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Originally Posted by tmay407
If he's leaving her, why wait for 3 months until she gets out of jail to do so? Why smash random girls while you're still attached to the girl in jail? There's a simple alternative. Leave the girl that's in jail right now, and smash random girls while having no attachment to the girl that's in jail. If you want to use her apartment to do so until July 31st, cool. But don't go telling the girl in jail that you need rent money because you wanted to stay and smash random girls in her apartment while she was in jail...Originally Posted by LDJ
He might as well get a lil something something for his trouble. Again he is doing her a favor. And they relationship isnt a relationship at all. So if he is leaving her why be committed for 3 months and not date smash chics. Its pretty much established he just playing house with a j/o, so why not hook up with some more and this time not have a make believe relationship? He doesnt have a place of his own so where is he gonna go to a hotel waste money when theres a perfectly vacant apt he could use? As far as ebay etc well we dont know what she has to sell. And those are just outlets means of selling her stuff.
Certainly he has friends he can stay with. If not, he has a job...he can get his own place. Or there's always outlets like Craigslist to find roommates. Having to get a hotel is pretty extreme. You're not being rational.
And why does he have to sell her stuff? What happened to your "being accountable and being responsible" routine that you were spewing earlier? Is that out the window again? What happened to morals and ethics? It's pretty easy to see that some of y'all weren't raised right.
If he's gonna leave her and spends any of his money helping her on the way out, there's always small claims court. You don't have to resort to those childish tactics of stealing her stuff and selling it.
If he's leaving her, why wait for 3 months until she gets out of jail to do so? Why smash random girls while you're still attached to the girl in jail?
Thats what i said, i also said it isnt even a relationship its just a dude shacking up with a j/o.
But don't go telling the girl in jail that you need rent money because you wanted to stay and smash random girls in her apartment while she was in jail...
When did i say that, i said he should get permission or a sublet for him to be authorized to stay. He stated he has no family etc no other place to stay so... I also said in those three months he should stack up and save so he can be able to move on and out by himself. As far as the craigslist thing him being/living with a stranger someone he hardly knows is the same position he is in now. So why jumpout the frying pan into the skillet.
And why does he have to sell her stuff? What happened to your "being accountable and being responsible" routine that you were spewing earlier?
He has no car, she wants her car out of impound and not collect fees repo etc. So in a sense he is doing her a favor by getting it out. And in return he is allowed to drive it/use it. That is a pretty fair exchange. Dude said he aint got alot of money so how you just expect him out the blue get a new apt, things associated with a new place and a car when he is broke?
And again i stand by he shouldnt pay her repo charge or jail fees etc. She should pay for it. I say he should pay if he decides to stay (and thats only half,cause legally thats all he would be responsible for). Jail or being on vacation isnt an excuse for not owing rent. And pay for the usage of her car until he gets on his feet and gets his own.
You don't have to resort to those childish tactics of stealing her stuff and selling it.
Thats why i said go to the jail and say look you aint got the money for the impound your rent watever, and i aint/cant afford to pull your weight so um unless u can come up with you half etc im going to sell/pawn whatever your itsh.
Again you saying he pays then sues her in court, hello the dude said he aint really got no money. How is he gonna pay for/spend what he doesnt have?