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There's this lady that I know that goes to UCLA - I have known her since my junior year of college but haven't gotten around to being her friend.. yetalone, interact or socialize with her at all. The closest thing that we both have been to communicating is when we would randomly pass by each other and sayhello/goodbye during passing periods or at lunch.
So this past Tuesday night, I was pretty bored with nothing to do so I got on AIM and I happened to see her online (we've also had each others screen namesfor a while). I thought to myself, "Well, I have nothing to lose here!" so I went ahead and sent her an IM letting her who it was and what was up. Itturns out that we ended up chatting it up from 11PM to almost 2AM!
We ended up talking about a lot of random things.. about how we never got around to being friends, school, music and other interesting things. Although nothinghas been said yet, I think we were hella flirting. I have heard a lot from her friends and peers about her being shy, never having a boyfriend and being pickywith who she likes.. but a part of me is telling me, "#+%@ it. She's diggin you.. See what's up with her!"
I talked to her again on AIM last night and we pretty much vibed the whole time.. talking about funny and also some deep %** topics. Basically, our wholeconversation led to her telling me that she'd like me to visit her at UCLA.. and she said that even if I couldn't, it was no big deal. I can definitelyfeel that she's either diggin' me or really down to be a friend.. see what's up with me. I feel the same way.. now I just need some advice on howto go about things in the future.
Do y'all think it'd be too early or awkward to ask for her phone number online? Do you think it'd be a good idea to visit her at her school withinthe next few weeks? NT, help a brother out!
So this past Tuesday night, I was pretty bored with nothing to do so I got on AIM and I happened to see her online (we've also had each others screen namesfor a while). I thought to myself, "Well, I have nothing to lose here!" so I went ahead and sent her an IM letting her who it was and what was up. Itturns out that we ended up chatting it up from 11PM to almost 2AM!
We ended up talking about a lot of random things.. about how we never got around to being friends, school, music and other interesting things. Although nothinghas been said yet, I think we were hella flirting. I have heard a lot from her friends and peers about her being shy, never having a boyfriend and being pickywith who she likes.. but a part of me is telling me, "#+%@ it. She's diggin you.. See what's up with her!"
I talked to her again on AIM last night and we pretty much vibed the whole time.. talking about funny and also some deep %** topics. Basically, our wholeconversation led to her telling me that she'd like me to visit her at UCLA.. and she said that even if I couldn't, it was no big deal. I can definitelyfeel that she's either diggin' me or really down to be a friend.. see what's up with me. I feel the same way.. now I just need some advice on howto go about things in the future.
Do y'all think it'd be too early or awkward to ask for her phone number online? Do you think it'd be a good idea to visit her at her school withinthe next few weeks? NT, help a brother out!
