Gf said she wanted a break Vol. 24523453

[rko2004]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

she has to do whats best for her and if she feels that testing the waters is whats best there isn't much you can do about that...it sucks but if it was you i would say the same...people have to do what they feel is best for them even if its not or it hurts others...

all you can do is keep doing you and whatever is suppose to happen will happen

it absolutely sucks but sadly that is life...

she's young so i can see why she would want to do her thing...

I know.

I just hate being sold the game though. "I love you and will never do anything to hurt you."

. So that starts after/if we get back together I guess. I almost lost it. I was just sitting here getting heated but I knew she would never be complete until she at least went out with another guy to see what game he's spitting.

I know this is life and everything is supposed to make you better and stronger for the long haul but it sucks going through it after being sold all that "You're the only one for me" Jizz jazz.

I'm feeling blank like the yuku screen after I make this post.

Edit: It went to the General page like its supposed to do

. Huh Yuku.

 

[degenerate423]

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

Originally Posted by TkTheGirl

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

...its a womans job to wait on a significant other.

Ooooo if you really believe that you gone learn the hard way...

So you're telling me women don't often wait on people to want them that they shouldn't? I've met way too many women who are still involved with ex'es or ex-%%+* buddies to want relationships with them because they gave them their "heart" and they are in their mind that persons ride or die. A lot of females don't move on.

THIS!  I can't stand that %*$*. I mean I understand when you feel like this person is the right one and you always wanna give them a chance, but come on now...  don't go wasting other people's time when you KNOW they aren't the person you want to be with

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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

Man O.P. with all respect and praise to Allah that is very kind of you to take that beast in and show it love and affection. Sometimes when you take in animals from the wild they simply can't resist nature. She longs for the foliage and mist of the Congo. She is returning back to the deep, lush, jungles the African foothills. Let her go................. all she wants is freedom

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[degenerate423]

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

Originally Posted by TkTheGirl

Originally Posted by Quincy Powell

...its a womans job to wait on a significant other.

Ooooo if you really believe that you gone learn the hard way...

So you're telling me women don't often wait on people to want them that they shouldn't? I've met way too many women who are still involved with ex'es or ex-%%+* buddies to want relationships with them because they gave them their "heart" and they are in their mind that persons ride or die. A lot of females don't move on.

THIS!  I can't stand that %*$*. I mean I understand when you feel like this person is the right one and you always wanna give them a chance, but come on now...  don't go wasting other people's time when you KNOW they aren't the person you want to be with

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Originally Posted by WISEPHAROAH

Man O.P. with all respect and praise to Allah that is very kind of you to take that beast in and show it love and affection. Sometimes when you take in animals from the wild they simply can't resist nature. She longs for the foliage and mist of the Congo. She is returning back to the deep, lush, jungles the African foothills. Let her go................. all she wants is freedom

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[iheartboost]

Woooooooow shouldn't have posted pics

 

[iheartboost]

Woooooooow shouldn't have posted pics

 

[ruxxx]

Sooooooo RKO...
Are you saying that it's over?

 

[ruxxx]

Sooooooo RKO...
Are you saying that it's over?

 

[bittersweet]

RKO,

It's wrong, but sometimes people when they're young find their [soulmate] before they are actually mature and ready.

I advise you to do the same thing she's doing ...

This 'break' will show you if you actually love her ... or if you can move on.

Use this as a tool and learn from it.

Either you'll be satisfied without her ... or empty. And vice-versa.

 

[bittersweet]

RKO,

It's wrong, but sometimes people when they're young find their [soulmate] before they are actually mature and ready.

I advise you to do the same thing she's doing ...

This 'break' will show you if you actually love her ... or if you can move on.

Use this as a tool and learn from it.

Either you'll be satisfied without her ... or empty. And vice-versa.

 

[young br3ad]

RKO, you have to do you...

as crazy as it sounds... as long as she KNOWS she has you to come back to she will act any way she wants... dont make yourself available all the time... dont always answer when she calls.... just enjoy yourself... go out with friends.... meet new women.... the more you stress about her the harder you make it on yourself.... once she realize you arent trippin off of her she will come back ASAP.... and if she dont then you know its really time to move on...

 

[young br3ad]

RKO, you have to do you...

as crazy as it sounds... as long as she KNOWS she has you to come back to she will act any way she wants... dont make yourself available all the time... dont always answer when she calls.... just enjoy yourself... go out with friends.... meet new women.... the more you stress about her the harder you make it on yourself.... once she realize you arent trippin off of her she will come back ASAP.... and if she dont then you know its really time to move on...

 

[elijahbrohammed]

Originally Posted by bittersweet

RKO,

It's wrong, but sometimes people when they're young find their [soulmate] before they are actually mature and ready.

I advise you to do the same thing she's doing ...

This 'break' will show you if you actually love her ... or if you can move on.

Use this as a tool and learn from it.

Either you'll be satisfied without her ... or empty. And vice-versa.

#*!@ that. RKO, dump the trick. Like I said earlier, in relationships there are no breaks. That's an excuse to get skeeted on by other dudes. It was 3.5 years but its time to cut ties and move on.

she has to do whats best for her and if she feels that testing the waters is whats best there isn't much you can do about that...it sucks but if it was you i would say the same...people have to do what they feel is best for them even if its not or it hurts others...
Then why even utter that you need a break? Just break it off to save both of you the trouble.

 

[elijahbrohammed]

Originally Posted by bittersweet

RKO,

It's wrong, but sometimes people when they're young find their [soulmate] before they are actually mature and ready.

I advise you to do the same thing she's doing ...

This 'break' will show you if you actually love her ... or if you can move on.

Use this as a tool and learn from it.

Either you'll be satisfied without her ... or empty. And vice-versa.

#*!@ that. RKO, dump the trick. Like I said earlier, in relationships there are no breaks. That's an excuse to get skeeted on by other dudes. It was 3.5 years but its time to cut ties and move on.

she has to do whats best for her and if she feels that testing the waters is whats best there isn't much you can do about that...it sucks but if it was you i would say the same...people have to do what they feel is best for them even if its not or it hurts others...
Then why even utter that you need a break? Just break it off to save both of you the trouble.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Yea don't take her back dude. She is young though. So her family has a point. Being in a seriously relationship at 20, not really a fan of it. But don't take her back. And no this doesn't mean if you really love her. Go enjoy your life man. She will. Trust. You really believe she won't have sex with dude?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Yea don't take her back dude. She is young though. So her family has a point. Being in a seriously relationship at 20, not really a fan of it. But don't take her back. And no this doesn't mean if you really love her. Go enjoy your life man. She will. Trust. You really believe she won't have sex with dude?

 

[stillatit]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

RIGHT! She stands by her claim because she never really dated anyone so she wants to go on a few outings to see what she can learn from that experience.

Mouse, this aint life is it? 

My brother is so blessed. He went through what I'm going through somewhat. He broke up with the girl then like a year or so later, He met his wife of 5 years and they've been together for 11-12 I think with 4 kids.

Like I said, I LOVE the girl but come on now! I have the same options but thank God my moms raised me with common sense. Don't open doors if you don't want people coming in damn it. I know the girl is a bit young but the stuff she says is off and on. She sounds like a good future mother and wife but she wants to see whats its like to chill with another guy?

And I hate to start over with another women but daaaaammmnnnn iiiiiiiiiiitttttttt, this is so stupid its putting me in a grimey head space.

Oh and she said she thinks I should go out a few times with another girl to see if I can learn something.

I have a mother, grandma, married female cousin I'm close to, sisters in law and etc. What the hell do I need to go out with another if I aint trying to find another possible future wife?

I'm so pissed right now I'm almost ready to just find a new girl. Oh I'm going to really learn something?

Girls like to be romanced, treated right, taken care of, loved, nurtured and have someone faithful. What else am I missing? Oh girls like to eat, shop and watch romantic movies? DDDDUUUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Moron!

Going through the same thing.

Let me keep reading though.

 

[stillatit]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

RIGHT! She stands by her claim because she never really dated anyone so she wants to go on a few outings to see what she can learn from that experience.

Mouse, this aint life is it? 

My brother is so blessed. He went through what I'm going through somewhat. He broke up with the girl then like a year or so later, He met his wife of 5 years and they've been together for 11-12 I think with 4 kids.

Like I said, I LOVE the girl but come on now! I have the same options but thank God my moms raised me with common sense. Don't open doors if you don't want people coming in damn it. I know the girl is a bit young but the stuff she says is off and on. She sounds like a good future mother and wife but she wants to see whats its like to chill with another guy?

And I hate to start over with another women but daaaaammmnnnn iiiiiiiiiiitttttttt, this is so stupid its putting me in a grimey head space.

Oh and she said she thinks I should go out a few times with another girl to see if I can learn something.

I have a mother, grandma, married female cousin I'm close to, sisters in law and etc. What the hell do I need to go out with another if I aint trying to find another possible future wife?

I'm so pissed right now I'm almost ready to just find a new girl. Oh I'm going to really learn something?

Girls like to be romanced, treated right, taken care of, loved, nurtured and have someone faithful. What else am I missing? Oh girls like to eat, shop and watch romantic movies? DDDDUUUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Moron!

Going through the same thing.

Let me keep reading though.

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by AirWing03

dude, i am going through the same exact thing, except that shes  at Michigan State and wants space and im stuck 45 minutes away.
%## sucks really bad..im legit depressed about it haha

You do understand that means she wants to have sex with other men without feeling guilty?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by AirWing03

dude, i am going through the same exact thing, except that shes  at Michigan State and wants space and im stuck 45 minutes away.
%## sucks really bad..im legit depressed about it haha

You do understand that means she wants to have sex with other men without feeling guilty?

 

[l knicks fresh knick l]

Damnnnnn.. NT'ers are ruthless

 

[l knicks fresh knick l]

Damnnnnn.. NT'ers are ruthless

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

She sounds like a good future mother and wife but she wants to see whats its like to chill with another guy?

What do those things have to do with anything? You are seriously blaming a YOUNG person for wanting to have fun? How does that mean they are dispelling the fact that they might be a good mother/wife? I am not understanding the correlation here.

Bitter Sweet

, explain to me how "waiting" for a woman proves that you REALLY love her?

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

She sounds like a good future mother and wife but she wants to see whats its like to chill with another guy?

What do those things have to do with anything? You are seriously blaming a YOUNG person for wanting to have fun? How does that mean they are dispelling the fact that they might be a good mother/wife? I am not understanding the correlation here.

Bitter Sweet

, explain to me how "waiting" for a woman proves that you REALLY love her?

 

[elijahbrohammed]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by AirWing03

dude, i am going through the same exact thing, except that shes  at Michigan State and wants space and im stuck 45 minutes away.
%## sucks really bad..im legit depressed about it haha

Someone is hitting it already. The space is an excuse to let dude continue to hit w/o her feeling guilty.

No relationship is safe in college especially LDR. Y'all learning the hard way.

 

[elijahbrohammed]

Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican

Originally Posted by AirWing03

dude, i am going through the same exact thing, except that shes  at Michigan State and wants space and im stuck 45 minutes away.
%## sucks really bad..im legit depressed about it haha

Someone is hitting it already. The space is an excuse to let dude continue to hit w/o her feeling guilty.

No relationship is safe in college especially LDR. Y'all learning the hard way.