my dudes.[/COLOR]

 

[awwsome]

All my exes hate me, like if I was dying on the side of the road I couldn't call none of those broads

 

[Maximus Meridius]

Me and one of my ex's are like friends with benefits. She cool, she's a freak and it's never any drama with her.

 

[アミーゴ]

I'm only cool with one ex. Mine have hit me up and what not, but no need to respond. Off doing better things

 

[joepac12]

Exactly cook. Doing better things and better women.

 

[rocman23]

Any of yall ever feel like you shouldn't be piping these girls so well. i'm legit not trying to brag, but every girl i pipe gets extra clingy. I'm always like just go away.

[COLOR=#Red]Yeah basically...if you give your all to a chick and you have skills then there's a chance they'll become dickmatized and cling insets will follow. Ow for some that's what you might want, but for others that might be too much to [/COLOR]

Yeah but i just don't want to give a weak performance, like even if i'm not that into the chick i still want her telling her friends that i tore the walls down. i can't have broads speaking ill of my pipe

 

[awwsome]

Always treat the box like it's Game 7 on the road, ****** could die tomorrow ain't no way I ain't giving my all every time in it and I expect the same from my women

 

[youngdoc]

I'm cool with one of my exes. Cool enough where she purposely invites me to things where she'll put me on.

The rest hate me (the last one in particular) save for one who is neutral