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So, my parents have been married for 27+ years. A few months back my father butt-dials my mother, while he's speaking one on one with a female when he's supposed to be driving home from work. He gets home that night and we made him call the woman on speaker and my mother grabbed the phone and said "This is ____'s wife" and she hung up right away. My house went through HELL for a few months. My mother went crazy on my father made him tell her everything, started going through the phone bills, going through his email account, justifiably I believe. He came up with the story that its a woman whom he met online a few years back and really is just her "friend" and that nothing sexual went on. I don't know if in my mothers heart she truly believes this or just WANTS to believe it. My father admitted that this woman knew he was married, and that they have been having a secret "friendship" for years but only met in person about 5 or 6 times. Tried to say this woman has had a rough life blah blah blah. My sister and I went crazy (of course the week she was visiting from Cali this all goes down). We start researching and find the woman's daughter and son on Facebook, I find her blog, I have her address and ex husbands name. I contemplated contacting the woman, messaging her children, showing up to her house but it all blew over and things seemed to be getting better. My mother seems to have forgave him. I can tell something is still going on. He minimizes windows on the computer when I walk in the room, and out of the corner of my eye I saw a gmail account tab which he quickly closed. My father is old school and has had the same AOL email account for 12 years. I installed a Key logger on our house computer and I am afraid of what I will find. He had the chance to walk away, my mother gave him the chance to leave and begged him for honesty so at this point I just feel bad for her.
Cliffs:
-Dad caught talking to another woman for years online- met with her 5 times.
-Butt dials my mother while with her, she hears the other woman.
-Swears they were just friends, and that he ended things.
-Mom forgives him, but has all his accounts (email,phone,FB on lock )
-I catch him with a secret gmail account & being shady on the computer.
-Decide to download a key logger, not sure how to approach what will come to be.
This is the dirty troll looking scum sl*t:
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Cliffs:
-Dad caught talking to another woman for years online- met with her 5 times.
-Butt dials my mother while with her, she hears the other woman.
-Swears they were just friends, and that he ended things.
-Mom forgives him, but has all his accounts (email,phone,FB on lock )
-I catch him with a secret gmail account & being shady on the computer.
-Decide to download a key logger, not sure how to approach what will come to be.
This is the dirty troll looking scum sl*t:
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