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Not even going to start the video because of the title. There’s no reason for me to even play that nonsense because of that ridiculous title![]()
Starts off as a lie. No need for further exploration by me
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Not even going to start the video because of the title. There’s no reason for me to even play that nonsense because of that ridiculous title![]()
Starts off as a lie. No need for further exploration by me
First of all, its like your only seeing what you want to see in this. You do understand man and woman who made baby doesn't automatically equal strong nuclear family? Secondly, how do you know what goes on in Asian and Jewish families? Because thats what it looks like? From the outside? Is that what you saw in your visiting? Are you really open to better solutions? Or are you just being facetious? The solution was stated pages ago.
Thats what I don't like about idealism. It only fits in a specific box. It can't bend, it can't compromise or improvise. If you take someone's idealistic views out of the box, "Well....well....."
Halfway between the truth and a lie is still a lie.
Even a bird has enough sense to build a nest BEFORE laying eggs.
Anyone who argues that 1 income is better than 2 incomes isn't holding a position I'm interested in.
Of course, racism exists. So what? What are we going to do about it?
If upholding traditional values, nuclear families, and the simple concept of "marry before you carry" result in this kind of backlash in our community, then we are already cooked.
If our men are more interested in whining than winning, and place excuses over execution, we deserve to be exactly where we are.
If being "black" means I have to ignore the truth, indulge in ignorance, live below my capabilities, and watch everyone else advance while I sit on the sideline complaining, crying about "da white man", I'll continue to mind my own business and go my own way.
You forgot to mention that the so called “school to prison pipeline” that you speak of consists of ALOT of young black males VOLUNTARILY signing up for jail these days. Nobody is going to jail for unpaid parking tickets champ. A lot of brothas want to be locked up……and deserve to be there truth be told.
they’re going to jail to be with their boyfriends
My man, you must live in a place where systemic racism doesn’t exist. Here in America, it’s embedded in everything from education to housing to the legal system. There have been studies showing the school to prison pipeline. Racism and its negative impact on our community didn’t go away when they let our parents drink from any water fountain. You can catch the right episode of last week tonight to catch up on some of this. Also, see redlining and school funding.
And a lot of the progress that has been made is being rolled back by the current gop.
Except it’s not. The school to prison pipeline refers to students of marginalized groups being given harsher punishments for regular kid **** compared to others. It does not refer to major crimes committed by “brothas” which is what I assume you’re talking about. And since you mentioned parking tickets, have you not seen stories of blacks people getting pulled over for nonsense and being assaulted and murdered by cops? In America, that happens way too often.You forgot to mention that the so called “school to prison pipeline” that you speak of consists of ALOT of young black males VOLUNTARILY signing up for jail these days. Nobody is going to jail for unpaid parking tickets champ. A lot of brothas want to be locked up……and deserve to be there truth be told.
at “so called”Oh……
And since you mentioned parking tickets, have you not seen stories of blacks people getting pulled over for nonsense and being assaulted and murdered by cops? In America, that happens way too often.
at “so called”
Do better, both of y’all.
Agreed.
Pointing out systemic racism does not negate the fact that far too many folks invest in conscientious stupidity and willful ignorance.
Two things can be true at the same time.
I might not be able to tear systemic racism down alone, but I can make good decisions in my own life and link with like-minded individuals who do the same.
The more of us that make good decisions = the more of us that can fight systemic racism.
Power concedes nothing without demand.
Speaking of young brothas voluntarily signing up for jail these days……we got two life sentences and one 40 year sentence with this case.
I know SOMEONE is going to say that these “young marginalized black kids were given a harsher punishment for doing regular kid stuff than another group “
Best practice for ANYONE not a white male to move around as if the system will never relinquish power to your group. It's 2025, you gotta make it happen yourself because unless you are a certain group nobody is trying to hear you whine about the system holding you back.
If you are a Black Man, nobody is ESPECIALLY trying to hear you cry about anything. No matter how much the world tells you, "Ah live your truth, speak out against the evils of the world." That doesn't apply to us.
That's not to say that the system ISN'T rigged.
That's not to say that the system ISN'T rigged.
That's not to say that the system ISN'T rigged.
Facts!
The system is 1000% rigged.

The truth exists somewhere in the middle.
The system is rigged but we aren't going to stop it, nor realistically slow it down. So you just gotta live within it and figure it out. Sounds harsh but it is what it is.
Be twice as better as others and behave your got damn self. Don't let "vices" derail you from doing what you need to do.
#MagicJohnsonTweet sure, but we know what it is so it's on us to save ourselves. "They" aren't and why would they?
The system is rigged.
The system is rigged.
The system is rigged.
Halfway between the truth and a lie is still a lie.
Even a bird has enough sense to build a nest BEFORE laying eggs.
Anyone who argues that 1 income is better than 2 incomes isn't holding a position I'm interested in.
Of course, racism exists. So what? What are we going to do about it?
If upholding traditional values, nuclear families, and the simple concept of "marry before you carry" result in this kind of backlash in our community, then we are already cooked.
If our men are more interested in whining than winning, and place excuses over execution, we deserve to be exactly where we are.
If being "black" means I have to ignore the truth, indulge in ignorance, live below my capabilities, and watch everyone else advance while I sit on the sideline complaining, crying about "da white man", I'll continue to mind my own business and go my own way.
Untrue. Florida is still the Deep South. Majority of black Americans live in Alabama, Mississippi, Georgia, Louisiana, Florida. We’re the 3rd most populated state. We’re here in droves. Got to stop believing these liars
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My main reason for Triple Stating things is because people on the internet don't read. I need to emphasize things that I need to make sure folks get from my post because people love to, "So you are saying _______?" (When it was something I WASN'T saying).
"I love waffles." (That doesn't mean I think pancakes aren't good 3x) Would be an example of that.
I honestly do it outside of what Umar has ever done. It's a common oratory practice.
People are talking about lived experiences steeped in cultural mores and you are talking about propaganda. Ask boomers which parents spent time with their kids supervising their homework.The PROPAGANDA of The Color Purple is alive and well.
You do realize that the structure of the two parent household hasn’t always been the standard way of organizing the black family throughout history, don’t you? Many Africans arriving in the US came from polygamist, patriarchal, and matriarchal family structures. But I digress.Let some folks in here tell it, the dynamic, structure, and format of a two parent household works for every other race……..except for black people for some unknown reason.
He thinks marriage is the only metric that matters to achieve prosperity.Not sure what you’re saying. If more black people were married, racists wouldn’t be racist? That can’t be what you’re saying.
completely off topic, but why the triple restating? after seeing the clips of the good brother dr umar digital panhandling & seemingly compulsively restating everything 3 times, I'm wondering is this some quirk of internet communication?
so i can understand the rationale that a single earner making a multiple of a dual income household is 'better' (sure there are many other caveats & considerations), this is the argument some women make which basically distills men to their ability to earn. the other common angle is it better to be free of the abusive, degenerate, or otherwise man of lack...there are other cases made but it basically comes back to some variation of those, nevermind that most folk are average folk that earn similarly are (mostly) sane
didn't watch the vid but considering that black folk are <13% of the US population, the context of those numbers is missing...while millions of people could hardly be called small, cali has something like 40 million folks, florida is in the low/mid 20s...the fact that most black folk are in the south might be an aside in certain contexts so it may be a slightly disingenuous title but not necessarily untrue one
It ALWAYS end up with some mystery male negro beating on some or a bunch of black women. The PROPAGANDA of The Color Purple is alive and well.
Let some folks in here tell it, the dynamic, structure, and format of a two parent household works for every other race……..except for black people for some unknown reason. A lot of black people…..as evidence in here LOVE coming up the rough side of the mountain. There’s an easier way black people.
EVERY traffic stop is situational of course…..but the “murdered by cops……happens way too often” is a stretch champ.
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Police shooting fatalities by race U.S. 2025| Statista
The trend of fatal police shootings in the U.S. seems to only be increasing each year, with Black civilians having the highest rates of being killed by police.www.statista.com
The numbers speak for themselves in comparison to other races. That’s not even taking into account what actions either party were doing before the black person got killed. Some murdered were justified IF the person had or was using a weapon against a cop. Some were not. Black people are simply NOT getting killed by the police like some would like to have folks believe. We deal with FACTS over feelings over here champ.
at we deal in facts. Fam, this supports what I’m saying. I almost thought we were trying to say the same thing and just got our signals crossed, but the person who liked it was the dude saying black folks aren’t where he thinks we should be through no fault of institutional racism. Now I’m just convinced you can’t interpret charts.
