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Originally Posted by superflyinchopstickninja
Edit- I just noticed my story is way too long. Pm me if you want it
Cliffs-
Asked her if she cheated
She swore on both of our lives and said no
I found out she did by reading her journal
I hate life
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So true. Me and my chick of 9yrs broke things off with me a year ago exactly. 2011 was the worst year of my life because of it. I moved back from Nashville, TN to Kalamazoo, MI for her, shortly afterwards she broke it off with me and got pregnant by another guy. It messed my confidence up so much that it affected my job performance resulting in me being terminated. I stopped working out and gained mad weight plus I was drinking like everyday. I made a post about on here and alot of ppl told me time and distance were the best solution for my situation. Things are looking better for me now and even though I miss and think about her everyday, I know I gotta just keep my head up and move on with my lifeOriginally Posted by TroyD
man i dont even know what to do.
1 broke up with my ex of a year and 5 months back in early september. too many fights, she says i do stuff that i dont even do, etc. i was cool tho. i did feel bad cause her grandma was in the hospital around the time we broke up. i wanted to be friends with her but she wasnt with that. her grandma ended up passing away in mid october
2 i went to the wake with her. and i hugged her (im a lot taller then her and whenever we hug my chin rests on top of her head. i missed that) we flirted a bit, got some food, she even fed me. a few days later she ends up saying she doesnt wanna be friends anymore, then a week later she says she wants to be friends. i swear this happened like 4 times!
3 other girls! some girl came to my house on friday morning and i smashed that. i have 2 other girls i want to smash next. but the thing is i do want my ex back, but i want to smash the other 2 girls before doing so.
last monday my ex came to my house so i could make her some ringtones. then on wednesday we were both going to the mall to get stuff so we went together. it felt good being with her again hanging out having fun. she even kissed me on the neck
idk how this is possible but she looks better then ever now. its like once you break up with someone they look 10x better all of a sudden. the pics she puts up on facebook have me like wow shes so freaking cute now. but at the end of the day i dont know what to do
Originally Posted by sillyputty
Originally Posted by WhatsLosinLike
...SON.Originally Posted by INS
I will take the simp card of the year. *2011*
My girl broke up with me in sept, said she wasn't feeling it and she saw me as a best friend not a boyfriend
So moving to the month of November i have this cute pyt hitting me up and i said @%%% it, im gonna do me.
Chick came over and laid down in my bed and we talking and i know she is DTF, so we start kissing and all i could think about
was my ex. @+#@ had me paralyzed in bed with a girl who was fully DTF. Ended up laying there waiting for her to leave.
That's a tough one there. She sounds like she is regretful. You have to forgive her if you want it to work. Holding a grudge in a relationship will make things worse, especially for the child. The Cycle: We often hurt the people who truly love us, and love the people that don't love us. You're in tough situation man..keep your head up.Originally Posted by AquaGrape2345
Me and my ex broke up last year in April after three years and a son. I found out her ex hit her up I thought nothing off it took our break as some well needed time apart to find ourselves. I came around after finding myself and decided to propose she said to me ."yes, but not right now" I was not sure what to think. I find out in June that she slept with her ex a one time thing and since then has regretted it and wanted me back. We have a kid and all I love her to death but I do not know what to do. She swears everyday it was a mistake and wishes she could go back and change it. But can you ever trust someone or let alone be with someone after that. I mean I really would appreciate some advice guys. Also would what she did be considered cheating., seeing as how we went out on dates and I bought her stuff yet she still dd that. I mean till this day we speak and she is constantly trying to apologize and shows remorse but I don't know what to do part of me wants to forgive and be with her the other part of me is just hurt she did that.