hard to be me first as a center g.
And as far me first players in the Kobe/Shaq era the Lakers were a winning team when Shaq played without Kobe. And a losing team when Kobe played without Shaq.
http://www.82games.com/kobeshaq.htm
Why? Because the team got more shots. If Kobe would simply be more of a team player and then get his Kobe on in key situations he would be so much more of a great ball player instead of just a scorer teams don't mind letting score all game.
And we all remember that run the Lakers had last season without Kobe. Bottom line Kobe is a great shooter who benefitted by playing with a great coach and different sets of great teams who careerly do really well without him.
And yes MJ was a me first type of player in his early years. But unlike Kobe he later matured and learned to trust his teammates. He even had a teammate who is synonymous with being his sidekick. Kobe never had that.