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Yes. And I have some very solid reasons. For starters, the woman I intend to wife up down the line has always had an identity issue because she's anorphan. She doesn't know who she is because she has no clue what she came from, and it's sad. This is my chance to give her an identity. I'vealready promised her I would if she earned it. More importantly, this is her chance to CHOOSE this identity. She can be clueless about her punk **! pops'last name she was given, or she can join my ranks and be a part of a storied tradition of proud Joneses. Furthermore, our problems always arise becauseshe's bullheaded and wants to do things her way all the time instead of our way. I myself, I rarely think in a ME ME ME sort of way.It's always about what's better for the tandem. It's like we move as two individuals and rarely as a unit. SO...to alleviate that, if she tookmy name, it would be a symbolic gesture of submissiveness on her part. I need that from her. A chick's gotta know when to be independent and whento be humble. Because %#%@ what you say, I gotta wear the pants. It's just my nature. I have to captain my own vessel. She'll steer us in herdirection because that's all she's ever known. She's been a survivalist for years. I have the interests of both of us at heart because my lifehasn't been nearly as hard and lonely on the familia front. Our sharing names would also symbolize UNITY. It's more than a trivial matter. Like I said,it's all symbolic and it has a lot to do with what type of bond you generate. Hyphenating is coooool, but it says "Yeah we're close rightnow, but I do not belong to this man entirely". I need a chick that will put on my ring and give herself to me in full, because Lord knows if I pick justONE chick to be with for the REST of my natural life, she better be 100000% dedicated to making it last and making it fun while it lasts.