Just found out my girl was cheating on me

Originally Posted by AME416

Originally Posted by joeykadesh

and I fell on the floor straight up distraught and she just got up and left...And now I'm just trying to pick up the pieces..I really loved this girl 


Disgusting.

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Damn, 28? Yea me too when I found out. You're at that age where it cuts deep and that love is real.

If loves you the way you love her then fight for her. Try to make it work.

Whatever you do OP DO NOT POST HER PICS OUT OF ANGER AND PUT THINGS ON HERE. You might end up with her again, who knows, so you don't want these clowns saving her pics and whatnot.
 
don't listen to this NTers who talk all hard; I'm lucky I never had to feel the feeling of being cheated on but the feeling of betrayal is not a good one no matter what.

I won't lie that it's not gonna be an easy road for the coming months but just do your own thing and don't worry about getting into anything serious with someone else. Hopefully you have a good circle of friends to fall back on. Stay up man!
 
last time i got cheated on, her entire family got an email full of her filthy images. and her +$$ was out on the doorstep. i let all the utilites in her name get to "final notice", then got it reactivated in my name. i ported my number (was in her name) and let the final bills get to collections. foofed two of her friends that she'd bragged about the peesh to. her sister that helped her cheat got a gas tank full of palmolive.

i don't get mad, i get even.
 
Originally Posted by DMoney82

Damn, 28? Yea me too when I found out. You're at that age where it cuts deep and that love is real.

If loves you the way you love her then fight for her. Try to make it work.

Whatever you do OP DO NOT POST HER PICS OUT OF ANGER AND PUT THINGS ON HERE. You might end up with her again, who knows, so you don't want these clowns saving her pics and whatnot.

I understand age does make a difference in situations but this is horrible advice. If she don't have enough respect for you to say i still have feelings for my ex and cut it off with you. You shouldn't want to have anything to do with her.
 
Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby

You dodge a bullet, at least she did it before you married her.
I don't even know man.. It's either you're genuinely trying to keep this dude's head up by looking at the glass half full.. or you are one just another one of them shady girls..
Post her nudes OP
 
Iknowthatfeelbro...

But damn straight up fell on the floor? Nah I played it tough but then that deep dagger to the heart came into play when I was alone. Then a day passed and I didn't see no call or message and it was like damn that's it? Females are cold blooded man, I'm still trying to get over it, been a year... Don't really have advice but hit the gym and go for a run, hangout with friends..

Ill tell you it's going to be tough.. youre not going to want to leave the house, the humiliating feeling of walking outside thinking everyone knows, emptiness, but it'll pass with time. Goodluck man, read youre in grad school, dont mess it up.
 
Originally Posted by 504 D1 Prospect

Originally Posted by DMoney82

Damn, 28? Yea me too when I found out. You're at that age where it cuts deep and that love is real.

If loves you the way you love her then fight for her. Try to make it work.

Whatever you do OP DO NOT POST HER PICS OUT OF ANGER AND PUT THINGS ON HERE. You might end up with her again, who knows, so you don't want these clowns saving her pics and whatnot.

I understand age does make a difference in situations but this is horrible advice. If she don't have enough respect for you to say i still have feelings for my ex and cut it off with you. You shouldn't want to have anything to do with her.

I'm saying my dude people make mistakes but if she really loves you enough to admit she messed up and she wants to do right by you then why not give her a shot. I know it's damn hard but after that month goes by, you start to miss her and she feels the same way then why not?  Mine admitted she messed up and did everything to prove that it was a mistake. Changed number, deleted facebook, everything...... I still think about it and like a lil bish .... I throw it in her face when we argue sometimes.
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Originally Posted by DMoney82

Originally Posted by 504 D1 Prospect

Originally Posted by DMoney82

Damn, 28? Yea me too when I found out. You're at that age where it cuts deep and that love is real.

If loves you the way you love her then fight for her. Try to make it work.

Whatever you do OP DO NOT POST HER PICS OUT OF ANGER AND PUT THINGS ON HERE. You might end up with her again, who knows, so you don't want these clowns saving her pics and whatnot.

I understand age does make a difference in situations but this is horrible advice. If she don't have enough respect for you to say i still have feelings for my ex and cut it off with you. You shouldn't want to have anything to do with her.

I'm saying my dude people make mistakes but if she really loves you enough to admit she messed up and she wants to do right by you then why not give her a shot. I know it's damn hard but after that month goes by, you start to miss her and she feels the same way then why not?  Mine admitted she messed up and did everything to prove that it was a mistake. Changed number, deleted facebook, everything...... I still think about it and like a lil bish .... I throw it in her face when we argue sometimes.
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I hear what your saying man, everyone messes up..But she really cut deep, I can never see myself going back to her after what she did....

Good looking everyone, especially Grimlock definitely a lot of knowledge in here from you guys 
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Originally Posted by KayCurrency

Leave that alone....Forever


Seriously... I hate unloyal females...Especially females with stand up BF's.


When I was single, I wouldn't even talk to a female with a BF...
 
What sort of malarkey is this? 7 pages and no pics?
I return from my suspension only to find that this is some Bizarro NT
 
dont make it work. She disrespected you and if you take her back, you're disrespecting yourself.

You'll have to deal with your feelings another way. You take her back, part of her will always never have an excuse to not have an alibi should she cheat again.
 
Originally Posted by Boi

Originally Posted by shoefreakbaby

You dodge a bullet, at least she did it before you married her.
I don't even know man.. It's either you're genuinely trying to keep this dude's head up by looking at the glass half full.. or you are one just another one of them shady girls..
Post her nudes OP

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 Glass half full is the one.

He seemed pretty serious about this one, may have wanted to wife her.

Luckily she showed her true colors.

Divorces suck way worst then break ups.

Shady girl 
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I'm perfect.
 
Sucks to go through op, but you have to realize this is going to make you stronger and more appreciative of the one you really deserve when you find her.
You will heal with time, even if now it seems like you never will.

Males and females who cheat are scum and immature. If you want to be with other people, stay single and do whatever..why put up an act and waste a persons time?
Real men and women who don't play games are still out there..so please don't let this heart break change your moral values.

p.s. post her number on craigslist
 
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