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Checking back in - what’s been going on fam?
Still going. Judge kinda screwed me over as he gave her literally as much as he possibly could (50/50 of all marital assets, even though it wasn't 50/50 going in and CO is not a "community property" state). That said, the legal **** is over with and now I just have to pay her out from the house and from my 401k via QDRO. She turned into an absolute snake, though. Karma already kinda coming back to bite her in the *** but at this point I dont care what happens, just take your money and get the **** away from me forever.
About to have a call with a realtor in a few minutes, to discuss my options. I'm still trying to sell the house, but because of the current market I'm on the fence whether to keep or sell. I don't love the house so I want to sell, but the my living expenses will increase by renting. Going from a 4 bed house to a 700sqft apartment will be a change, but I'm also ready to "minimalize" my life. I have way too many DS shoes that I will never wear - gotta get rid of that type of ****.
As far as dating, I was hanging with this woman from Hinge for a while but she got very attached very quickly. She knows my situation, but she still really latched on and hoped we would get into a long term thing - where I am not trying for that, at all. So I just recently started using the apps again. The "need this pic for my wallet" has not been successful, yet. When I have been downtown to check out the areas of some of these apartments I'm considering, I am seeing talent everywhere; jogging, walking dogs, at the shops/restaurants, etc. Living downtown will def give me a lot more opportunities than a house in the burbs.