If you dont mind me asking, how do you think this has played into the outcomes of your own personal experiences? Like descriptively. How do you believe things have manifested in your life to produce the outcomes youve gotten in terms of intergender dynamics?
Another great question Fam.
For me, it's been a real process.
I've gone from fear, anger, resentment, and anxiety to confidence, respect, humility, and gratefulness.
I had to unlearn lots of BS I believed when I was younger, step back, and realize that people are just people.
Working on myself, being responsible, taking accountability, and becoming a man, unapologetically.
Military career, being around other masculine men, in life-or-death situations, investing in my own growth, comparing notes with my peers, etc.
Once I divided folks into "modern" and "traditional" it got easier for me to navigate the dating world.
My expectations for a traditional woman diverged from my expectations for a modern woman.
I had to realize that when it comes to women's business a man will always be a student, started taking notes on female nature, and really learning what it takes to commit to a long-lasting healthy committed relationship with a good woman. Luckily I've met a few good female friends along the way that helped a great deal in my understanding.
Most of all not take things personally.
As for outcomes, I know that it's on me to be the best version of myself in honor of my family and most of all my Creator.
To live a good life as a decent man.
If I find a woman to share my life with then great.
My purpose however isn't women, but being a good man and leaving this place at least a little better than I found it by treating others (male or female) the way I'd want to be treated.