About a Girl Part 3 (word to diddy) UPDATED SAGA ON PAGE 4 VOL. HELP ME BOUNCE BACK FROM AN L

you might salvage it if you tell the chick you were all drugged out...
 
Originally Posted by CarminePOWER

Originally Posted by sauuceking

"you have nice tanlines"
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Maaaan
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someone suggest how a cat can bounce back from this. It's even worse cause it was more like this "you have niceteantweewt" that was atype cause I was so $%#+#* up then I texted "you have nice tanlines" THEN I texted some gibberish like "weojfoiwenfioweihfw" not countingthe fact I called her twice
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LOL ok worst thing you can do is lie so just own up to it and tell her the truth. That you was drugged up out of your mind and that you didn't know whatyou were doing. Then you can lead into how you think she is attractive and that even when you're not in the right mind you still think about her. So man upand put in work she gave you her number for a reason and texting her about her tan line wasn't one of them.
 
When I was abit back to Earth I texted her that I was drugged up and I was sorry for talking that BS but she hasn't texted back lol. I'm gonna man upand take cornzillas advice though. I'm gonna be straight up with her. The thing is I've never met a chick that made me stumble like this, she has theperfect blend of "out of my league" mixed with "wifey material"
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I felt my legs shaking abit today when I seen her again
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Yep, hate you on this post too Yuku.

Stupid posts not goin then magically appearing later.
 
Don't know why my other post isn't showin but it's irrellevant after your last one anyway.

If you've seen her a few times at the gym before then you know you'll run into her again at some point. Just take the opportunity to tell her at thatpoint. Doing things in person works out a lot better then calling or texting. If she's not feeling it you can tell right away. But I find you can control asituation a lot better when it's in person.
 
op, just give it up. If she wants you, she'll call you. You overdid it from the jump, stop actin like she's the last female on earth.
 
Well Good Luck with this girl and keep us updated. Hopefully everything works out.
 
True...true...

I just don't feel the same about these other females that are callin me and stuff compared to baby girl life aint fair
 
Apparently you are the king of weaksauuce.

Anyway, you are trying way too hard. Just wait till you see her again, don't be a stalker.
 
Originally Posted by sauuceking

When I was abit back to Earth I texted her that I was drugged up and I was sorry for talking that BS but she hasn't texted back lol. I'm gonna man up and take cornzillas advice though. I'm gonna be straight up with her. The thing is I've never met a chick that made me stumble like this, she has the perfect blend of "out of my league" mixed with "wifey material"
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I felt my legs shaking abit today when I seen her again
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the first thing you need to do is take her off that pedestal
nothing will come out of it if you keep thinking like that

making you shake? come on now
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^ When you go to a commuter college, if your schedules are not similar there is very little chance you ever see a person , hence why I haven't updated thisthread in like 3 months
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Originally Posted by knightngale

Originally Posted by sauuceking

When I was abit back to Earth I texted her that I was drugged up and I was sorry for talking that BS but she hasn't texted back lol. I'm gonna man up and take cornzillas advice though. I'm gonna be straight up with her. The thing is I've never met a chick that made me stumble like this, she has the perfect blend of "out of my league" mixed with "wifey material"
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I felt my legs shaking abit today when I seen her again
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the first thing you need to do is take her off that pedestal
nothing will come out of it if you keep thinking like that

making you shake? come on now
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Yeah I know it was kinda pathetic b. Just that its pretty rare running into her on campus, it was like finding a rare wild Pokemon. I feel you though goodadvice, I'm def putting the P on the pedestal to the 100th degree.
 
Fam, I totally missed the part where you said she was "out of your league". You dont deserve a bad chick if you don't feel like you're goodenough for her.
confidence is key
 
I would call it quits.

What happen between February and the time you texted her drugged up?
 
Originally Posted by enlightenedespot

I would call it quits.

What happen between February and the time you texted her drugged up?

Good question. Might as well fill us in w/ cliff notes. But I'm ridin w/ knightngale on this one. U gotta stop puttin the !@%@+ on a pedestal, that'swhere u !%%#@+ up at. Next time u see her, if u do, just go on about ur business. Show her that she's not the last woman on earth and that u aint pressedabout her. A real woman doesn't want a clingy, thirsty dude. If yall happen to make eye contact or pass by eachother either give her a lil nod or say"Hi, how u been.....oh ok, that's good, again, I apologize for the f'd up msg.....but I'll let u get back to what u were doin, see ya"and keep it movin. Don't make her a priority, I'm sure ol girl is as bad as u say but the !@%@+ don't shoot fireworks
 
I have a story similar to this:

I met this girl a while ago and she was amazing, out of this world face and body was super on point. I had the same "syndrome" you had and I wasalways messin up. I got her number and I would text but it was spotty, sometimes id get a reply sometimes id get nothing. One day I ran into her in person at aclub and I was like forget this BS man its either going to happen or not. So I just didnt even think about anything I just walked up to her at the bar andstarted talking to her about whatever. We got into the convo and she started talking about me and what im going to do later. I ended up at her place afterwardand she asked me to spend the night but I passed. I wasnt trying to make this a JO situation and I sure as hell didnt want to get caught up with somethingbecause it seemed too easy.

Anyway, what im trying to say is dont get caught up with the work around. You can text and message online because its easier and convenient but its not goingto work out, you just need to pull her to the side when you see her and strike up a convo, in that convo you need to ask her out. If you dont see her thatoften, call her and leave a message straight up about having lunch or dinner or going to a movie or whatever. Be confident, dont question yourself or yourability, DONT THINK just do it. Be strong and confident and let her know how you feel...Im positive she feels the same way, hell i'll guarantee it. If itdoesnt work out, youve done everything you can and you wont regret it like "ooh I wish I did this"
 
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