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It is because of their ego.Originally Posted by mrkane
Originally Posted by sillyputty
I have this personal theory that guys become cold-hearted BECAUSE of women.
Its not this innate feeling they have and are born with.
I think that first real heart-break pushes a lot of dudes over the edge into straight not giving a damn about women.
What I'm saying is... from what i've seen, a lot of these dudes who seem to just not care about women, are emotionally shell-shocked within.Truth. Once that good guy inside gets killed he never comes back. Long live the BEAST that these ungrateful ^%$%*'s created![]()
Not only men are like that. It can happen to us women who have been cheated on too. I've become jaded in a way that I am weary of men and relationships because I learned that when you put your heart on your sleeve, you are giving the other person the full power to do whatever they want with it and they can rip your heart out. I know there are very good trustworthy men out there, but I will not give in or trust someone until they earn it. If they hurt and deceive me again? Oh well, I know I can pick myself up faster and move on much quicker. That is how strong it makes you.
OP, take it as a learning experience to open your eyes. You will be hurting, you will be bitter. But, there will be better days. I promise. Thank your lucky stars you find out, so now you can be with someone who is worthy of you and loyal and trustworthy to you. Never settle for less or for people who disrespect you. You deserve better. Take it as a lesson in seeing that even significant others are like anyone and can stab you and deceive you in the back just like people who you think are your friends and do you wrong. Now you can better learn to keep your guards up and to know how to weed out those toxic people out of your life.