Originally Posted by Ouch my feet
I have a story similar to this:
I met this girl a while ago and she was amazing, out of this world face and body was super on point. I had the same "syndrome" you had and I was always messin up. I got her number and I would text but it was spotty, sometimes id get a reply sometimes id get nothing. One day I ran into her in person at a club and I was like forget this BS man its either going to happen or not. So I just didnt even think about anything I just walked up to her at the bar and started talking to her about whatever. We got into the convo and she started talking about me and what im going to do later. I ended up at her place afterward and she asked me to spend the night but I passed. I wasnt trying to make this a JO situation and I sure as hell didnt want to get caught up with something because it seemed too easy.
Anyway, what im trying to say is dont get caught up with the work around. You can text and message online because its easier and convenient but its not going to work out, you just need to pull her to the side when you see her and strike up a convo, in that convo you need to ask her out. If you dont see her that often, call her and leave a message straight up about having lunch or dinner or going to a movie or whatever. Be confident, dont question yourself or your ability, DONT THINK just do it. Be strong and confident and let her know how you feel...Im positive she feels the same way, hell i'll guarantee it. If it doesnt work out, youve done everything you can and you wont regret it like "ooh I wish I did this"
