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- Jul 18, 2001
My Ex ended our relationship out of no where. We had problems like everyone else and I had let her know that I wasnt very happy. She suggested breaking up and I said ok. When she saw I agreed she begged to stay together and after that I felt our relationship became better because my feelings came back full force but I guess hers didnt. To her it got worse and she wasnt happy so a month later she ended it out of the blue. Crushed me like no other but at first it was ok cus nothing really changed between us except she moved out. Until not to long ago she became real distant and now if we hang out we have to plan in advance and she told me she wants to give up sex all together so that ended as well. Shes 100% honest with me she wont spare my feelings at any expense so I know if she was messing with someone else shed tell me. But she did let me know that if any of her co workers asked her out to the club, movies, a party, etc... shed go cus to her it was strictly a friendship hangout but I told her to them it was a date. I told her theyre going to consider it a date but she said they can all it all they want but to her its just hanging out because they wont get any and shes always preferred the company of guys cus shes kind of a tomboy. I honestly hung in so long because my dumb #%! gave up all my friends to be with her so she was my best friend and I knew if I lost her id be all alone which ended up happening. Tried to reconnect with some of my boys but everyones doing their own thing now. Biggest mistake was dropping my friends for her but unfortunately when I get with a girl I rather spend my time with her than my boys. I know now to try and balance the two. Why are some females so cold hearted? This happned to 3 of my boys. One was with his girl for 7 years and she went on vacation came back and just ended it. 2 of my other friends were with their girls for 3 years and out of no where they just ended it but both of their exs tried to get back together. One took a year when he ended up marrying his current wife and the other about 6 months when she had a new boyfriend she cheated on with him and after that he cut her off and said dont ever contact me again
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