NT you've never failed me.

[robtoofresco]

 

Update:

We started talkin' again and this is what I'm doing.

She's tryin' to act all lovey dovey again, but I ain't wid it.

Be careful next time you kiss that broad you don't end with pubs in your mouth.
 

OP when this inevitably happens:

 

[a blinkin]

You aren't emotionally invested so you can get rid of her easily now.

Like hell he isn't emotionally invested.

Only emotions could blind a person to the painfully obvious truths that shorty is showing him. He'll continue to smash in the attempt to convince himself that he's not investing anything into the broad, but I personally think he'll end up trying to save her.

 

[a blinkin]

Don't know why, but I foresee OP doubling back and convincing himself that he's "just trying to smash". Then feelings will be caught.


Prove me wrong, OP.

Called it on page 3.

 

[sole blessed]

View media item 1845895 mrgrapes85 OP!!!!!!!! DON'T DO IT

 

[Mark Antony]

And in typical NT fashion, OP disregards the advice from the consensus and opts to do his own damn thing anyway.

you already knew when he bypassed most advice, quoting the ones with a little bit of empathy, thinking that was his go ahead.

 

[bossplaya]

In most situations like op had..... dudes will do what they want to in the end.... doesn't matter what kind of advice dude gets

 

[sole blessed]

In most situations like op had..... dudes will do what they want to in the end.... doesn't matter what kind of advice dude gets

And everyone will ignore his coming back to simp and remind him you ignored our help

 

[a blinkin]

Thing is, most of us have "been there". Knowing a chick is probably bad news for us, knowing its best to leave her alone, but convincing ourselves of whatever we need to in order not to cut her off. We've all seen this story play out in our personal lives. OP makes a thread called "NT you've never failed me" only to go against the advice that's offered. Off the strength of the title alone, you'd think there'd be a different outcome.

 

[EddieDoyers]

I wouldn't give OP a pass
He's 24, he should know how these young women work, especially one that is 5-6 years younger than him
He's allowing himself to get pimped out when he should be the pimp

 

[sole blessed]

I wouldn't give OP a pass
He's 24, he should know how these young women work, especially one that is 5-6 years younger than him
He's allowing himself to get pimped out when he should be the pimp

Mannnn If That Doesn't Hit Op Like A Sack Of Bricks.....

 

[Mark Antony]

Well atleast he's not curled up on a bed next to a chick and her male bff listening to the sweet sounds of slurptunes from his longtime homegirl on another dude on the floor.

 

[flesh prince]

I don't understand how you expect for a college freshman to do anything other than get smutted out.

 

[dh1water]

Well here it is,

The next day she texts me that her ex hit her up to come over and he got his, if you know what I mean. If you don't, she gave it up to him A.K.A. they had sex.

The cool thing about her, is 

i don't knw why the way you described this is so funny to me, but breh you a wild one for considering some **** like this. 

 

[hennessy]

I don't understand how you expect for a college freshman student to do anything other than get smutted out.

 

[EddieDoyers]

Mannnn If That Doesn't Hit Op Like A Sack Of Bricks.....

The guy already got hit with reality

Problem is that he's still talking to her and is in denial
And now he's getting ****ed by a girl that doesn't know what she wants other than slong in her mouth

 

[sole blessed]

i don't knw why the way you described this is so funny to me, but breh you a wild one for considering some **** like this. 

Sounded like something a nerdy kid would say while pushing his oversized glasses back like Yall They Just Did The Sex

 

[Black Lotus]

 

[Sir San Diego]

I feel this is very applicable for women regarding men, but can you give me a more female friendly version of this wisdom. k thanks.

What specifically do you wanna know?

EDIT: So many reps given on this page.

 

[mrgrapes85]

My dude , where dat pic at doe.......

And in typical NT fashion, OP disregards the advice from the consensus and opts to do his own damn thing anyway.

Nah man, I haven't seen her yet haha

When she get back I'm gonna tell how it is, that I don't wanna keep going that route.

 

[dathbgboy]

Thing is, most of us have "been there". Knowing a chick is probably bad news for us, knowing its best to leave her alone, but convincing ourselves of whatever we need to in order not to cut her off. We've all seen this story play out in our personal lives. OP makes a thread called "NT you've never failed me" only to go against the advice that's offered. Off the strength of the title alone, you'd think there'd be a different outcome.

Not most, but some of us have been there. The rest of us have smartened up before it was too late and may have kept her around just for the yambs but never really engaged emotionally w/ her.

You disappointed us OP, thought you were smarter than this, kinda wish the spot would've gotten blown up now w/ the lurker bull introducin shorty to this trhead

 

[d nice]

I knew the situation as soon as you said she went dark zero thirty after two weeks of kicking it. Then I read the rest and confirmed my suspicions.

I'm not gonna give you advise, because you already know what you're gonna do. You just want someone to validate that. But you already made the choice to, and don't take this the wrong way, be her sucka when you were taking her on dates and not beating the stuffing outta that thang. She allowed you a two week window to smash/tested you and you tried to wife her up.

Well, she just got off the wife train, so you proved to be useless. She can hit old dude up for those types of emotions and D. Get it? You were supposed to be her transition, but instead became the b grade version of her man.

I'm an older dude on here so I'll drop some gems on you:

--ALWAYS think like a PIMP, just don't always act like one
--Women are not magical creatures, they're human just like you... even the bad ones
--Only trust YOURSELF 100%
--Women ALWAYS have a backup plan
--The realler you are with them and sincere in your idgaf attitude/you can replace her vibe (not words) the more loyal they'll be and that will still never be 100% loyal
--Women want what other women want, so stay sharp and wanted

Good luck.

Spittin that izm

 

[mrgrapes85]

I wouldn't give OP a pass
He's 24, he should know how these young women work, especially one that is 5-6 years younger than him
He's allowing himself to get pimped out when he should be the pimp

How am I being pimped tho?!

like where'd you get that idea from?

 

[EddieDoyers]

How am I being pimped tho?!

like where'd you get that idea from?

I was being rough but I just meant you are getting played by some chick that is half a decade younger than you

I know this may be repetitive, but don't text/call her, let her do that
Don't give her the attention that she wants
Go on Tinder or out to a bar and hit up some chicks

 

[gridebounca11]

Love these threads, it's like we're sitting in a giant circle. These topics really show how much of a community this is, where people from all over the world come in and drop dimes about everyday life.

My take :

Women, are very illogical beings.

Alot of their decisions, especially those concerning their relationships (be it friends, lovers etc), are based on emotion.

She was probably feeling you, yet still feeling her Ex. Her Ex did not supply the things she wanted at the time ; Conversation, Being their emotionally, just someone to chill and talk to.

You were there to do that for her. You were there for her.

She appreciated that.

Then she started thinking about the good times with her X

And remembered how the D was

And when her hotline bling'd, it only meant one thing.

Son layed the pipe like ol' times, sold her the dream that everything was gonna be like before.

Now she's confused.

She probably genuinely likes you, but her immature mind doesn't allow her to make a real decision.

Whatever the case, you need to remove yourself EMOTIONALLY, from this situation.

Play this chick out. Smash it, dont return texts, then hit her hotline on some fake lovey dovey. Blam it out and back to business. Be a dog Grrr

Or you could just stop associating yourself with this person.

Like someone said before, we all been there.

I don't like seeing men struggle with female's games.

 

[EddieDoyers]

Love these threads, it's like we're sitting in a giant circle. These topics really show how much of a community this is, where people from all over the world come in and drop dimes about everyday life.

My take :

Women, are very illogical beings.

Alot of their decisions, especially those concerning their relationships (be it friends, lovers etc), are based on emotion.

She was probably feeling you, yet still feeling her Ex. Her Ex did not supply the things she wanted at the time ; Conversation, Being their emotionally, just someone to chill and talk to.

You were there to do that for her. You were there for her.

She appreciated that.

Then she started thinking about the good times with her X

And remembered how the D was

And when her hotline bling'd, it only meant one thing.

Son layed the pipe like ol' times, sold her the dream that everything was gonna be like before.

Now she's confused.

She probably genuinely likes you, but her immature mind doesn't allow her to make a real decision.

Whatever the case, you need to remove yourself EMOTIONALLY, from this situation.

Play this chick out. Smash it, dont return texts, then hit her hotline on some fake lovey dovey. Blam it out and back to business. Be a dog Grrr

Or you could just stop associating yourself with this person.

Like someone said before, we all been there.

I don't like seeing men struggle with female's games.

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