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What if both of you have decent paying jobs.
If I'm in a long term relationship I think it's only fair that I would pitch in if I have the means to do so.
It wouldn't feel right if I'm flourishing while my partner is struggling with massive student loans.
One isn't really making that much more than the other.
Do you still think it is "fair" that you pitched in
And do you think it is something that you SHOULD do?