So Im talking to this girl I used to date and she says that Im awkward and I treat the females Im interested in more as friends than love interests. That my body language that I give off is very distant. From what shes telling me, Im guess the reason I feel constant rejection from girls that I talk to/date isnt be cause they dont like me/ want me. Its cause they feel as though Im rejecting them with the distant vibe I give off, and in turn act on it first.
Ive always put into question whether or not that was the case before, but talking to her def solidified that ideology. Ive always felt as though I wasnt good enough, didnt have enough money, wasnt good looking enough, so I tend to over compensate with my humor and Im guessing it really has bit me in the *+! on MULTIPLE occasions.So many failed relationships
Now Im gunna put my ego to the side and ask for some advice. Ill honestly take getting beat/flamed to death in this thread in order to get a few decent pieces of helpful advice. As embarrassing as it is to sit here and make this thread and admit to the fact that I really dont have a clue what it is Im doing when it comes to females and my relationships with them.
So Im asking to be molded in a sense. How do make a girl Im feeling, KNOW that Im really feeling them, and not make them feel as though all Im looking for is their friendship and that I really want to be with them as well?
I welcome the flaming too. Do what you gotta do NT FAMILY
Ive always put into question whether or not that was the case before, but talking to her def solidified that ideology. Ive always felt as though I wasnt good enough, didnt have enough money, wasnt good looking enough, so I tend to over compensate with my humor and Im guessing it really has bit me in the *+! on MULTIPLE occasions.So many failed relationships
Now Im gunna put my ego to the side and ask for some advice. Ill honestly take getting beat/flamed to death in this thread in order to get a few decent pieces of helpful advice. As embarrassing as it is to sit here and make this thread and admit to the fact that I really dont have a clue what it is Im doing when it comes to females and my relationships with them.
So Im asking to be molded in a sense. How do make a girl Im feeling, KNOW that Im really feeling them, and not make them feel as though all Im looking for is their friendship and that I really want to be with them as well?
I welcome the flaming too. Do what you gotta do NT FAMILY