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I was being rough but I just meant you are getting played by some chick that is half a decade younger than you
I know this may be repetitive, but don't text/call her, let her do that
Don't give her the attention that she wants
Go on Tinder or out to a bar and hit up some chicks
should just dead it asap man. Save yourself the time. The chick has already showed you signs that she's fickle and is willing to play you, or any other guy that gives her attention, just to go back and get smashed by her ex. That's not wifey material man, red flags all over the place. If you truly can't let go with her and enjoy the friendship then be just that.. friends. Over time she'll mature, and you will to. But now isn't the time to be messing with her heavy. Let the world consume her bruh.I just think that texts here and there are harmless, like it's gon' fade out soon.
should just dead it asap man. Save yourself the time. The chick has already showed you signs that she's fickle and is willing to play you, or any other guy that gives her attention, just to go back and get smashed by her ex. That's not wifey material man, red flags all over the place. If you truly can't let go with her and enjoy the friendship then be just that.. friends. Over time she'll mature, and you will to. But now isn't the time to be messing with her heavy. Let the world consume her bruh.
should just dead it asap man. Save yourself the time. The chick has already showed you signs that she's fickle and is willing to play you, or any other guy that gives her attention, just to go back and get smashed by her ex. That's not wifey material man, red flags all over the place. If you truly can't let go with her and enjoy the friendship then be just that.. friends. Over time she'll mature, and you will to. But now isn't the time to be messing with her heavy. Let the world consume her bruh.
This dude don't get it.
Let him be a sucker.
Same way you can't save these boes, same thing for these suckers.
/thread.
Bro you just a rebound, something to pass time while she still hung up on her ex....seems like you will easily catch feelings hence this thread, so my advice is to abort and avoid a situation where you will be left hurt.
The next day she texts me that her ex hit her up to come over and he got his, if you know what I mean. If you don't, she gave it up to him A.K.A. they had sex.
This had me weak LOL
Smash her ex
Im telling you
And in typical NT fashion, OP disregards the advice from the consensus and opts to do his own damn thing anyway.
Love these threads, it's like we're sitting in a giant circle. These topics really show how much of a community this is, where people from all over the world come in and drop dimes about everyday life.
My take :
Women, are very illogical beings.
Alot of their decisions, especially those concerning their relationships (be it friends, lovers etc), are based on emotion.
She was probably feeling you, yet still feeling her Ex. Her Ex did not supply the things she wanted at the time ; Conversation, Being their emotionally, just someone to chill and talk to.
You were there to do that for her. You were there for her.
She appreciated that.
Then she started thinking about the good times with her X
And remembered how the D was
And when her hotline bling'd, it only meant one thing.
Son layed the pipe like ol' times, sold her the dream that everything was gonna be like before.
Now she's confused.
She probably genuinely likes you, but her immature mind doesn't allow her to make a real decision.
Whatever the case, you need to remove yourself EMOTIONALLY, from this situation.
Play this chick out. Smash it, dont return texts, then hit her hotline on some fake lovey dovey. Blam it out and back to business. Be a dog Grrr
Or you could just stop associating yourself with this person.
Like someone said before, we all been there.
I don't like seeing men struggle with female's games.
Love these threads, it's like we're sitting in a giant circle. These topics really show how much of a community this is, where people from all over the world come in and drop dimes about everyday life.
My take :
Women, are very illogical beings.
Alot of their decisions, especially those concerning their relationships (be it friends, lovers etc), are based on emotion.
She was probably feeling you, yet still feeling her Ex. Her Ex did not supply the things she wanted at the time ; Conversation, Being their emotionally, just someone to chill and talk to.
You were there to do that for her. You were there for her.
She appreciated that.
Then she started thinking about the good times with her X
And remembered how the D was
And when her hotline bling'd, it only meant one thing.
Son layed the pipe like ol' times, sold her the dream that everything was gonna be like before.
Now she's confused.
She probably genuinely likes you, but her immature mind doesn't allow her to make a real decision.
Whatever the case, you need to remove yourself EMOTIONALLY, from this situation.
Play this chick out. Smash it, dont return texts, then hit her hotline on some fake lovey dovey. Blam it out and back to business. Be a dog Grrr
Or you could just stop associating yourself with this person.
Like someone said before, we all been there.
I don't like seeing men struggle with female's games.
Smash her ex
Im telling you
How to dominate the male species.What specifically do you wanna know?
EDIT: So many reps given on this page.
How to dominate the male species.What specifically do you wanna know?
EDIT: So many reps given on this page.
How to dominate the male species.
How to dominate the male species.What specifically do you wanna know?
EDIT: So many reps given on this page.
A lot of game being dropped in here.
But this is really just a bunch of over analyzation for a naive college freshman who just wanted the D from OP and he out here taking her out on dates and ****.
OP has a full fledged career (I'm assuming) and she still asks her parents for money every other week. Y'all in here talking about heartbreak and ****.. How did y'all even meet OP?
Just hit her up as an alternative to beating your meat. That's really the only connection you should have with her.
So back in early October, I met this chick. She's a freshman at the local university.
We started kickin' it and things were great after like two weeks, but then we didn't see each other for like a month and randomly she hits me up again.
We start kickin' it, she starts staying over and we start getting close and what not and about a month passes. We hadn't determined what we were yet, as far as a relationship.
She's definitely feelin' it and is pushing for us to be together, but I was just playin' it cool, I don't know why, but I just didn't want to rush.
Well, last Thursday we go out to eat, it's chill cause my roommate is with us eating too and they get to talking about hella deep relationship stuff and after dinner she gets emotional and wants to go home.
I'm talkin' it out with her in the car and she starts crying cause she misses her ex that broke up with her a few months back. At first I was like aw hail naw, but then I was like nah it's whatever. So I dropped her off and she was texting me that night like "I'm sorry for acting this way"
Well here it is,
The next day she texts me that her ex hit her up to come over and he got his, if you know what I mean. If you don't, she gave it up to him A.K.A. they had sex.
The cool thing about her, is that she was honest with me, or at least it seemed like it...
She got mad at me because I wasn't being understanding enough haha I was like you trippin' I'm done with this!! and she told me to not talk to her...
Now the weekend has passed, she's tried to call me, sent me a snapchat and just now has sent me a text.
If you was in the same situation, would you give shawty another chance?
I mean, it wasn't like she cheated or something, we hadn't committed yet.
Should I respond or just let it go?
Smash her ex. That'll teach her a lesson
I knew the situation as soon as you said she went dark zero thirty after two weeks of kicking it. Then I read the rest and confirmed my suspicions.
I'm not gonna give you advise, because you already know what you're gonna do. You just want someone to validate that. But you already made the choice to, and don't take this the wrong way, be her sucka when you were taking her on dates and not beating the stuffing outta that thang. She allowed you a two week window to smash/tested you and you tried to wife her up.
Well, she just got off the wife train, so you proved to be useless. She can hit old dude up for those types of emotions and D. Get it? You were supposed to be her transition, but instead became the b grade version of her man.
I'm an older dude on here so I'll drop some gems on you:
--ALWAYS think like a PIMP, just don't always act like one
--Women are not magical creatures, they're human just like you... even the bad ones
--Only trust YOURSELF 100%
--Women ALWAYS have a backup plan
--The realler you are with them and sincere in your idgaf attitude/you can replace her vibe (not words) the more loyal they'll be and that will still never be 100% loyal
--Women want what other women want, so stay sharp and wanted
Good luck.