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YOLOOriginally Posted by Jking0821
2011 sucked for me but learned a lot from this year.
- In March broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years. It didn't really hurt til like April when she told me she was dating someone else and I realized we were done for good.
- In May I started dating one of my really good friends who just broke up with her bf. This lasted like a month then she broke things off with me to get back with her ex
- Getting quit twice within a few months sucked. Stopped talking to my ex of 3.5 years completely. Still talked to the other girl
- In December got back with the girl who quit me in May. Again we dated for like a month and she broke it off again saying the timing wasn't right cause she just re-broke up with her bf.
Dealing with all that !$!% sucked throughout the year but I've reconnected with a lot of old friends and started getting my life in order. Getting rejected by girls you care about also hurts a ton more then getting rejected by random girls you meet. New found confidence when I go out cause rejection doesn't phase me and I'm really starting to enjoy the single life.
Looking forward to staying single for a while in 2012 and living life to the fullest. Keep your head up man there are so many other girls out there.
Originally Posted by Regal Black
Originally Posted by INS
I will take the simp card of the year. *2011*
My girl broke up with me in sept, said she wasn't feeling it and she saw me as a best friend not a boyfriend
So moving to the month of November i have this cute pyt hitting me up and i said @%%% it, im gonna do me.
Chick came over and laid down in my bed and we talking and i know she is DTF, so we start kissing and all i could think about
was my ex. @+#@ had me paralyzed in bed with a girl who was fully DTF. Ended up laying there waiting for her to leave.
Originally Posted by scshift
Originally Posted by bbrroowwnnssuuggaarr
I honestly hung in so long because my dumb #%! gave up all my friends to be with her so she was my best friend and I knew if I lost her id be all alone which ended up happening. Tried to reconnect with some of my boys but everyones doing their own thing now. Biggest mistake was dropping my friends for her but unfortunately when I get with a girl I rather spend my time with her than my boys.
Oh you're one of those dudes. Ditch your friends but once you're alone you expect them to be waiting for you
Man let i go bro. She's being shady. You had something going on with the other chick. Don't know why you thought it would work out this time aroundOriginally Posted by MenaceI2IS0ciety
I had a girlfriend of three years. (Oct 05- Jan 09). Actually, come to think about it, it's been three years sinceIt was great but I got way too comfortable the last few months, unmotivated started slanging herbal low key behind her back, didn't know what career/major I wanted to get into, wanting to kick it with my homies more. So she left me a few days after new years. At first I didn't really let it phase me, I had my boys and Mary Jane with a M.O.B. mindset. I started working out, bulking up, meeting new people, but I started gambling and lost pretty much all my money.
I found out she was talking to someone new then soon after that relationship was official, that hurt... really bad, I knew he was a rebound but then again you never know. So I decided to block all her news feed on my FB and wherever else, took everything that reminded me of her and threw it in a box (like everyone else I'm sure) haven't looked in that box since 09. Yet, even after all that, I would see her pass by my house, or I would pass by her house... cause she lives ONLY ONE BLOCK AWAY!
Not too long ago, I found out she broke up with that dude, and she hit me up, but at the time I was talking to someone I really liked, so I didn't respond. Then I see her at the bars and she points & waves as I was walking out with the girl with her under my arm.#swag. Theeeennnn, I see her at the movie theater, she called my name but I walked away... because I didn't want to complicate what I had going on, but all that really messed with my head, so I stopped talking to the girl and came to the conclusion, I'm not over my ex, even after nearly 3 years, at the time, It finally hit me... I effing miss her.
So... recently fall semester ended, winter break started, I hit her up on FB asking her if she wants to grab coffee, she said sure. I text her a few days after, no response... I'm like ok, she's probably busy, I'll try again another day. I text probably a week later, she responds late, I respond back... but I get nothing back. I'm sure she's probably busy and alot going on right now, but damn, no response at all? So I'm like okay, I'm gonna take her off my newsfeed AGAIN, but a day after I do that, she starts liking a few things I post on FB, so it's really effing with my head. Should I keep trying to talk to her? or Keep it moving... I know keep it moving is the right answer... but I WANT THIS GIRL BACK... but to do that I understand I must continue doing me and let the chips fall where they may. Do I still put effort in grabbing coffee? start texting small talk? or just chat on FB? or what?
I dont get why you went back to that girl who just dumped you in may.Originally Posted by Jking0821
2011 sucked for me but learned a lot from this year.
- In March broke up with my girlfriend of 3.5 years. It didn't really hurt til like April when she told me she was dating someone else and I realized we were done for good.
- In May I started dating one of my really good friends who just broke up with her bf. This lasted like a month then she broke things off with me to get back with her ex
- Getting quit twice within a few months sucked. Stopped talking to my ex of 3.5 years completely. Still talked to the other girl
- In December got back with the girl who quit me in May. Again we dated for like a month and she broke it off again saying the timing wasn't right cause she just re-broke up with her bf.
Dealing with all that !$!% sucked throughout the year but I've reconnected with a lot of old friends and started getting my life in order. Getting rejected by girls you care about also hurts a ton more then getting rejected by random girls you meet. New found confidence when I go out cause rejection doesn't phase me and I'm really starting to enjoy the single life.
Looking forward to staying single for a while in 2012 and living life to the fullest. Keep your head up man there are so many other girls out there.
Originally Posted by INS
I will take the simp card of the year. *2011*
My girl broke up with me in sept, said she wasn't feeling it and she saw me as a best friend not a boyfriend
So moving to the month of November i have this cute pyt hitting me up and i said @%%% it, im gonna do me.
Chick came over and laid down in my bed and we talking and i know she is DTF, so we start kissing and all i could think about
was my ex. @+#@ had me paralyzed in bed with a girl who was fully DTF. Ended up laying there waiting for her to leave.
Originally Posted by jermz101
I really don't know if I am, we broke up in july right after our 1 year anniversary...it hurt a lot, what hurt me more was that no more then 2 months later this chick is not only talking to someone else but she is DATING someone else, like facebook official boyfriend...straight up blew me away, while I was by myself trying to pick up the pieces she is supposedly "happy" and with someone else, in the end I know she is only hurting herself by doing that but it still sucks cause I'm lonely as hell while she got somebody...what makes it even worse is the amount of fails I've had with other women since we broke up, I'm talking the ultimate flakers, not answering texts, I actually got a fake number once... Fuuuuuu whatever though things are sort of looking up right now
Originally Posted by LetItShine24
2012 isnt the year of females. its the year to get your self together, to make you a better person, and to take over the world. Stack your paper, meet new friends, try something crazy. I finally learned, females are cold hearted. they dont care no matter how much you beg or cry. Focus yourself, and the females will come to you. Confidence...
Originally Posted by MenaceI2IS0ciety
So... recently fall semester ended, winter break started, I hit her up on FB asking her if she wants to grab coffee, she said sure. I text her a few days after, no response... I'm like ok, she's probably busy, I'll try again another day. I text probably a week later, she responds late, I respond back... but I get nothing back. I'm sure she's probably busy and alot going on right now, but damn, no response at all? So I'm like okay, I'm gonna take her off my newsfeed AGAIN, but a day after I do that, she starts liking a few things I post on FB, so it's really effing with my head. Should I keep trying to talk to her? or Keep it moving... I know keep it moving is the right answer... but I WANT THIS GIRL BACK... but to do that I understand I must continue doing me and let the chips fall where they may. Do I still put effort in grabbing coffee? start texting small talk? or just chat on FB? or what?