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Never hang up the Chelsea's. No matter how much
RustyShackleford
tries to bully you to.
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I always told her she never had to work, and I did hold my end of the bargain to the tee! Another thing she mentioned was that for some reason she never felt loved which idk how or why? The whole time my priority has always been my family. None of these late nights/guys night out. I’ve always been the type work and come home, weekends all about themThat makes sense, thanks for the clarification!
Sorry to hear that Brodie Did y’all talk about that being her role and what it might be like before you got married? I feel like the problem is that often times women have all these wild expectations that put their current man at a disadvantage
I've been getting more punani in my Chelsea boots than any pair of Yeezys or Travis Scotts too.
Never hanging those up.
In all seriousness, I think people just get bored and take for granted the partner they have.
Man!!!! This is exactly how I feel!!! There’s ways about going around things and we could’ve tried marriage counseling or something but she wanted none of thatBreaking a home with kids because you dont feel fullfilled is crazy selfish imo. Regardless of how educated or successful you are.
Marriage and starting a family in general is a sacrifice. Its not about you anymore.
There are ways to work on being fulfilled as well from both sides. Idk maybe it's the way I was raised and I still have some old school principles, but these days it's just different.
I told her the exact same thing! You tired of doing the wife mom thing what do you think you are going to do on your own, same mom thing solo and harderI don't even understand the logic. Get a divorce, get the kids in the divorce, still have to do all that homemaker/mom stuff, but now you're doing it alone and working a 9-5. Where's the fulfillment come in? A divorce just seems like an extreme solution that doesn't even solve the problem.
**** like that makes me never want to hang my chelsea boots up
I'm keeping the chelsea boot, turtleneck, dangly earring combo ready on a mannequin when I tie the knot, just in case I gotta pull a Dell CurryNever hang up the Chelsea's. No matter how much RustyShackleford tries to bully you to.
2 of my buddies separated from their spouses and they said the same thingMaybe I'm jaded but selfishness and women go hand in hand.
This the same thing my buddy said, they eventually find someone else to do the same thing we were doing and it’s bsYou know the game, man. They just find another dude to take the place of the last one that will support them and the kids while hopefully being an upgrade.
Yet we're the "so cold, no heart" ones.This the same thing my buddy said, they eventually find someone else to do the same thing we were doing and it’s bs
As crazy as that sounds, I believe this also another part of what happened to me. Social media doesn’t help either so they see this fake look at me doing me etc only to then realize life is hardAnother potential part of the issue is that I feel a lot of women set the life goal of getting married and/or having kids. I think that leads to them pushing the issue without fully thinking it through and they eventually realize married life isn’t what they expected. It was just some arbitrary goal that they set for themselves.
Y’all think you’re never hanging up your jersey?
Life comes at you fast, fam
I’m holding my 8 week old as I type this
Hold your head and try to be as steady a rock as you can be for your kids man. As mentioned up there, the social codes and peer pressure on women (and men for that matter) can really be a ************Thanks everyone for hearing me out and giving me pointers. As I mentioned I’ve been the type of person for the last 15 years all about my family so hard to talk to ppl about my problems
Y’all think you’re never hanging up your jersey?
Life comes at you fast, fam
I’m holding my 8 week old as I type this
get yourself out of them feels fam. i Was in your spot 10 yrs ago. Found Pof off this thread and never been the same.Long time reader first timer here, going through a separation after being 15 years with this woman. Sucks man really bad I wish she would’ve left a lot sooner now I’m 37
As crazy as that sounds, I believe this also another part of what happened to me. Social media doesn’t help either so they see this fake look at me doing me etc only to then realize life is hard
moonman818
cuz theres always other options lol
Maybe I get turned off too easily but if I barely know the chick and she already saying “can I have ____” or “can you do ____”
I’m like **** you think this is lol but hey there’s dudes flying chicks out these days just for a CHANCE to smash so whose to say
so, whats his username?