Originally Posted by apassionforshoes23
I don't mean to sound all hero-esque...but it is kinda of up to us guys to change it. If we don't play into that easy ({}), then girls will realize that it isn't the road to take. If we demand girls with substance, women with substance we shall get. Just real difficult cause the money-grubbing women dont care about anything but look and usually look FINE. Oh well...
Yes, you must remember, we live in a society of supply side economic principles... cut off the supply, the demand disappears. Were the demand to disappear, so too, would the supply probably... However, how can you guarantee that millions of horny, horny, rampant women won't take things into their own hands and just screw non stop with no remorse and moral relativism on their minds? If we keep depriving women of true love, and look for weekly flings, they will become crazed, as will we. Indeed I agree that it is up to guys to change it, but not in the way of ignoring women or casting them away... you must change yourself to make them want to change themselves too... if you have just rejected a skeezer who really likes you and she's still stalking you for a few weeks after because of the devastation and she sees you banging various girls and talking to various girls all contact with the girls who are superior to her. These girls... probably won't give off a good influence simply because in today's society it IS the annoying, self centered, beautiful, big tiats (purposeful misspelling) the, nasty ability to give amazing head and sex... think about it.
no...its not just rappers...you also have shows like the hills and now that damn Megan Wants to Marry a Millionaire, and all these reality shows featuring famous people...
Yes... media is destroying people. The desire to kill is ignited anytime ANYONE tells me to stop smoking dreezy because of some "Truth" commercials...
its not just females either...dudes who never heard of gucci in they life are in the mall with the gucci hat, belt, shoes, and that corny change purse...so tacky
????How would they come into contact with Gucci if they don't know about Gucci? It's impossible. There must be at least some elementary understanding of its quality. Indeed, if you're talking about overdoing it and wearing all one brand fits then I agree and I will say that the person doing such vulgar statements in the name of "fashion" would be a loser among higher class winners... hold up, isn't that judgmental though?
I blame pseudo Feminism. The point is to blame everything. Stop trying to answer the problem with one cure-all. All of the above answers are fabulous, as is yours, and I highly agree... but delve more, get more into the heart of the matter... "Pseudo-feminism" although I agree with your notion of what this causes... think about the society that we live in. True equality and feminism is simply not possible YET. I mean, I'm assuming you live in America... depending on where you live in America the chance that you grew up in a stable household with no domestic abuse is probably around 70% in general... but what about the other 30% of submissive wives who take beatings for nothing? These people have no been reached out to yet, and thus, are themselves, a reason why feminism is still a movement! Don't blame! LIBERATE.
