would you let your significant other go to the movies alone with the opposite sex

Whenever a chick came over to my place to watch a movie... I ended up inside her
Chick come to my house to watch a movie, were watchin the intro amd credits only. Might watch half a scene to keep my mind off nuttin, then eyes back on the booty.
Any chance that "his" girl wasn't getting dicked by her "friend" went right out the door once she walked right through that door
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I'm trying to figure out how someone's girlfriend just decides to go to dinner and movie with a dude when she has NOT informed dude that she is in a relationship and wants to make the assumption that the dude is somehow aware of her relationship status because he saw her with another dude months ago
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I hate to be one of those guys, but this **** just don't sound right
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I'm trying to figure out how someone's girlfriend just decides to go to dinner and movie with a dude when she has NOT informed dude that she is in a relationship and wants to make the assumption that the dude is somehow aware of her relationship status because he saw her with another dude months ago
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I hate to be one of those guys, but this **** just don't sound right
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I'll say one thing: DON'T DO ANYTHING RASH... clear your head, have a smoke, think it over, then do what you gotta do

I'm no way in any position to give you any kind of advice, but that whole scenario just sounds
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Personally speaking, if my girl did some **** like that it'd be curve territory bro. We males really need to stop going after girls that have boyfriends, man....stuff like that leads to tragedy and heartbreak
I made that comment before I read that story
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And if you read my post, I didn't make any assumptions; I only said that it doesn't sound right. I never made any concrete statements about what his girl is doing because we really just don't know.
 
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I know....i need @mugen81
 words of zen wisdom


What you NEED, is to mess wit someother chick. So many red flags thrown already. Use your common sense bruh. Your still young as hell. You can still find that 'one' later. Lfe is tok short, enjoy yourself homie. Dont let a dumb *** broad **** your whole head up. Do you to the fullest.
 
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She went to his place and watched a movie...apparently she didn't finish it cuz it sucked but now its like everything has a negative end result...she got me ****** up.

Imma interrogate her on saturday.  If something happened go stay by my friends cuz thats 50% of the reason I'm going anyway.
You the homie, now before you start to "conjure" things up in your head, one of two things could have transpired:
He Hit It First
She really did go home...
In my scumbag days, I played the "unassuming" friend/side *****. One night a girl called me crying, talking that woopity-woop, blazay-blah. She came over and watched "Napoleon Dynamite"[emoji]128516[/emoji] and things happened. Nobody of any gender goes to someone's house after 11-1am with the intent on watching a full movie.
But to backdoor, she could really be loyal and not feeling this cat like she says and nothing genuinely happened. Not every dude out there has scumbag tendencies or the "alpha" fiber in them to be Mr. Steal Your Girl. But what you have to understand is that you can't let this eat you up or define you. Speak your mind and always go off of your gut. You are too young and intellegent to worry about females. Real G'S have all taken losses but it made us stronger. What you have to do is continue to build your empire, get your house in order and make yourself the man you want to be. Leave that drama and stress over females where it should be. Whatever the outcome, this is a lesson in learning to trust yourself, listening to your gut and knowing when to walk away. If your girl is not shouting from the rooftops"this is my man" or if she can't see why this could be perceived as disrespect, you need to step back and re-evalute the situation.
Take your time, gather your thoughts, speak coherent and calm and say what's on your mind. Either you are going to believe her and let the dark come to light or you are going to diddy bop, enjoy your youth and build your legacy.
I can only give you words through the Internet, but you have to live your life and experience the joys and pains of a woman.
It sucks but it makes you better..
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Not on some "I just met him and we're going to the movies" type of stuff. But a mutual friend/ somebody I know.. Sure

I've been to movies with women and it was all laughs, nothing else. We're both grown ..
 
The reason why his girl is doing because 1. He is letting her 2. He is whipped 3. The girl is young and playing games


Dude need to let the girl go. Listen to brolic man.. Get the yamns one more time and mark sure you skeet her up good on the face and then tell her screw you don't call me and walk out

She lining somebody else up to take your place
 
Dinner & a movie is a bad look.

If it was just a movie, maybe, depending on your girl. But yo girl practically went on a date with dude.
 
No matter how you slice it, it's a date. If the girl cared about OP, she would shoot down that idea just because of respect and common sense, that she's in a friggin' relationship. Respect your partner. She isn't respecting OP.

Son, drop her.
 
 
 
Why do I feel like the majority of advice in here is about dealing with aint ish women/for dudes who are insecure?

Like if you legit know who your girl is and what she's about this wouldn't be a problem?

I feel like if you date a quality chick (mentally I mean) this is a non issue. Yea people slip up and stuff but that means she wasnt really with it to begin with.

I dont believe in second chances...mainly cuz I don't slip. 
Well...it finally happened to me.

She went to hang out after work with a friend (a dude I also know btw) as a late birthday thing.  They having dinner and a movie.

I did some research among the grapevines so they apparently haven't messed around in the past.

Anyway I've mentally prepared to take the L though I know it will hurt should an L occur.

It's bothering me cuz she has NOT explicitly told him we're together though she insists "he saw us together during the summer" as if that was enough...

My mind is spinnin guys...I don't know whether to blow up on her when she calls or hold it in until I see her Saturday..
Did you ask about any of this or are you just making assumptions?
 
Bruh I say take the L and quit while your ahead, although I still stand behind my statement its ok to see a movie with the opposite sex,depending though how long you knew the person, but I'll give it up to NT, going on a friendly date with my best friend was not the move trying to get back with my ex wife..... Oh well still have my best friend keeping me company :lol
 
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Bruh I say take the L and quit while your ahead, although I still stand behind my statement its ok to see a movie with the opposite sex,depending though how long you knew the person, but I'll give it up to NT, going on a friendly date with my best friend was not the move trying to get back with my ex wife..... Oh well still have my best friend keeping me company :lol

****** just don't learn.

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There is nothing wrong with your girl going to a movie with a man :lol

The way I see it, if your girl is gonna step out on you you blocking her going to the movie is just delaying the inevitable. She gonna step out regardless if that's her character.

Also I've been on the other side as the guy going to the movie with your girl and is she is faithfull no matter what I do she ain't having it.
 
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