Yall overrating confidence big time. Most of the ugly dudes I've seen with beautiful girls either played a sport, was tall or swole, had money, or had some level of status (fraternity, leadership role, etc.)
Chicks ain't just giving ugly guys play just because dude got a little swag. Not from what I've seen. I guess you might get a cute chick with no bunz/breasts, but you ain't baggin no stallions unless you got something to back up that swag. It don't have to be looks per se, but confidence isn't enough by itself to bag any serious broads.