TAY: thread about yambs...

[weekz]

Was thinking about my prolonged yamblessness and I've learned a few things about myself that I need to correct.
1.*party setting specific* I try to F way to fast. I'm all for one night stands but even then I rush conversation. I go from what your name to wanna come chill in the dorms in probs under 5 mins.
2. I'm too timid about my intentions. When I talk to girls I normally approach them in a way that signals something other than what I really want. The pretense of me a getting number is normally "let's study" or some other school related BS. I've never tried to walk up to a girl and state my true intentions of being more than friends (dont want a gf though).
3. I'm a lazy mfer. I need to work out. Body isn't outright sloppy but obvious improvements need to be made.
4. Confidence isn't where it should be. Grades weren't great last semester and facing my family really brought me down.

My solutions/future plans of action
1. For party situations actually talk to her and try to get her vibe. Actually see if she wanna do stuff (most likely based on how attracted she is to me).
2. For females who seem pretty chill don't beat around the bush.
3. Go to the gym.
4. Get on my grind and make sure I'm where I need to be so that i can root my confidence in something tangible.

Do these seem like good ideas for a typical nice guy wanting to smash outside a relationship?
Suggestions? Anything to add?

 

[ptrakarn23]

I sipped and fell asleep on my girl. INS for a week

been there done that...

i was so faded off that henny and exhausted i passed out gettin domed off...

months later she fell asleep on me while i was eatin

karma... only ever happened once and no.. we both had a mean head game

 

[kings castle]

Was thinking about my prolonged yamblessness and I've learned a few things about myself that I need to correct.
1.*party setting specific* I try to F way to fast. I'm all for one night stands but even then I rush conversation. I go from what your name to wanna come chill in the dorms in probs under 5 mins.
2. I'm too timid about my intentions. When I talk to girls I normally approach them in a way that signals something other than what I really want. The pretense of me a getting number is normally "let's study" or some other school related BS. I've never tried to walk up to a girl and state my true intentions of being more than friends (dont want a gf though).
3. I'm a lazy mfer. I need to work out. Body isn't outright sloppy but obvious improvements need to be made.
4. Confidence isn't where it should be. Grades weren't great last semester and facing my family really brought me down.

My advice would be to drop everything on your plate and focus strictly on school for a lil bit. Make sure you have that as your foundation, go ghost on people if you have to. Your not in school to get girls, or to work out your muscles, so make sure school is your number one priority, then yambs can come somewhere else down the line. I can't stress how important this was for me. Make sure you handle everything you're supposed to take do first, (school, work, etc.) then you can allocate your time to your social life.

Plus, once your grades are in order, it makes you look like much more of an eligible bachelor to those dean's list yambs. Don't sleep on the smart ones, brains+body hehe .

I had lunch with this girl wed. It was alright, we ate at the on campus cafe ( her idea).. I told her I haven't seen some movie then she said 'OMG, you haven't seen it, I'm gonna have to get you to watch it sometime.' So right there I assumed she wanted to kick it again, regardless of whether or not I paid for her meal... soooo I didn't . Meh. While we were kickingg I got one of my dreads pulled by another yamb that I messed with who's super jealous that I'm trying to acquire again ( think I mentioned her in my last post.). In my head I'm just sayin 'FML I been caught, oh well'.

This girl is pretty conservative, body aint nothing special. Small chest with some booty doe. I wasn't really getting any vibes from her, plus she doesn't seem that serious bout her school so I'm definitely not trying to hold her down. She's cool though, and she loves basketball. Found out this girl is gonna be in ATL same time as me in Feb, so we'll more than likely be kicking it down there. Think I'm just gonna say, 'whatever happens, happens...except a relationship'

 

[mahnametahrone]

Last week, I used my thumb to move the tissue of the inner lips that normally covers the shaft of the ****oris, which moved the hood that protects it and made it visible. I then gently rested the apex of my tongue as it moved like a merry go round and made the legs that are resting on my shoulders move as if they were jamming. My lady then grabbed my head tight, pushing it closer while she screamed and all of the sudden made a funky noise. I couldn't tell if it was a queef or a fart since I jumped out of her legs as quick as Derrick before tearing his ACL. What happened that evening was never brought up.

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

you gonna have that pink eye cuz

 

[Peep Game]

"funky noise'

 

[rocman23]

Skype date, what do yall do on them?

 

[powerballin]

Skype date, what do yall do on them?

who tips?

 

[Y4BBZY]

who tips?

, you are actually becoming more tolerable (srs). But the new/other trolls

 

[T Lo Sweater]

anyone still rep team raw?

 

[rocman23]

Skype date, what do yall do on them?

who tips?

naw but seriously how do yall conduct them joints. what goes on, what should go on?

 

[cashusclay]

Skype date, what do yall do on them?

who tips?

naw but seriously how do yall conduct them joints. what goes on, what should go on?

First you..

Then you..

 

[shorty doo wop]

Show her your nipple than say its only fair she does the same

 

[trav t]

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

 

[jjs]

Show her your nipple than say its only fair she does the same

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

definitly not a good sign. But in this social media era and ****, expect her to do that kind of ****.

 

[Y4BBZY]

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

Sorry to be blunt brah but whenever a chick does that mor often than not she is bored and not interested and if I see that ish, I would try to end the date as soon as possible(srs). IMHO it is only acceptable when it is truly an emergency to text someone when u r on a date and in which case she would have told ya, ya dig. Just keep it moving papi, nom sayin'.

 

[mahnametahrone]

Yo, my girl likes grabbing my *** and **** in public. I feel violated

 

[Y4BBZY]

naw but seriously how do yall conduct them joints. what goes on, what should go on?

I still hope ur not srs (srs)

 

[jjs]

Yo, my girl likes grabbing my *** and **** in public. I feel violated

Do the same with her.

NO DAMBS GIVEN!

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

That **** is rude. Type of **** that'll have me not pay for the date and tell her exactly why.

If she can't sacrifice a hour from her phone, she aint worth investing time/money into.

And it might not be because you're boring, she could just be rude/inconsiderate/self-absorbed (srs)

 

[trav t]

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

definitly not a good sign. But in this social media era and ****, expect her to do that kind of ****.

If she wasn't my ride home, I would have wished her a good night and walked right out . But I called her out on it that night, and she put her phone away almost completely (other than checking driving directions) the second date.

That **** is rude. Type of **** that'll have me not pay for the date and tell her exactly why.

If she can't sacrifice a hour from her phone, she aint worth investing time/money into.

And it might not be because you're boring, she could just be rude/inconsiderate/self-absorbed (srs)

Yeah, pretty much. I have a pretty low tolerance for that kind of thing now. On future dates, I will continue to check them on it and put them in their place.

Sorry to be blunt brah but whenever a chick does that mor often than not she is bored and not interested and if I see that ish, I would try to end the date as soon as possible(srs). IMHO it is only acceptable when it is truly an emergency to text someone when u r on a date and in which case she would have told ya, ya dig. Just keep it moving papi, nom sayin'.

Yes, I agree.

 

[216301baller]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

 

[mahnametahrone]

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

Either she's on IG, or she's cheating

 

[trav t]

Lemme ask my fellow players n playettes...did I handle this correct or did I trip...background...so my fb asked me to go on a date with her...I said ill pass and she should come over instead like originally planned...I knew she was upset but I kept it rolling...sor tonite she calls me at some frat house just to say "hi"..then she calls me just asking could I pick her n her friends up from the house because their ride was too drunk...I said fine no need to be a jerk...so I get up there...some guy is hugged up on her and she flirting back...I know were just smash buddies...but its the Principle of respect right...in the whip she.tryna kiss on me I shrug her off slightly..I kept my composure no need to get upset..she asked me to come in..I said no...so then she texts me saying thanks...I said you tried to play me be gone...then she goes on n say I could of called anyone but I called you...that kinda irked me but I kept it cool..I said don't matter..then her true feelings come on she said you only want sex I tried to do something other and you declined basically saying you only want sex n she said I do whatever I want..then she says how she likes me n I'm the only one she messes with...I told her she should of thought about that before she pulled that stunt...she didn't reply...did I go overboard or did I do the right thing

Maybe I wouldn't have said the last part. But it sounds like she cares more about you than you care about her. So you should be good.

 

[trav t]

Girl texting away on her phone during a date. Am I the only one who finds this super rude and a red flag?

Either she's on IG, or she's cheating

She's not my girl, so it's not cheating. What's IG?