Hinge Takeover >>> Tinder, Bumble Pof

[sole blessed]

I hate talking on the phone unless she can't sleep. I rather text awhile if we talkin but tf I look like callin you everyday we both need our space

 

[301216baller]

Phone calls will always trump text messages

 

[truth-serum]

You know this boy ain't getting cheeks

wth is fwb?

 

[sole blessed]

^^^^

 

[truth-serum]

Fam, you're about to ruin it by being excited. Just play it off like you had another girl lined up if she didn't give it to you

SHE FINALLY GAVE ME THE NUMBER!!!!!!!!! [emoji]128588[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji][emoji]128588[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji][emoji]128588[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji][emoji]128588[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji][emoji]128588[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji] AHHHHHHH I NEED A GIF IN EXCITEMENT!!!!!!!!

 

[sole blessed]

Fam, you're about to ruin it by being excited. Just play it off like you had another girl lined up if she didn't give it to you

Haven't msg her back on OKC after she slid me her number today or texted the number yet........plotting what to say for first message.

 

[truth-serum]

Bishes respect that nonchalant attitude. Believe that

 

[truth-serum]

The longer you wait, the increased likelihood of her losing interest

Start with a movie. Have you seen "insert movie"? People keep telling me it was crazy. If she says no be like, I was going to see it on so and so date, would you like to come?

Haven't msg her back on OKC or texted the number yet........plotting what to say

 

[ROYGBiV]

Not gonna lie I don't really like talking on the phone, but now I'm used to it. Shoot I ain't even face time anyone in my life till my last relatioship.

Had me out here checking in the mirror to make sure I look good before I pick that face time call up. Lol

 

[ROYGBiV]

The longer you wait, the increased likelihood of her losing interest

Start with a movie. Have you seen "insert movie"? People keep telling me it was crazy. If she says no be like, I was going to see it on so and so date, would you like to come?

I would not do a movie, unless you guys have like coffee or drinks before hand. I know all you wanna do is probably smash. But having a convo before the actual date will make the both of you way more comfortable. Who knows you might really like her after 20-30 minutes of just straight talking.

She might even say **** it and just chill with you all day if you guys click. Again, disregard if you just want to smash, word to hulk.

 

[$tatus $ymbol]

Don't ask no broad on a date to no damn movies [emoji]128514[/emoji]Hustling backwards. Interaction is your friend

 

[timelessflight]

got no problem talking on the phone, that's if the girl actually has a personality

 

[truth-serum]

Nah fam. Seeing a movie together is to facilitate a shared experience. That shared experience is what gets you the yambs. To her it's going to feel like she's known you for a while when she really hasn't

Yall can be having a convo about anything and out of the blue you can be like, remember that funny/crazy scene when x person did so and so.

Don't ask no broad on a date to no damn movies [emoji]128514[/emoji]Hustling backwards. Interaction is your friend

 

[ROYGBiV]

Nope. You're not gonna get to talk to her at all till you say, "excuse me I gotta go poop."

Talking with your date works both ways. Either you'll break the ice or you'll find out she a bird.

 

[truth-serum]

Then once she has her guard down and comfortable with you, you can proceed and finesse it to a FWB or a relationship type deal

 

[sole blessed]

The longer you wait, the increased likelihood of her losing interest

Start with a movie. Have you seen "insert movie"? People keep telling me it was crazy. If she says no be like, I was going to see it on so and so date, would you like to come?

Nah I'll make contact with her tomorrow. I've been trying to get her to meet up for awhile as I have been posting in here for awhile. I guess I passed the test with her being comfortable enough to slide me her number after the last msg I sent her was mine. Was trying to find a nice little brunch spot as a first meet up spot? But open to all suggestions.

 

[wavycrocket]

got no problem talking on the phone, that's if the girl actually has a personality

There it is.

 

[sole blessed]

Don't ask no broad on a date to no damn movies [emoji]128514[/emoji]Hustling backwards. Interaction is your friend

TRUE

Nah fam. Seeing a movie together is to facilitate a shared experience. That shared experience is what gets you the yambs. To her it's going to feel like she's known you for a while when she really hasn't

Yall can be having a convo about anything and out of the blue you can be like, remember that funny/crazy scene when x person did so and so.

THIS!!!!! Good Good Point

Nope. You're not gonna get to talk to her at all till you say, "excuse me I gotta go poop."

Talking with your date works both ways. Either you'll break the ice or you'll find out she a bird.

Lmao In that time you're gone she runs to another theater to meet someone else real quick.

 

[Peep Game]

got no problem talking on the phone, that's if the girl actually has a personality

Yep. Talking on the phone with somebody like that for a long time won't feel long at all. But try talking on the phone with some dry chick who can only communicate through text....5 minutes could feel like 45.

 

[Bruce Banner]

What do you guys think of phone convos? I met this girl off of tinder and we clicked pretty well..We have great conversation for the first week just getting to know each other..After that, naturally we learn enough about each other to not warrant 1-2 hour phone calls anymore..But she doesn't want to stop, she wants to be on the phone throughout the day, everyday..I have things to do and I just can't sit on the phone like that. She wants to talk on the way to work, then lunch break, then on the way home from work, and then after she eats dinner, it's overwhelming. And whenever I try to get off the phone she says "Oh you don't want to talk to me? Why are you getting off the phone"? Or I would say "hey I'm going to eat, call you later" she would literally ignore me and start talking about something..Another annoying thing she did was ask for selfies..I would be out with my boys, she says "send me a pic" The other day, I went to see star wars and SHE WANTED A PIC..WHAT THE HELL! IM AT THE MOVIES! Needless to say, I cut her loose because she just became straight up annoying. I'm cool with phone convos here and there to talk about our day, but this girl wanted to stay on the phone, even when we aren't talking a lot and there is silence..

Used to date a chick like that "send me random selfies throughout the day " wasn't having it

 

[ROYGBiV]

My phone dry as ****. I'll take a phone call, face time or text right about now. [emoji]128514[/emoji]

 

[steebie j]

I dont mind talking on the phone but i dont like to stay on for more than 15 min 

 

[oidreez]

My phone dry as ****. I'll take a phone call, face time or text right about now. [emoji]128514[/emoji]

This. My thing with calls vs text is that you have a better chance of getting a response from texting then to call her phone and she dont pick up. Im not tryingt o show up on her phone as 5 missed calls

 

[ROYGBiV]

This. My thing with calls vs text is that you have a better chance of getting a response from texting then to call her phone and she dont pick up. Im not tryingt o show up on her phone as 5 missed calls

The only thing is that you can't really get what someone says via text. Phone calls are better. She hit you with the "lol" when you text her a corny joke, she might not be laughing. But tell her the corny joke over the phone and you can hear her laugh. Plus she might have a sexy *** laugh. Lol

 

[Peep Game]

Make sure y'all remember some of these chicks that respond on here super fast (like setting up a date the same day as the initial convo) are really just hungry and need somebody to take them to get a meal.