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Yeah it took me 38 mins to go 6 miles last night lol.
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She know where you live? Just block her.
What she doesn't know will not hurt her.
You say something to your current lady about being in contact with your ex even if you deaded the convo and watch you get that work.
Matter of fact, delete that text because if she comes across it, you will get that work.
Now if you are confident in your relationship that you feel your current won't spazz out and you both have strong communication skills, still don't tell her because you will get that work.
Women say they love honesty until you totally tell them all the truth and watch their demeanor change up. If it's not affecting you guys right now, let it be. The only time I would bring this up would be if it's going to physically harm her and destroy your well being, other then that block her and Diddy bop and continue living your life.
OG once told me:
"You can have the most positive relationship.
Knowledge, love, respect, loyalty, all of that but everybody has secrets in a relationship. It just depends on the weight of the secrecy and the harm it will do. Choose your battles and determine what actions are needed to be discussed that will not harm or hurt the other persons pysche or feelings. Other then that, let that ish ride"
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20 miles though. Im 15 miles from the closest grocery store and gym... if you really not willing to do that you def dont want to be in a relationship
Depends on the city
20 miles isn't the same in every city
I wouldn't date someone who lived 20 miles away in SoCal
In the most spread out metropolitan city in the world 20 miles would be ur limit?
Question for my black brothers. Do you find it difficult kissing white women that dont have full lips? I feel like im kissing a damn duck
Sometimes im kissing the nose and ****. How do you deal with it?
haha my most recent girl had small lips compared to mine, but honestly the white girls i've kissed are the best kissers so they know how to handle it. they pucker up extra hard. and when frenchingthey got bigger than I do..
You and the wife on break my G or she gave that hall pass?
I personally wouldnt get too involved in her situation. Women want to vent so hear her out, but I wouldnt give advice.So I need some advice here bruhs
I've been talking to my ex-coworker even tho she has a man but lately has been throwing all sorts of signs at me so why not . But I guess a day or two ago she tells me that her & her bf broke up & she's hitting my phone on what to do .
I told her simply I can't help with that situation , so my question is how do I go about this ?
So I need some advice here bruhs
I've been talking to my ex-coworker even tho she has a man but lately has been throwing all sorts of signs at me so why not . But I guess a day or two ago she tells me that her & her bf broke up & she's hitting my phone on what to do .
I told her simply I can't help with that situation , so my question is how do I go about this ?
Unfortunately can't mess with my main hobbies of bball and lifting due to a few nagging injuries that I'll be starting to rehabilitate soon. Makes things suck ALOT more since physical fitness is really important to me and a great outlet, and instead of getting sexy for this warm weather I've just been deflating a littleHobbies bro. Weights, cars, games, music/ instruments, parties. You can either fill your void from within.. or get out with your peeps and fill it with new friends. No other way you'll get over it quick.
As u TAYers might know...
I'm having trouble getting over my ex. I know she's not doing great with our breakup either. Thing is that I had a minor incident of cheating, but she dumped me before finding out about that. I think we both kind of want to get back together. But both of us are hurt. I cheated on her so she can't ask to have me back. And my pride is hurt because it's like you dumped me before even finding out about that instead of trying to stick it out in our relationship together and make it work with me.
Maybe I'm forgetting the things that led to our breakup, because at the time it was really understandable that she broke it off. But now I'm just starting to feel like if you didn't want to be with me then F you, and just moving on.
I've been focused on my main life objective at the moment, which is to be capable of making myself happy alone. Been working on two things I'd kind of been putting off while I was with her that are integral to me achieving that. One of which is my passion. I feel like a lot of us use women as a crutch, but that lowers the ceiling of how happy we can ultimately be. If we can find happiness alone, we can find that much more of it when the right woman comes by. Thing is, as far as dating quality women goes, it's EXTREMELY difficult for me to connect with women. And on top of it even meet quality yambs. But yea I've been avoiding just going and smashing whatever. I know that won't do anything for me. And yea we were pretty deep. Pretty early on we thought we found our "soulmates" and were planning on spending our lives together.Let me give you the playbook so you don't **** up like I did.As u TAYers might know...
I'm having trouble getting over my ex. I know she's not doing great with our breakup either. Thing is that I had a minor incident of cheating, but she dumped me before finding out about that. I think we both kind of want to get back together. But both of us are hurt. I cheated on her so she can't ask to have me back. And my pride is hurt because it's like you dumped me before even finding out about that instead of trying to stick it out in our relationship together and make it work with me.
Maybe I'm forgetting the things that led to our breakup, because at the time it was really understandable that she broke it off. But now I'm just starting to feel like if you didn't want to be with me then F you, and just moving on.
-She dumped you, walk away. No contact on holidays, birthdays none of that. Tell her you need this time if you have to. If she loved you, she won't forget you. You need to be over this and even when she comes back around
-Get into your hobbies, your goals, get some exercise, socialize. Stay busy with the goal being to get yourself back and have a clear mind and conscience, NOT to get her back. Basically, become a better person
Ya'll sound like you were deep, she will pop her head back in, it's best to have covered all of that so you're emotionally stable. When she does, no chit chat over the phone, no text tag, just set up a meet. Have fun on the date, try to sleep with her again, let it be natural. Now here's where I and most other dudes in this position **** up. Your mind tricks you back into the texting and calling and all that like you're still together, robbing her of the chase, not being aggressive because you don't want to scare her off. She now knows she can have you, and the slightest bit of overpersuing will trigger her negative memory of you and she'll fade to black again. Don't do that, just wash, rinse, repeat the bolded until she's texting and talking to you constantly. Don't bug her the next day about the date, just have some patience and let her hit you up, and again wash, rinse, repeat the bolded until she's yours. It's going to be tough living as if it's over, and if she does come around, tough not to fall into old habits. But stay true to it and it's your best course of action.
And there's no timeline on her returning, weeks, months, a year. If she never does, it should be clear to you that there really wasn't any love, and moving on was for the best. Don't waste time pining when you could be becoming great. What's more attractive, the best version of you, or the pining mess?
Also important, date quality women in your time apart, learn with each one. The bottom scrapings don't help much.
I honestly do think she is upset and heartbroken right now though. She's an artist who'd always share pictures and things on social media and has been virtually inactive on everything since. Aside from posting a song by the one group we both liked, then one of her best friends yesterday posted a song on her wall by them too which is about taking a break and needing time apart in a relationship with a wink face. There were pics posted of her father and sister's birthday and she didn't show her face in any. Hasn't been a single pic of her put up since we broke off a month ago. I randomly checked this app we'd only use to talk to one another about 2 weeks after we broke up and saw she'd last logged in a week before i checked. Then went back on 2 days later and saw she'd been on the day before. Then went on again 2 days later and saw she'd been on the day before again. All at around 2-3 am. I haven't been on since then, because I kind of got the point. I think she's attempting to send me a sign.How about instead of pondering on women that are not in your life anymore, write down a vision for your life.
It's always hard when somebody you genuinely cared for has departed from your life and things didn't work out the way you planned it, but you are doing a disservice to yourself.
If you honestly think these females are sitting around crying about you or playing the guessing game, stop thinking that right now.
Once again I'm not a religious man, but when things don't work out take that as a sign from Allah, Buddah, God, Black Jesus, Blonde Jesus, Ghostface Killah, Tupac, Biggie, whomever as maybe a more fruitful relationship is out there for you.
Live your life, make good with your demons/guilt and let nature and the universe take its course. This is not to say to go out and smash rando's or build teams. This is to say find something tangible, find your purpose, start building your legacy and stop worrying about these females. It's so many things to experience and women are in the 1 percental. Enjoy your youth, independence, family and friends instead of being a Woulda-Shoulda-Coulda *** Ninja.
How about volunteer, pick up a damn book, fix something, enjoy your life my dudes. Found out recently a Homie back home found pollops in his colon. Hoping for the best but even he said:
"I wasted so much time partying, ******* bishes but Now I'm facing my on mortality and I'm scared". Hearing a grown man cry is the worst.
Don't get to that point brethren and stop feeling bad because your situation and feelings(although valid) mean absolutely nothing in the bigger scheme of life.
Cut them BISHES off and let them live as you should do the same. You are not guaranteed anything in this life but death.
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20 miles though. Im 15 miles from the closest grocery store and gym... if you really not willing to do that you def dont want to be in a relationship
Depends on the city
20 miles isn't the same in every city
I wouldn't date someone who lived 20 miles away in SoCal
It's not tricky at all, just listen (or pretend to listen) and have wild sex. Seriously, don't fall for her or worry your damn self about her problems, just enjoy the rebound sex. I feel like it's going way over your head what she's trying to do. She just wants company and sex, women will never go about it in a logical way.
Yeah it took me 38 mins to go 6 miles last night lol.
It's not tricky at all, just listen (or pretend to listen) and have wild sex. Seriously, don't fall for her or worry your damn self about her problems, just enjoy the rebound sex. I feel like it's going way over your head what she's trying to do. She just wants company and sex, women will never go about it in a logical way.
20 miles though. Im 15 miles from the closest grocery store and gym... if you really not willing to do that you def dont want to be in a relationship
Depends on the city
20 miles isn't the same in every city
I wouldn't date someone who lived 20 miles away in SoCal
Because traffic? You're telling me if a bomb girl gave you play, and yall got serious you'll end it?
... thought so. You cant conrtol how far someone you like/love lives. You'll have to determine if they're worth the trip. Now a fling, I can understand.
Going through that period, worrying about you is the toughest thing to do, but it's what you have to. You will have moments of regression, you will have to cry it out every now and then, but move forward like she'll never be a part of your life again. Contacting her again will set you back to square one, guaranteed.No contact, deleting her pics, unfriending etc is for your health man.