mr marcus
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Man or woman if you bail on your child you're a coward and a piece of **** in my opinion.
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Man or woman if you bail on your child you're a coward and a piece of **** in my opinion.
Im not saying im not in favor of such a thing, I live around people actively exploiting the system and it even happened to my brother (he beat the case surprisingly and his ex-chick is the one paying child support. Miracles do happen) but I can't see this not eventually ending up hella discriminatory.You have to have a license to go everything else..
Sell liquor, fish, carry a gun, drive a car, shoot deer....
I wish we did and the consequences for failing the test would be some sort of temporary sterilization.What it you had to have a license to have a kid??
Like... Passa competency test and require a certain level of income...
Not anything astronomical...
Something like minimum wage...
But all those things don't involve the human right to reproduce. I don't want the government telling anyone what to do in that realm, slippery slope.You have to have a license to go everything else..
Sell liquor, fish, carry a gun, drive a car, shoot deer....
Threads like these make the thought of a vasectomy more and more attractive.
Have no aspirations of being in that NT dads thread whatsoever..
View media item 1404384You have no clue. yes you can get 5k for 1 kid if a person made around 11-15k for the year. I did my cousin taxes and he made 14k and got back roughly $4800 for claiming his kid, its call EIC Earned Income Credit and Child Care Tax. Unfortunatly us working people who make over 30k or so dont quaily for those big tax credits which is why working people are mad and upset
A lazy welfare mom can work part time and make 15k a year, get section 8, get food stamps, get free child care, in some states get a free care,electric and heat paid and other stuff for doing nothing.. Then to top it off then can claim there little rug rat and get back close to 5-6k. if they claim 3 rug rates they will get back an easy 10-11k.
This is not made up. Look up the earned income credit chart and child tax credit.. Earn income gives the poor up to $3800 or so per child free money. cghild tax credit gives them an extra 1k per child
Why you think the working be so upset?
its a tough one.Sometimes a woman makes the decision to keep the seed without the guys consent. As many have said, it depends on the situation. Just think if you slept with a girl after a night in the club and it turns out she's just looking for a good looking dude to have a kid with so she can have a handsome baby while you on the other hand are going to college and working with no plans to have a kid whatsoever. There's an option to abort yet the girl doesn't even consider it while you have to adjust your life around her quick decision, would you put it all on the dude?
Really? It's both. It takes 2 to make a baby. If he wasn't going to be responsible having a kid knowing he had unprotected sex, then do not go in raw. At least she's taking responsibility and caring for the child.Yeah, but that's on the mom... She knew what she was getting into... Her own Damn fault she let a dude bust in her...
Nah man I hate beats. Red onions have recently become my favorite though. I've eaten them like every day this week.
kind of... Girls let all kinds of dudes bust in them yet when it comes to abortions they have morals. No....Really? It's both. It takes 2 to make a baby. If he wasn't going to be responsible having a kid knowing he had unprotected sex, then do not go in raw. At least she's taking responsibility and caring for the child.
I'm just not going to have children. I love my mother and I have a feeling she wants me to have my own family in the future, but I don't want to ruin my life and miss out on achieving my own personal goals over a damn family. As far my father, though, he pretty much ran as soon as I was born and made another family. I should throw a party the day he dies.
right and when they dont have to pay rent, electric and heat and even got an obama phone that 15k plus 7k income tax money streches a long way
This is exactly what I was trying to say but you said it better.
7 grand back plus free child care on top of 50 percent rent coverage. Like I said, I know it for a fact that many women are living like this. Many.
7 grand to me with all of that is a lot when I'm median status but work for everything with no handouts.
Man you rnot understanding. my dad was a tax preparer for his whole life and I do it part timeIt's not 5k.... Regardless it isn't a lot of money and doesn't amount to living lavishly.
Most don't get to claim the credit anyways since they don't work.
Nah man I hate beats. Red onions have recently become my favorite though. I've eaten them like every day this week.
You fail post after post.
i had a simliar situation, and I didnt have the knowledge back then. Now days a man cant really blame the women because all he have to do is file for joint custody and or parental rights and visitation. Problem solved... All medical and school records he can have access to regardless.I don't think ppl truly understand what a man
has to put up with once him and the woman
call it quits. I was raised without a father and
as I got older and had my own child I took
some blame off of my father because I see that
dealing with somebody that still feels a way will
do whatever they can to inconvenience your
life as much as possible.
You'd be surprised how many women power
trip and use the child to control a man. A lot
of men aren't built to handle the mental games
a woman can play when dealing with that said
mans child.
I'm not giving excuses, but I see things completely
different now as an adult with a child than I did
before growing up without a child.
Every situation is different and you can't even
begin to understand the amounts of stress it can
be when dealing with a woman that knows she
can make your life a living hell at any given moment
by playing with you and your childs time together.
At the end of the day do whatever you can no matter
what to stay present in that childs life. I can't even begin
to think about my life and what it means to me to be a great
dad. I had no Dad in my life and I sometimes look at me and
my daughter and wish I would have had that same bond
growing up. Just recently my baby girl told me I was her
best friend and my heart melted bShe got me for life b
depends on the person when aborting. I was invloved with 3 abortions in my life and I never felt guilty once and it was easy for me to say hey lets get this done. but i was the best option at the time. They were all done with first few months. This was done light years ago, would I do it again, probably not
abortion is easier said then done, and i agree its not as simple as, "hey go get an abortion and make this go away"
but in some situations, abortion probably is the best option. a girl that doesn't have her stuff together getting knocked up by a guy who's in a similar situation and doesn't want to be there for the kid, and she has no strong family structure to help her raise said kid, in a case like that abortion probably is the best long term decision assuming she doesn't mess around and get knocked up again by the first dude she meets who tells her exactly what she wants to hear to get between them legs and she's back to square one again.
raising a kid with two loving parents is a hard job as is, raising a kid as a single parent when you don't have the structure or family help can only be much harder.