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I don't know what happened in my life but I never understood the concept of love and attachment to a person to the point you get depressed, sad, and want to fight over a person that cheated on you. I remember clear as day in 6th grade seeing dudes in the HS next to us fighting over a chick and all I can say is why. Obviously she doesn't like you so why are you fighting another dude over her? Made no sense to me.
But my story happened freshman year of college, my girl was a year behind me in HS. My homeboys came to the crib so we can all chill in the city. Since we went to different colleges we didn't have much time to chill. Anyway, when I come outside I noticed they all stopped talking, so you know it was about you lol. I ask whats up, and they all look around like idiots until I say just say it. Then my boy D says that his girl who was friends with my girl told him my girl kissed a guy at a party they went to over the summer. I remember the day because she asked me to go but I wasn't in the mood so I said I'm good, you go. Even at that time I didn't have that jealousy bone or care about what she'd be doing if I wasn't around. When I heard it I was like damn, smh. I said I'll be right back and went upstairs to brush my teeth. Sounds weird I know, but that is the only thing I wanted to do at that time . Came back outside and was like y'all ready to go. They asked if I was ok and I said yeah I'm cool. Told them what I went upstairs to do and they all laughed. One friend had to remind me it didn't happen yesterday, it was over a month ago so why brush my teeth now lol. I didn't see her again, and barely spoke to her. I wasn't hurt or anything, I really didn't care but I knew I was done with her. Because of school and work I didn't see her much anyway. That made it easier for things to just fizzle out. I don't know if anybody else ever cheated, but I wouldn't care enough if they did anyway. Never been that wrapped up in anyone to care enough.
People have a lot of issues with family and insecurity that you may not have.