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Yeah bro, I'm pretty sure you heard the saying, "Nice guys finish last". You don't wanna be known as the "nice" guy. Chicks will have convo's with her friend about how nice you are, and most of the time she's going to get the response ...."It's those 'nice' one's you have to worry about.
Anyways, I'm gonna quote you on what you said....
"Im guess the reason I feel constant rejection from girls that I talk to/date isnt be cause they dont like me/ want me. Its cause they feel as though Im rejecting them with the distant vibe I give off, and in turn act on it first."
You have to let your intentions be known homie. If you like them, TELL them. The way that you just communicated to all of us in this thread, you can sit down and communicate to a chick that you like.
And don't ALWAYS try to be a comedian. Don't get me wrong, chicks LOVE dudes with a sense of humor, but you have to learn when to turn it off and on. Flirt with them a lil. Subtle touches on her hand, arm, etc; whispers in her ear, direct eye contact. You have to let these chicks know that you're interested in them bro.
Anyways, I'm gonna quote you on what you said....
"Im guess the reason I feel constant rejection from girls that I talk to/date isnt be cause they dont like me/ want me. Its cause they feel as though Im rejecting them with the distant vibe I give off, and in turn act on it first."
You have to let your intentions be known homie. If you like them, TELL them. The way that you just communicated to all of us in this thread, you can sit down and communicate to a chick that you like.
And don't ALWAYS try to be a comedian. Don't get me wrong, chicks LOVE dudes with a sense of humor, but you have to learn when to turn it off and on. Flirt with them a lil. Subtle touches on her hand, arm, etc; whispers in her ear, direct eye contact. You have to let these chicks know that you're interested in them bro.