TAY: thread about yambs...

[216301baller]

That's is respectful if I'm on a date I want full attention..I dnt care its all about respect with me..I might sound controlling na I'm not..but if my woman dnt respect me then im wasting my time with her

 

[denni5themenace]

do not trust anyone

just witnessed a friend of mine steal another friend of ours' girl of 2 years.

***** grimey. can't eem look at dude the same.

i guess ***** is *****, but damn, i really thought none of my boys would stoop that low.

 

[216301baller]

I thought you knew fake friends in style

 

[mr marcus]

do not trust anyone

just witnessed a friend of mine steal another friend of ours' girl of 2 years.

***** grimey. can't eem look at dude the same.

i guess ***** is *****, but damn, i really thought none of my boys would stoop that low.

not the same but I remember when one of my friends tried getting at my jump behind my back...I mean I'm not stingy w/ that **** but he could have at least gave me a heads up....the fact that he threw shade trying to get her too was disgusting...sometimes its the principle

now if a friend took a chick I cared about/dated? that friendship would be dead immediately...wouldn't want a damn thing to do w/ him 

 

[powerballin]

How does a friend steal your girl though? Does not compute

 

[216301baller]

The girl was a sloot..she chose the friend a longgg time ago

 

[ill steelo]

some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

Oh, you're one of those guys . Don't want your **** buddy to mess with anyone else, but you refuse to cuff.

 

[young thundercat]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

Your confused homeboy, how you gonna catch feeling over you cut buddy? And people say women are always the first to get emotionally attached. I'm interested to hear how you get your face back w/o looking like a sucker. Bc I'm pretty sure that's how she's looking at you right now.

 

[ricky409]

Sorry to be blunt brah but whenever a chick does that mor often than not she is bored and not interested and if I see that ish, I would try to end the date as soon as possible(srs). IMHO it is only acceptable when it is truly an emergency to text someone when u r on a date and in which case she would have told ya, ya dig. Just keep it moving papi, nom sayin'.

I wouldn't go that far bruh... just check the behavior..

I get a higher YRR (yamb return rate) when I do that.

 

[jjs]

How does a friend steal your girl though? Does not compute

First, that's not a friend.

Second, F*** this B****!

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

Wait, so she blew you off the night before, then called you from a party the next day to pick her and her friends up. You get there she's hugged up on some dude. And then you get MAD she's hugged up on some dude?

Stop doing favors for cut buddies and that'll solve all your problems my friend. And yeah you went overboard.

 

[ricky409]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

me personally...

jump off, random yamb, main chick, wife... whatever...

if you gettin the D from other people, dont be open about it...

dont care what yall think of me, call me simp beta... simta...

i just dont like the feeling of a yamb i ran up in getting ran thru. i know its happening on a daily basis... but fugg, dont be so open about...

i have the respect to not fugg w/ a bunch of yambs in your face... dont do it to me...

only scenario is if i go to a club/party w/ the main... and the JO is there... outside of that, there's no reason why one should be all up in someone else's face if yall smashing...

that shows lack of respect, and i'll let a lot of stuff slide... lack of respect is not one of them.

if you gettin a ton of yambs, and you go to a place where there's 4 girls your actively smashing, you know how to play it cool, give them the right amount of attention with out triggering drama... speaking from experience, trial and error, fambs.

 

[guccjermaine]

Random sidepiece flaked on me last night; all the upper class yambs know I'm in a relationship.

 

[joepac12]

Treat dimes like 5's. yambs will be had.

 

[216301baller]

Thank u Ricky...I dnt care who she talks too...its just the fact I go out my way to get her n she's on some other guy in front of me..if I look like a sucka now so be it but I would rather have her respect me above all....she's not my girl but I mean that's a lol messed up right..I mean that's just common courtesy

 

[tmso]

me personally...

jump off, random yamb, main chick, wife... whatever...

if you gettin the D from other people, dont be open about it...

dont care what yall think of me, call me simp beta... simta...

i just dont like the feeling of a yamb i ran up in getting ran thru. i know its happening on a daily basis... but fugg, dont be so open about...

i have the respect to not fugg w/ a bunch of yambs in your face... dont do it to me...

only scenario is if i go to a club/party w/ the main... and the JO is there... outside of that, there's no reason why one should be all up in someone else's face if yall smashing...

that shows lack of respect, and i'll let a lot of stuff slide... lack of respect is not one of them.

if you gettin a ton of yambs, and you go to a place where there's 4 girls your actively smashing, you know how to play it cool, give them the right amount of attention with out triggering drama... speaking from experience, trial and error, fambs.

OP is Bill Bellamy.

 

[benny bugatti]

Treat dimes like 5's. yambs will be had.

Ehh, kinda sorta.

You gotta be real with yourself and authentic. If you really think a chick is a dime, chances are you want to do more than just make her your J/O. Now, if all you really want is them guts, then be my guest, treat her like whatev's.

But don't be trying to be on some "Ma, is you ****in or what" tip, just to treat her in the same fashion you would a 5. If you want more, come at her like you want more.

Most of my friends and relatives that are happily married, definitely put up with some stuff that they would have walked away from if they wanted to "treat her like a 5". Sometimes, you gotta put yourself out there to find the right one.

 

[216301baller]

im cutting her off.. I told my dad he said I would have left her there...dude said he's speechless Damn I feel ashamed lol...gotta take that L n keep it pushing

 

[Mark Antony]

You know it's going on, but still a little disrespectful for her to not get that cleared away before you get there, especially if you doing favors. I don't think that's catching feelings.

 

[216301baller]

Exactly..I'm smashing other girls but I don't put that out in the public...she wanted to make me jealous for not making her more than a smash buddy in my opinion...but i know the guy my old roomate beat his *** lol...and he tried to talk to one of my freaks back in Cleveland..she declined him...but I'm still cutting her off still

 

[mahnametahrone]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

She's not your girl, so technically she can do whatever she want.

 

[Mark Antony]

Most def, it is what it is. Can't help feel a certain way though when it's out in public like that and no one really knows the extent of y'all deal. It looks crazy on your part. Shouldn't have really flinched though, just let it rock and internalize your thoughts.

 

[216301baller]

what do you mean by flinch?....i told her that was disrespectful.she texted me today saying "please dont do this I'm sorry n i wasnt trying to do anything"....i didnt reply..I don't care I dont get played like that n that's just my ego getting the best of me...yes she can do what she wants but its just a respect thing..

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

what do you mean by flinch?....i told her that was disrespectful.she texted me today saying "please dont do this I'm sorry n i wasnt trying to do anything"....i didnt reply..I don't care I dont get played like that n that's just my ego getting the best of me...yes she can do what she wants but its just a respect thing..

You have the upper hand. Say "yeah, don't do that **** again" and proceed to get apology yambs. It's stupid to cut her off.

A wise man once told me "I never cut guaranteed yambs off my team, if they choose to quit becuz they dont like how I coach, that's on them. But I never make cuts."

And you can't get "played" if its a FWB because there's no relationship. How old are you man?

 

[championboyz7]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

me personally...

jump off, random yamb, main chick, wife... whatever...

if you gettin the D from other people, dont be open about it...

dont care what yall think of me, call me simp beta... simta...

i just dont like the feeling of a yamb i ran up in getting ran thru. i know its happening on a daily basis... but fugg, dont be so open about...

i have the respect to not fugg w/ a bunch of yambs in your face... dont do it to me...

only scenario is if i go to a club/party w/ the main... and the JO is there... outside of that, there's no reason why one should be all up in someone else's face if yall smashing...

that shows lack of respect, and i'll let a lot of stuff slide... lack of respect is not one of them.

if you gettin a ton of yambs, and you go to a place where there's 4 girls your actively smashing, you know how to play it cool, give them the right amount of attention with out triggering drama... speaking from experience, trial and error, fambs.

This. I was in the same exact spot. She smashed one of the homies a few months back and I had to find out thru somebody else. Needless to say I went off on her. She said were just fwb you said it urself you can do w.e we aren't together and she's right I slipped and didn't make it clear enough from the jump. So I guess I couldn't cut her off like that and I was in the mood for a nut...so I set her straight . She ain't ******g nobody but me while im hitting that till were thru. Its not that I got feelings its just what Rick said.