Nah
Its a new one. I shouldnt be weirded out by this but i am because its the most energy i put into any female in a while. Anyways its March 4th and last time i saw her was Feb 8th. She was like I really like u blah blah blah. After that day...things changed. Tried to set some things up with her and got either no response or "im busy." I managed to get her on the phone this past Sunday after a week and half of trying. Asked her whats up...whats going on...she copped an attitude
Told her from the beginning to keep it real with me. If she got new ****...she got new ****. Women are weird man.
She probably wanted you to cuff faster than you were planning to. Once they figure your not with that, they stop f'ing with you randomly.
Happened to me.
**** burns man on the real. Im the type of dude that keeps it moving but this is different. We talked about a relationship but agreed it wasnt anything to rush. I know she doesnt owe me an explanation but **** man I know wanna know. But ive come to the conclusion i probably wont ever know. Im about to play me some Brian McKnight.
I've vented to pretty much everyone i've talked to today
Dude, I'm just going through this exact situation right now. I dated this girl all summer until early january. we spent all the time in the world together. dates, every other day, all day sex binges, cuddling every night, showering together, telling each other we love each other, sharing toothbrushes etc. Then one night she starts acting all weird and says she doesn't feel good and I need to leave and not stay at her place. I'm like yeah no prob. She didn't talk to me again for 4 days. Her roomate told me she took down all my pictures and put up pictures of her ex, and found a bunch of used condoms in her garbage (me and her never used condoms). So at this point I'm furious, but still havent heard from her.
On the 5th day of no response, she finally send me a text. All it says is I'm sorry but I can't date you, I don't want to hurt you. You're just not the one. I'm blocking your number, I don't want you in my life. Sorry. That was the last word I heard from her. Like....... WHAT?!
Oh but it gets worse. We work together. I see her everyday. If she makes eye contact, she immediately looks down at the ground, or turns the other way.
Oh but it gets even worse still. I found out that her EX proposed to her either that night, or a few nights after we were still together. Bought her a fatty ring and all. So basically I was a side dude this WHOOOOOLLLLLE time. She lied about everything and couldn't have the common decency to give me any reasons or anything. Just a lame text with no closure whatsoever.
I'm still shook and trying to recover the best I can. She was perfect in every way man. That's what hurts the most. I've been very good friends with her for the last 4 years, and to go from the woman of my dreams to *poof* gone, it's rough so believe me when I tell you, I KNOW THAT FEEL.
Edit* I do still have many private pics and vids though. I'm NEVER getting rid of those hahaha. I'm gonna make her a star!