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40 plus....check
15 years in? I'm a little short. Will be 14 in June.
What you got?
How long did u date prior? How'd u meet? Were u a player before, etc...?
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40 plus....check
15 years in? I'm a little short. Will be 14 in June.
What you got?
Got kids?40 plus....check
15 years in? I'm a little short. Will be 14 in June.
What you got?
would be awesome to know your perspective and that of your divorced friends.40 plus....check
15 years in? I'm a little short. Will be 14 in June.
What you got?
Used to want that, but couldn't want that any less at this point in my life. There's no reason for it IMO.
How long did u date prior? How'd u meet? Were u a player before, etc...?
Even though i seem anti marriage, i just think it should make sense.Met her my senior year. She was a sophomore. I went off to school, she finished school. So we had the long distance thing happening for a minute. This is before the age of everyone having cellphones so...I did what you would expect a man in his early 20s to do. By player do you mean *****?The answer to that question is yes. I moved to complete residency and she moved with me. We dated approximately 7 years before we got hitched. Basically it was time to squat or get off of the pot. I chose to squat.
Tell your story b and be sure to be a true NTer and include pics of every female mentionedIt don't matter how solid you think your S/O is or if you been together 10, 20+ years they can still switch up on you. Even the ones that no one ever expected to go outside the marriage can play you. It's a calculated risk I suppose, but the proposition as a man in the country if you really got things going for you financially it just doesn't seem worth it. Cot damn
The old "you're just not mature enough" response...
Smh
anything Else in your life that had a 52% chance of failings....
You'd go into it with some kind of insurance or backup plan
But marriage is different because...
..?
Name one day thing that statistically fails more than it succeeds and your willing to put your wealth on it...
And I'm not even counting the people that are staying together just for the kids sake
Did you read that off the back of a romance novel???Isn't the chance of sharing true love with someone, worth the risk?
Trust FAM, I'm far from cowardly, but the way things is moving these days it seems that when it comes time to settle down, all that's gonna be there is the "left overs". Where majority of the quality joints will be scooped up.Bro that's cowardly thinking.
if you are pulling quality women now they ain't going to just up and vanish 4 years from now. You have to give yourself more credit than that.
Life your life and when you ready you ready.
I'm currently with a girl who doesn't believe in divorce (I'm sure she'd make an exception for insane circumstances) and I have zero worry of ever cheating on me. Women like that still do exist. Or at least the type that you don't have to worry about cheating.
The problem is, can you be in love with a person like that? Who tends to be a bit less exciting than the type of chick who you might have to worry a tiny bit about. Obviously I'm generalizing, but I'm currently in the process of finding out if I can.
marriage is an important economic step it can greatly increase financial status and prowess in professional situations...
the ideal marriage would be something akin to Bill and Hilary or maybe Will and Jada...
How is that a problem? Why is a chick who may end up cheating on you exciting? How can you love someone who may cheat on you, but find it hard towards someone who won't? Those sounds like internal issues you need to work on.I'm currently with a girl who doesn't believe in divorce (I'm sure she'd make an exception for insane circumstances) and I have zero worry of ever cheating on me. Women like that still do exist. Or at least the type that you don't have to worry about cheating.
The problem is, can you be in love with a person like that? Who tends to be a bit less exciting than the type of chick who you might have to worry a tiny bit about. Obviously I'm generalizing, but I'm currently in the process of finding out if I can.
One involved adultery at least one time and the other is a wildly rumored open marriage akin to Frank and Claire Underwood of House of Cards
marriage is an important economic step it can greatly increase financial status and prowess in professional situations...
the ideal marriage would be something akin to Bill and Hilary or maybe Will and Jada...
I am not sure if this is in reference to my post, but I didn't say leech off anyone. I have my **** together, but it is even better when 2 people do. It's simple math.economic reasons point to getting my own **** together. hell i need to leech off a woman for when i can build my own wealth by learning from failure?