Official NT dad thread: can the dads get love

He's young enough to where you do have a simple solution at your disposal: let him tear open whatever presents he's given and then hide away whatever you don't want him to have.
A month from now, he's not going to be like, "Hey, wait a second, I remember opening a cap gun and then it disappeared. I want to play with that. Where did it go?"

That's short-term.
Long term, I don't know your personality, but I know exactly what I would do, and it doesn't involve considering Pops' feelings.
But if you did want to consider his feelings and also draw a hard line: "Moving forward, let's establish a pattern of you checking with us on anything you want buy him. The thought, money, & energy is definitely appreciated, but we want to make sure that it's something we're okay with him having."
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Man I honestly dont give a damb about his feelings. Im just trying to keep things between cordial between my wife and her dad. At the same time, I want to limit the negative influences in my son’s life so it’s a fine line to tow. Appreciate the advice.
 
Had a crazy dream about my eldest daughter last night. Someone was scolding her while we were checking out at hotel. I was looking for the mf voice on some 187 **** but couldn't see his ***. Then I woke up. Just called her up and she said she was out late but was safe at her gma crib. Man that **** was crazy
 
You guys know Israel has killed more than 16000 children over the past year? Sixteen thousand children. And I mean killed, like murdered, like face , guts, brain all out.

Think about that next time you cuddling your little one to sleep. Or dropping them off to daycare, or to school.

Picture a drone flying over their daycare while they run around, dropping an explosive on them.

Think about their helplessness as innocent children. And think deeply about it.

“The survey found that 92% of children were “not accepting of reality”, 79% suffered from nightmares, and 73% displayed symptoms of aggression. Other psychological responses included fear, anxiety, social withdrawal, and difficulty concentrating.

The trauma has left many children with ongoing emotional distress, behavioural changes, and eating issues, while physical symptoms such as pain are also manifesting.

Impact on Gaza’s Children: A Generation at Risk
The war’s impact is compounded by the destruction of homes, schools, and hospitals. Over 60% of the children surveyed had been exposed to at least one traumatic event, and some experienced multiple instances of violence, including airstrikes, displacement, and separation from their families.

An estimated 17,000 children in Gaza are unaccompanied, separated from their parents due to the conflict. These children are at increased risk of abuse, exploitation, and serious violations of their rights, the report warned. “Being separated from their families places these children at a heightened risk,” it stated, emphasizing that such trauma can persist long after hostilities cease.”
 
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