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Yea but you are in a relationship so that alone says you can't do whatever the hell you want.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
P.S. I think people should be able to do whatever they want in life. If you want a co-ed party, have one. If you don't want a traditional wedding, don't have one. If you want to limit yourself to rules set by someone else, that's fine too.
Originally Posted by ATGD7154xBBxMZ
Sounds like a Dancing Bear party to me. No go.
So it's either your deluded or your friends are gay/your bisexual.Originally Posted by Zierra28
Originally Posted by GrimlocK
What a dumb response.Originally Posted by Zierra28
Might be reiterating here, but my best friend's a guy and has been in my life AS such for over a decade now, and nothing occurs between us. We are very respectful and treat out sig others the same way we'd expect them to treat us, and we do just fine. I HOPE that if he has a bachelor's party he'd invite me, and i dare my spouse to have an issue w/it after knowing our relationship, and he's def invited to mine. *shrug* if ur too insecure for a relationship of that sort, don't torture yourself w/it. Find someone who has only women as friends (because THAT is always trustworthy...).
Bachelor parties are meant for guys, these #!+@% ain't co-ed.
People might want to think they're co-ed these days but they never should be.
You might be a cool female and all that but if your going to a bachelor party and not even thinking of bringing your s/o then he should have the right to kick you out of a window from the top floor.
How the hell is this insecure? It seems like people like to slap that label on anything that lets them slide in a risky situation. 1) theirs alchohol involved 2) theirs gonna be more guys than women 3) people will be naked
If a guy does not have a concern with that I applaud him, but that ain't me.
You call them insecurities, I call them standards.
There's* but I won't say it's dumb though because my mom taught me manners...
AGAIN as I stated, if you feel that strongly about it, don't date someone who's in that situation. Some folks aren't bothered by it, others are. It's not a big deal to me. Just be open and honest, and you should be fine. Some people operate under the delusion that you can keep tabs on a person's every move. Impossible, and if everytime a situation comes up, you're uncomfortable with it, then there might be trust issues that are much deeper than just the circumstance here.
Call it what you want, but I don't see the gender of one's friends as a basis on which to set standards. Other things come to mind such as motivated friends, friends w/jobs and goals, friends w/spiritual beliefs, but NOT gender. Everything in life is a risky situation. She doesn't need a male best friend to cheat. Trust me on that.
P.S. I think people should be able to do whatever they want in life. If you want a co-ed party, have one. If you don't want a traditional wedding, don't have one. If you want to limit yourself to rules set by someone else, that's fine too.
Oh.Originally Posted by Lou Baton
If your girlfriend went to a bachelor party hosted by her best friend, a guy whom you trust her with, and she is also friends with the groom to be as well as a lot of other guys at the party how would you feel? Would you break up with her? Some of the people in the group are guys she hangs out with all the time. There were a couple of other girls there too. The night consisted of a party bus for bar hopping, chillin at a hotel for a couple of hours afterwards and then going out to breakfast before going home. [color= rgb(255, 0, 0)]I would prefer the thoughts/opinions of guys over 24[/color]. Oh, we have been dating for a year.
SON!Originally Posted by 703 Hwy
She's apologizing a lot huh? She's guilty brah. She got her face painted
Glazed like a Krispy Kreme donut.Originally Posted by Da Doc03
SON!Originally Posted by 703 Hwy
She's apologizing a lot huh? She's guilty brah. She got her face painted
Originally Posted by GrimlocK
So it's either your deluded or your friends are gay/your bisexual.Originally Posted by Zierra28
Originally Posted by GrimlocK
What a dumb response.
Bachelor parties are meant for guys, these #!+@% ain't co-ed.
People might want to think they're co-ed these days but they never should be.
You might be a cool female and all that but if your going to a bachelor party and not even thinking of bringing your s/o then he should have the right to kick you out of a window from the top floor.
How the hell is this insecure? It seems like people like to slap that label on anything that lets them slide in a risky situation. 1) theirs alchohol involved 2) theirs gonna be more guys than women 3) people will be naked
If a guy does not have a concern with that I applaud him, but that ain't me.
You call them insecurities, I call them standards.
There's* but I won't say it's dumb though because my mom taught me manners...
AGAIN as I stated, if you feel that strongly about it, don't date someone who's in that situation. Some folks aren't bothered by it, others are. It's not a big deal to me. Just be open and honest, and you should be fine. Some people operate under the delusion that you can keep tabs on a person's every move. Impossible, and if everytime a situation comes up, you're uncomfortable with it, then there might be trust issues that are much deeper than just the circumstance here.
Call it what you want, but I don't see the gender of one's friends as a basis on which to set standards. Other things come to mind such as motivated friends, friends w/jobs and goals, friends w/spiritual beliefs, but NOT gender. Everything in life is a risky situation. She doesn't need a male best friend to cheat. Trust me on that.
P.S. I think people should be able to do whatever they want in life. If you want a co-ed party, have one. If you don't want a traditional wedding, don't have one. If you want to limit yourself to rules set by someone else, that's fine too.
And no not everything in life is a risky situation, be real and stop dropping these sayings like they mean something or hold some kind of weight.
I agree you can do as you please in this life, BUT as per your first post I get the feeling that you wouldn't give a damn about if your s/o had something to say about you going to a bachelor party. To me if you can't respect someone you call a s/o's appeals then your no different from a vagabond. And personally speaking I don't respect vagabonds, nah mean.
Originally Posted by 703 Hwy
She's apologizing a lot huh? She's guilty brah. She got her face painted
Originally Posted by JesusShuttlesworth34
Nobody responds well to ultimatums and people sure don't like to be told what to do.
You can only control yourself and the decisions you choose to make. If she chooses to do that and treat you that way....you must allow it.
So she didn't come home and stayed at the hotel?? Oh yea.... the yambs have been contaminated.Originally Posted by Lou Baton
Originally Posted by GrimlocK
OP here's a quick solution....if your uncomfortable with this happening on any level then express that concern to your girl and see what she says. If she doesn't understand where your coming from then just move on.
She has apologized a million times for being inconsiderate. She realizes that she should have gone home after the bars and not gone to the hotel or to breakfast. It wasn't a set plan she just went with the flow of the night.
The hell are you talking about?Originally Posted by Zierra28
Originally Posted by GrimlocK
So it's either your deluded or your friends are gay/your bisexual.Originally Posted by Zierra28
There's* but I won't say it's dumb though because my mom taught me manners...
AGAIN as I stated, if you feel that strongly about it, don't date someone who's in that situation. Some folks aren't bothered by it, others are. It's not a big deal to me. Just be open and honest, and you should be fine. Some people operate under the delusion that you can keep tabs on a person's every move. Impossible, and if everytime a situation comes up, you're uncomfortable with it, then there might be trust issues that are much deeper than just the circumstance here.
Call it what you want, but I don't see the gender of one's friends as a basis on which to set standards. Other things come to mind such as motivated friends, friends w/jobs and goals, friends w/spiritual beliefs, but NOT gender. Everything in life is a risky situation. She doesn't need a male best friend to cheat. Trust me on that.
P.S. I think people should be able to do whatever they want in life. If you want a co-ed party, have one. If you don't want a traditional wedding, don't have one. If you want to limit yourself to rules set by someone else, that's fine too.
And no not everything in life is a risky situation, be real and stop dropping these sayings like they mean something or hold some kind of weight.
I agree you can do as you please in this life, BUT as per your first post I get the feeling that you wouldn't give a damn about if your s/o had something to say about you going to a bachelor party. To me if you can't respect someone you call a s/o's appeals then your no different from a vagabond. And personally speaking I don't respect vagabonds, nah mean.
I don't respect grammatical errors, but I won't judge you for it...
Everybody doesn't feel the way I do, and that's cool, and everyone doesn't feel the way you do, but for some reason that doesn't seem cool to you. Which means you're missing my entire point, so I'll try once more, and I believe that'll be it. If you AREN'T cool with it, DON'T put yourself in a situation where you will be forced to confront it at every turn. That's silly. It's like not liking seafood, but choosing to eat at Red Lobster. Why?? You KNOW you won't be pleased w/the selection.
Originally Posted by tee eye ehm
Did you try contacting her through the night at all? Did they go unanswered? If so, she probably did some dirt.