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Was just thinking about that but it is still a headache to argue with the ones you love but tell others to kick rocks.
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Bruce Banner
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You'll never win arguing with a female .
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i need to start posting in here for 2015.
new year, new yambz
new year, new yambz
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You can win it just comes down to is it worth it
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I went from an Audi A6 to a chevy hatchback yeah sure my car is way less sexy but, my girl now looks way better than what I was pulling then and my money is in my pocket not in my mechanics. Like several in here have said, you stunt when you can. So much better cars can be had for that range in price.
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fontaine
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Now that me and the lady are getting serious...
My jump off criteria has dramatically changed
1. Can't get in my bed. Main sleeps there.
2. No more than 7 days texting
3. No saved numbers
4. No one from the southern part of Dallas... Meaning i-30 on down(she's from that area)
4. No chicks within 2 years (over and under) in age of my chick
5. No social media friendships, follows, etc
6. No dates or going out in public
7. If I come scoop you, I take alternate routes and do it at night
8. Always be open about having a main chick within the first day of texting
9. Go very easy on pursuit of yambs... Very easy.
10. Never neglect mains time for JO time
11. Text from Google voice number
12. My name is Reggie
Seems like a lot...
But taking these steps has really made my heart at ease..
Been cleaning up my JO list using these rule for about 2 months now and I'm SO detached from the yambs... Feelsgoodmayne
My jump off criteria has dramatically changed
1. Can't get in my bed. Main sleeps there.
2. No more than 7 days texting
3. No saved numbers
4. No one from the southern part of Dallas... Meaning i-30 on down(she's from that area)
4. No chicks within 2 years (over and under) in age of my chick
5. No social media friendships, follows, etc
6. No dates or going out in public
7. If I come scoop you, I take alternate routes and do it at night
8. Always be open about having a main chick within the first day of texting
9. Go very easy on pursuit of yambs... Very easy.
10. Never neglect mains time for JO time
11. Text from Google voice number
12. My name is Reggie
Seems like a lot...
But taking these steps has really made my heart at ease..
Been cleaning up my JO list using these rule for about 2 months now and I'm SO detached from the yambs... Feelsgoodmayne
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I pretty much stopped pursuing yambs - will still if I'm drunk 
- but I really want to get to the point where I'm confident in my ability to turn down easy P that's thrown at me. I'm likely to be engaged by the end of this year so I wanna get better
- but I really want to get to the point where I'm confident in my ability to turn down easy P that's thrown at me. I'm likely to be engaged by the end of this year so I wanna get better
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You can def win an argument with a female. Best way to win an arguement is to state what you have to say...and literally fall back. Females begin to question themselves when you do it, and eventually realize they are in the wrong, and will contact you...while you are enjoying some well deserved alone time. Don't cave in.
Arguing with females generally isn't worth it though. I'm opinionated and hate to hold my tongue.
Body count for 2014 is probably around 25- 30. I hit about 2 new chicks on average a month...and had some good weekends [emoji]128526[/emoji].
For 2015....I'm either going to do right by my ex. She's been waiting on me for a year now and I keep blowing off a real relationship (we are extremely compatible....but I can't shake the feeling I'm settling)...or find a very good looking girl that's not crazy.
Yambs chasing starting to get old, but I need to take the down the caliber of a few of those chicks in the black women thread.
Arguing with females generally isn't worth it though. I'm opinionated and hate to hold my tongue.
Body count for 2014 is probably around 25- 30. I hit about 2 new chicks on average a month...and had some good weekends [emoji]128526[/emoji].
For 2015....I'm either going to do right by my ex. She's been waiting on me for a year now and I keep blowing off a real relationship (we are extremely compatible....but I can't shake the feeling I'm settling)...or find a very good looking girl that's not crazy.
Yambs chasing starting to get old, but I need to take the down the caliber of a few of those chicks in the black women thread.
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Does anyone here take time off the yambs?
Like, I keep stumbling on yambs and I've been feeling like even when you're not looking the yambs are such a distraction.
At the same time, it's like your around these chicks that are bad and you know if you shoot your shot the numbers are in your favor.
But then you shoot your shot and your texting and going out of your way to make plans during times where you're usually just at the crib building your empire and ****.
I got alot of stuff on my new years resolution list, and I really feel like yambs aren't anywhere near it. A six pack, more money, and a nicer apartment are though. I say all this, but like I said i always end up running into chicks and then the whole distraction starts again and I always get pissed at myself about it.
So, I guess my question is this:
How can I successfully ignore the yambs without being totally celibate or straight up avoiding what comes to me?
Like, I keep stumbling on yambs and I've been feeling like even when you're not looking the yambs are such a distraction.
At the same time, it's like your around these chicks that are bad and you know if you shoot your shot the numbers are in your favor.
But then you shoot your shot and your texting and going out of your way to make plans during times where you're usually just at the crib building your empire and ****.
I got alot of stuff on my new years resolution list, and I really feel like yambs aren't anywhere near it. A six pack, more money, and a nicer apartment are though. I say all this, but like I said i always end up running into chicks and then the whole distraction starts again and I always get pissed at myself about it.
So, I guess my question is this:
How can I successfully ignore the yambs without being totally celibate or straight up avoiding what comes to me?
sonoftony
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I feel you brah. I'm back in school and I also need to get my **** right for myself. If you want, find that one consistent yamb to avoid being celibate.
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These things you guys mentioned lead to better inner peace, which actually improves your game. Nothing wrong with a break, get your **** right and your yamb game will def be better.
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I guess, for me at least, it's like I don't know HOW to do that. Like, I don't know how to turn down yambs or not get at a chick who's throwing me vibes without feeling like I'm punking out or missing out on something or being a lame.
Hell, it's tough for me to NOT think about a chick I dig, which is why i end up frustrated feelin all distracted and ****
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Turn down? Hell nah. Just don't do any active pursuing till you're ready to. The only real time I've ever shut off completely is when I was heartbroken.
36 ounces
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so it's cool to just take things slow on platonic level then gradually advance when ready?
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Yeaaaaa "winning" an argument is so irritating. I have proven my girl wrong on a number of occasions but she rarely admits to anything because she comes up with some bull reason why it's okay.
Most of the times I just be like whatever bro
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Anyone date a woman with anger issues, like punching and biting type steeze. I am not gonna front it moved a little when she was snapping.
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YEAH It's awesome til you cop that priceless Vase and clear plastic shoeboxes and you like glass shelving and desks. Do not wife.
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my ex used to throw ish, didn't like that at all man.
now i do get a lil movement whenever i hear an island girl goin' off. i remember when i used to teach this girl's mom had a strong west indian accent and she was close to ugly but I loved to hear her talk
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That physical violence stuff nah I never rocked with it.
But the yelling w/ the accent >>>>>
Instantly makes me want to kiss her
But the yelling w/ the accent >>>>>
Instantly makes me want to kiss her
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So to you married Nters (idk where to ask this)
How did you guys propose to your girl?
How did you guys propose to your girl?
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It's all fun till she really violates you, you react and then you read your next post from jail wifi.
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