Hazeleyed Honey wrote:
This can go both ways. I know or know of plenty of men who mainly go for suga mammas. As for women who are golddiggers, well it just should show you their materialistic ways and how vapid and shallow they are. Yet, quite a few men shower their materialistic needs because it makes them feel dominant and powerful that they can give money like that and buy love. In the end, it is all just empty. You cannot place such a value on possessive material things since it diminishes as you realize it cannot fill the void of your unhappiness and insecurities. Money cannot buy love or happiness.
This is why I pursued a higher level of education, so I can establish myself and provide myself stability and security rather than depend on a man to be the main breadwinner of the household. With my higher level of learning I hope to be blessed with a good paying job so I can ensure I can take care of myself if I am ever stranded. Sometimes, things in life don't go as planned and I can be left alone by the man, or maybe I have to leave the relationship, but at least I know I will be able to stand on my own two feet, depending on no man, and no one else, but myself.
Goddamn, today, I am writing stories on here in posts.
That is what having nothing to do at work does to me.
Go Head. Need more women like you around.
But I would like to know who taught you how to be self-sufficient? Was it something that your parents gave you or just something you picked up in theenviornment?