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not everyone....but I'm gonna go with the majority being yes
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I am lost by your words. You honestly believe people cheat to impress others? You sure they don't do it to fulfill emotional and sexual needs (greed or however you view it)?Originally Posted by SoleWoman
you are correct. i believe that some people do it to impress others. also i think the definitions of cheating are blurred as well...there's emotional cheating (which can be the worse), there's kissing, dating, doing the do...etc.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Explain please. What do you mean people think it is the cool things to do. Almost sounds like you view it as a trend or a thing people do to impress others. If I am wrong let me know.Originally Posted by SoleWoman
not everyone. but to me it seems like people think its the cool thing to do. but to each their own.
AgreedOriginally Posted by SoleWoman
Originally Posted by ONHOLLOWEDGROUND821
Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
Originally Posted by SoleWoman
not everyone. but to me it seems like people think its the cool thing to do. but to each their own.
Its not a matter of being cool. Its a matter of not settling and finding somebody that has EVERYTHING you want
I get that and nothing is wrong with finding a girl with everything you want.....but why not break it off? move on.......why drag the other person behind the bus
but why commit if you are going to cheat or if you know that the person does not have everything you want. that only brings about unnecessary hurt and pain. theres nothing wrong with dating around and doing whoever. As long as you are upfront and honest with people which is where so many people fall short because they cant do that.
Why? Security. People commit because of security. Emotional and sexual security. That is why people get in relationships with people they REALLY don't want. Not hard to see/understand.Originally Posted by SoleWoman
but why commit if you are going to cheat or if you know that the person does not have everything you want. that only brings about unnecessary hurt and pain. theres nothing wrong with dating around and doing whoever. As long as you are upfront and honest with people which is where so many people fall short because they cant do that.
Originally Posted by Battousai701
school/work... yes
relationship... no
Not everyone commits because of security. It's overrated, especially nowadays.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Why? Security. People commit because of security. Emotional and sexual security. That is why people get in relationships with people they REALLY don't want. Not hard to see/understand.
Originally Posted by essential
No.
Of course people are attracted to each other physically and emotionally. THat goes without say.Originally Posted by FrenchBlue23
Not everyone commits because of security. It's overrated, especially nowadays.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Why? Security. People commit because of security. Emotional and sexual security. That is why people get in relationships with people they REALLY don't want. Not hard to see/understand.
There are actual people out there who are attracted to each other physically and emotionally. As corny as it sounds.
Basically. When you start finding flaws/things that piss you off about the person you with you start talkin to other girls wondering if the grass is REALLY greener on the other side.Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
Originally Posted by SoleWoman
not everyone. but to me it seems like people think its the cool thing to do. but to each their own.
Its not a matter of being cool. Its a matter of not settling and finding somebody that has EVERYTHING you want
i have learned that cheating is a game. im not disagreeing to the fact that people do it to satisfy their desires as you spoke of. but i know lots of people who cheat for mere sport. Especially men. just because they can. and how can you brag if there is no act to brag about arent they one in the same?Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
I am lost by your words. You honestly believe people cheat to impress others? You sure they don't do it to fulfill emotional and sexual needs (greed or however you view it)?Originally Posted by SoleWoman
you are correct. i believe that some people do it to impress others. also i think the definitions of cheating are blurred as well...there's emotional cheating (which can be the worse), there's kissing, dating, doing the do...etc.Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Explain please. What do you mean people think it is the cool things to do. Almost sounds like you view it as a trend or a thing people do to impress others. If I am wrong let me know.Originally Posted by SoleWoman
not everyone. but to me it seems like people think its the cool thing to do. but to each their own.
Cheating isn't like fashion where what you do is on display for the world to see. It is still a private matter. So where exactly does the impressing others part come into play?
I don't get what you are saying Sole.
I agree, there are different types of cheating but I can't see why you would think people cheat to impress others. The last thing going through someone's mind when cheating is how "cool" others will view this.
Now BRAGGING about it I can see but not the actual ACT of cheating. Nah.
Originally Posted by DCAllAmerican
Why? Security. People commit because of security. Emotional and sexual security. That is why people get in relationships with people they REALLY don't want. Not hard to see/understand.Originally Posted by SoleWoman
but why commit if you are going to cheat or if you know that the person does not have everything you want. that only brings about unnecessary hurt and pain. theres nothing wrong with dating around and doing whoever. As long as you are upfront and honest with people which is where so many people fall short because they cant do that.
This.Originally Posted by ATLien Seeko
Originally Posted by SoleWoman
not everyone. but to me it seems like people think its the cool thing to do. but to each their own.
Its not a matter of being cool. Its a matter of not settling and finding somebody that has EVERYTHING you want
Can't argue this. It is deception. I am against all forms of it.Originally Posted by SoleWoman
going into a relationship knowing you will not be faithful is just outright ____ i dont even know the word....malicious/heinous comes to mind.
Originally Posted by marionthebarberian
I cheat on my girl of 3 years almost every weekend.
Hope she doesn't read this...Originally Posted by marionthebarberian
I cheat on my girl of 3 years almost every weekend.
Yea I never heard anything like that.Originally Posted by TheHype
You're in denial if you don't think N_s cheat to impress their friends.
Denial.
Originally Posted by marionthebarberian
I cheat on my girl of 3 years almost every weekend.