I guess you had to grow up in Queens or that part of Queens or just southside Queens.
I don't care how many different types of people I see living in Howard Beach these days it will always be the racist part that I remember growing up. A good few years ago I was giving my girl driving/parking lessons and we ended up out there around where the jogger girl got killed because it was a break from the normal Laurelton for us and it was spacious for her. I was surprised to see indian's, asians, blacks, punjabi's, etc. living around there my eyes almost rolled to my back of my head I was in such disbelief and some other's I knew I asked about it and they said it changed now and all the old racists moved or what not.
I never had good memories from out there when growing up it was always issues everytime we went there be it basketball, trying to fish, etc. Forget it if you were messing with one of those italian chicks oh man, problems and those bastards were hating hard. It was always tough though because just like towns in Long Island if you get into problems you're outnumbered, you're taking a L, they all roll deep, and they all band together when outsiders come around and there are issues. When cops roll around you're automatically at fault because you're looked at as if you shouldn't even be around those parts to begin with.
To this day I don't feel comfortable going to New Park Pizza because I feel they might spit in my food or something. I don't feel like that with coldstone right across the street though I guess because it's minorities in there serving you ice cream.
I guess it's being a minority be it black, brown, hispanic, asian whatever we see things differently compared to others and especially if we encountered racism. Some say oh you guys just make this stuff up in your head or you go looking to be singled out, but it's not man I/we just know about the BS from experience and we all deal with it in different ways.