Finally checking back in the thread and caught up since my last post. I had zero intention of sending the email but once she told me I was on some unknown, exclusive, members only Sisterhood of The Traveling Pants online forum, I was like
Based on that revelation, I figured I had to do damage control and diffuse situation by meeting her request in fear that she now had this platform to slander me to the masses. So I gave in.
TELL ME WHY OLE GIRL HAD THE SHEER UNMITIGATED GALL TO RESPOND WITH "I appreciate your message, and have read it. Thank you for opening up. I do want you to dig a little deeper on a few things for me (please respond to each item): " and included like five separate items (each a long paragraph) detailing things she wanted me to follow up on
Again, operating from a position of fear and in the dark about what the group was saying (and when), I responded to avoid potential slander

We then exchanged some texts and planned to meet up for dinner in the future when I'm not business traveling

To be clear, though - this is deeper than yambs because if it was, I wouldn't even entertain it. It is predominantly professional like some of the stories shared on the last page. I don't know what was said and I am lowkey doubting myself now so I have to play it safe because who knows who is even on there.
Got me to got damb jail unless I get to the bottom of this