When's the right time to drop the L word?

[fog raw]

I literally feel like a !@!@%$@ idiot...

I dropped the L word too soon in a text... She basically cut me off.. Definitely learned a lesson.

 

[atlien seeko]

Originally Posted by Manglor

L word?

As in i Love you forever and ever or as in Listen Here i don't love you anymore cause you love me too much?

Specify bro.

 

[atlien seeko]

Originally Posted by Manglor

L word?

As in i Love you forever and ever or as in Listen Here i don't love you anymore cause you love me too much?

Specify bro.

 

[veryanalytical85]

Never.

Doesn't do you any good these days...

 

[veryanalytical85]

Never.

Doesn't do you any good these days...

 

[murda he]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

 

[murda he]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

 

[k2theablam]

Originally Posted by Manglor

L word?

As in i Love you forever and ever or as in Listen Here i don't love you anymore cause you love me too much?

Specify bro.

You stay on his nuts man. This thread isn't even about him.

 

[k2theablam]

Originally Posted by Manglor

L word?

As in i Love you forever and ever or as in Listen Here i don't love you anymore cause you love me too much?

Specify bro.

You stay on his nuts man. This thread isn't even about him.

 

[airthompson]

Originally Posted by WiLLMaTiC

Never say you love her. Girls will see you more as a challenge if you dont. Show it instead of saying it.

co-sign
  

 

[airthompson]

Originally Posted by WiLLMaTiC

Never say you love her. Girls will see you more as a challenge if you dont. Show it instead of saying it.

co-sign
  

 

[rko2004]

Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

Makes sense. Right now its still in that new phase of the break up (2 weeks). Plus we work together

. I'm not over her of course but I feel like I'm almost at a point to talk to new girls. That's the scary part, meeting new girls. Learning to trust them and get to know them will be so different.

Hopefully the next, whoever that may be, is ready what I'm ready for. My ex is still somewhat young, so there was maturity issues there. Stuff we argued about was childish looking back on it and she has a funny look on life. Its crazy now thinking about some of the things she said and thought. She honestly felt and has been feeling that after 3.5 years, she deserved a engagement ring by now (She's 19 BTW

). How you feel, you deserve an ENGAGEMENT ring, but your saying you're unsure about what you want at this point and if yoy're was doing the right thing by being with me.

Right now I just need someone who lives in my reality. You get a ring when you EARN it. A female who knows what she wants and what she wants to do in life. One whose sure of herself and her decisions. I don't want to say the relationship was a mistake, because I learned a lot and it was great, but looking forward, no more waiting on maturity. Come with it or don't come at all.

Your new girl sounds way, way better than your old girl

. Classic posts.

I keep getting the weird feeling I'm going to keep running into tac heads for a while though

. Tac heads = girls not wife-able BTW. But I just keep wondering where the hell am I going to find someone who is going to give what I do. Its some selfish, childish females out there and I know/have known too many of them.

 

[rko2004]

Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

Makes sense. Right now its still in that new phase of the break up (2 weeks). Plus we work together

. I'm not over her of course but I feel like I'm almost at a point to talk to new girls. That's the scary part, meeting new girls. Learning to trust them and get to know them will be so different.

Hopefully the next, whoever that may be, is ready what I'm ready for. My ex is still somewhat young, so there was maturity issues there. Stuff we argued about was childish looking back on it and she has a funny look on life. Its crazy now thinking about some of the things she said and thought. She honestly felt and has been feeling that after 3.5 years, she deserved a engagement ring by now (She's 19 BTW

). How you feel, you deserve an ENGAGEMENT ring, but your saying you're unsure about what you want at this point and if yoy're was doing the right thing by being with me.

Right now I just need someone who lives in my reality. You get a ring when you EARN it. A female who knows what she wants and what she wants to do in life. One whose sure of herself and her decisions. I don't want to say the relationship was a mistake, because I learned a lot and it was great, but looking forward, no more waiting on maturity. Come with it or don't come at all.

Your new girl sounds way, way better than your old girl

. Classic posts.

I keep getting the weird feeling I'm going to keep running into tac heads for a while though

. Tac heads = girls not wife-able BTW. But I just keep wondering where the hell am I going to find someone who is going to give what I do. Its some selfish, childish females out there and I know/have known too many of them.

 

[veryanalytical85]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

Makes sense. Right now its still in that new phase of the break up (2 weeks). Plus we work together

. I'm not over her of course but I feel like I'm almost at a point to talk to new girls. That's the scary part, meeting new girls. Learning to trust them and get to know them will be so different.

Hopefully the next, whoever that may be, is ready what I'm ready for. My ex is still somewhat young, so there was maturity issues there. Stuff we argued about was childish looking back on it and she has a funny look on life. Its crazy now thinking about some of the things she said and thought. She honestly felt and has been feeling that after 3.5 years, she deserved a engagement ring by now (She's 19 BTW

). How you feel, you deserve an ENGAGEMENT ring, but your saying you're unsure about what you want at this point and if yoy're was doing the right thing by being with me.

Right now I just need someone who lives in my reality. You get a ring when you EARN it. A female who knows what she wants and what she wants to do in life. One whose sure of herself and her decisions. I don't want to say the relationship was a mistake, because I learned a lot and it was great, but looking forward, no more waiting on maturity. Come with it or don't come at all.

Your new girl sounds way, way better than your old girl

. Classic posts.

I keep getting the weird feeling I'm going to keep running into tac heads for a while though

. Tac heads = girls not wife-able.

Finding that is like acquiring the Boardwalk Monopoly piece

.

 

[veryanalytical85]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

Makes sense. Right now its still in that new phase of the break up (2 weeks). Plus we work together

. I'm not over her of course but I feel like I'm almost at a point to talk to new girls. That's the scary part, meeting new girls. Learning to trust them and get to know them will be so different.

Hopefully the next, whoever that may be, is ready what I'm ready for. My ex is still somewhat young, so there was maturity issues there. Stuff we argued about was childish looking back on it and she has a funny look on life. Its crazy now thinking about some of the things she said and thought. She honestly felt and has been feeling that after 3.5 years, she deserved a engagement ring by now (She's 19 BTW

). How you feel, you deserve an ENGAGEMENT ring, but your saying you're unsure about what you want at this point and if yoy're was doing the right thing by being with me.

Right now I just need someone who lives in my reality. You get a ring when you EARN it. A female who knows what she wants and what she wants to do in life. One whose sure of herself and her decisions. I don't want to say the relationship was a mistake, because I learned a lot and it was great, but looking forward, no more waiting on maturity. Come with it or don't come at all.

Your new girl sounds way, way better than your old girl

. Classic posts.

I keep getting the weird feeling I'm going to keep running into tac heads for a while though

. Tac heads = girls not wife-able.

Finding that is like acquiring the Boardwalk Monopoly piece

.

 

[ayejreeun]

Her: I love you
You: I love U2

 

[ayejreeun]

Her: I love you
You: I love U2

 

[usabasketball08]

Originally Posted by EL BURRO73

Dude marry her quick. Run man I mean right now!

 

[usabasketball08]

Originally Posted by EL BURRO73

Dude marry her quick. Run man I mean right now!

 

[murda he]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

Makes sense. Right now its still in that new phase of the break up (2 weeks). Plus we work together

. I'm not over her of course but I feel like I'm almost at a point to talk to new girls. That's the scary part, meeting new girls. Learning to trust them and get to know them will be so different.

Hopefully the next, whoever that may be, is ready what I'm ready for. My ex is still somewhat young, so there was maturity issues there. Stuff we argued about was childish looking back on it and she has a funny look on life. Its crazy now thinking about some of the things she said and thought. She honestly felt and has been feeling that after 3.5 years, she deserved a engagement ring by now (She's 19 BTW

). How you feel, you deserve an ENGAGEMENT ring, but your saying you're unsure about what you want at this point and if yoy're was doing the right thing by being with me.

Right now I just need someone who lives in my reality. You get a ring when you EARN it. A female who knows what she wants and what she wants to do in life. One whose sure of herself and her decisions. I don't want to say the relationship was a mistake, because I learned a lot and it was great, but looking forward, no more waiting on maturity. Come with it or don't come at all.

Your new girl sounds way, way better than your old girl

. Classic posts.

I keep getting the weird feeling I'm going to keep running into tac heads for a while though

. Tac heads = girls not wife-able BTW. But I just keep wondering where the hell am I going to find someone who is going to give what I do. Its some selfish, childish females out there and I know/have known too many of them.

1. I was NOWHERE near "ready" to talk to anybody, but I knew I could holla at shorty. To b real, I holla'd at everybody that would listen. No other chick could deal with my baggage

. She did tho

. Best decision I ever made, relationship wise. She didn't push me to get over my ex. I didn' pull. We just let it happen naturally.. oh, and my ex ended up getting real negative and *****y and so that was all the more reason to value this new girl that was the antithesis of the one that had not only ripped my heart out, but was now feasting on it.

2. That was the hardest thing to let go; KNOWING most of our fights were so small that we never really needed to have them in the first place. But once the damage is done, it's done. And it couldn't be undone if I was gonna be the only person trying, so I stopped trying. And once that happened, I saw my ex for what she was. I was her security blanket and "pet BF". She wasn't as far down for me as I was for her when things got uneasy. This "new" chick is (It's been almost a year and a half

)

3. My then 19 year old ex told me, and I'll never forget this, "If we're not married in 2 years, you're wasting my time and it's not worth it". What makes a woman GIRL think love is on a time schedule? Further more, who says some self centered ##!! like that unless they really have NO idea HOW to love someone other than their self or what all marriage entails? I'ma always feel like

about that one... 

4. PREACH

5. I can't say she's a better person (well I could, but I won't) cuz while I was in the moment, no woman could compare to my ex. She's who she is, and I was ALL over her. So I ain't finna slander her these days. I'm better than that. But I will say that this lil lady fits me MUCH better and I get as much from her as I give, if not more. That's what it's all about. We compete for who can be the most generous. How can you lose THAT contest? Just keep fishing man.. they're out there...

 

[murda he]

Originally Posted by RKO2004

Originally Posted by Murda He

Originally Posted by RKO2004

These replies

Here is a better question, after breaking up with a girl you love, how do you know when to tell the next one? I was just thinking, what if the old feeling haven't died yet?

I got you G... I'm at this point RIGHT now and this is what I've gathered..


You don't have to stop loving someone to love someone else. Truth is, God wants us to love everybody anyway (and I'm not the Jesus-y type). There are parts of me that will always love what my ex was to me at that time, but that's all there is to it. It's like your favorite clothes when you're a kid. You can outgrow them without hating them.

I started talking to my girl last August...  3 weeks after I broke up with the love of my life at the time. I didn't get over said love until...what...May of this year? I dunno. But you now what, lil mama was there for me for every tear, every confused feeling, every let down -- all of it. I never had to hide my emotions for my ex from her because she understood how HARD and how MUCH I loved that woman and how much I grieved for what could have been. It was all of her patience and understanding that made me REALIZE what being loved was supposed to feel like. At first I just loved being loved, and I kept it real with her about that. She didn't hold it agagainst me that I didn't feel as strongly for her as she felt for me. A few "firsts" later, I realized she had been waiting to give me her love ever since she met me 5 years ago. Up until this point, I had only looked after her well-being mentally. She was like a little sister to me, so I'd always give her "role model advice"., but after we started talking  and after she started holding me down emotionally, I developed a sense of responsibility for her emotional well being as well.  That's all it takes...  love isn't magical. It's a choice. I didn't fall in love with my lady, I stepped into it slowly and cautiously this time. The water is always cold at first, but then you warm up to it.  As long as she's who I think she is and who I'm molding her to become, I see no reason why I should forsake what we have. That's all love is man...

Makes sense. Right now its still in that new phase of the break up (2 weeks). Plus we work together

. I'm not over her of course but I feel like I'm almost at a point to talk to new girls. That's the scary part, meeting new girls. Learning to trust them and get to know them will be so different.

Hopefully the next, whoever that may be, is ready what I'm ready for. My ex is still somewhat young, so there was maturity issues there. Stuff we argued about was childish looking back on it and she has a funny look on life. Its crazy now thinking about some of the things she said and thought. She honestly felt and has been feeling that after 3.5 years, she deserved a engagement ring by now (She's 19 BTW

). How you feel, you deserve an ENGAGEMENT ring, but your saying you're unsure about what you want at this point and if yoy're was doing the right thing by being with me.

Right now I just need someone who lives in my reality. You get a ring when you EARN it. A female who knows what she wants and what she wants to do in life. One whose sure of herself and her decisions. I don't want to say the relationship was a mistake, because I learned a lot and it was great, but looking forward, no more waiting on maturity. Come with it or don't come at all.

Your new girl sounds way, way better than your old girl

. Classic posts.

I keep getting the weird feeling I'm going to keep running into tac heads for a while though

. Tac heads = girls not wife-able BTW. But I just keep wondering where the hell am I going to find someone who is going to give what I do. Its some selfish, childish females out there and I know/have known too many of them.

1. I was NOWHERE near "ready" to talk to anybody, but I knew I could holla at shorty. To b real, I holla'd at everybody that would listen. No other chick could deal with my baggage

. She did tho

. Best decision I ever made, relationship wise. She didn't push me to get over my ex. I didn' pull. We just let it happen naturally.. oh, and my ex ended up getting real negative and *****y and so that was all the more reason to value this new girl that was the antithesis of the one that had not only ripped my heart out, but was now feasting on it.

2. That was the hardest thing to let go; KNOWING most of our fights were so small that we never really needed to have them in the first place. But once the damage is done, it's done. And it couldn't be undone if I was gonna be the only person trying, so I stopped trying. And once that happened, I saw my ex for what she was. I was her security blanket and "pet BF". She wasn't as far down for me as I was for her when things got uneasy. This "new" chick is (It's been almost a year and a half

)

3. My then 19 year old ex told me, and I'll never forget this, "If we're not married in 2 years, you're wasting my time and it's not worth it". What makes a woman GIRL think love is on a time schedule? Further more, who says some self centered ##!! like that unless they really have NO idea HOW to love someone other than their self or what all marriage entails? I'ma always feel like

about that one... 

4. PREACH

5. I can't say she's a better person (well I could, but I won't) cuz while I was in the moment, no woman could compare to my ex. She's who she is, and I was ALL over her. So I ain't finna slander her these days. I'm better than that. But I will say that this lil lady fits me MUCH better and I get as much from her as I give, if not more. That's what it's all about. We compete for who can be the most generous. How can you lose THAT contest? Just keep fishing man.. they're out there...

 

[optimusprimeaphia]

Originally Posted by Retro23J

Originally Posted by Manglor

L word?

As in i Love you forever and ever or as in Listen Here i don't love you anymore cause you love me too much?

Specify bro.

  

Originally Posted by Fog Raw

I literally feel like a !@!@%$@ idiot...

I dropped the L word too soon in a text... She basically cut me off.. Definitely learned a lesson.

You didn't listen.

Oh well.

NT provides the laffs but we know what we're doing sometimes.

 

[optimusprimeaphia]

Originally Posted by Retro23J

Originally Posted by Manglor

L word?

As in i Love you forever and ever or as in Listen Here i don't love you anymore cause you love me too much?

Specify bro.

  

Originally Posted by Fog Raw

I literally feel like a !@!@%$@ idiot...

I dropped the L word too soon in a text... She basically cut me off.. Definitely learned a lesson.

You didn't listen.

Oh well.

NT provides the laffs but we know what we're doing sometimes.

 

[murda he]

Like for real tho..Who texts I love you? It can't be love if you gotta text it. If you not **** deep in shorty and staring her in the eye like a HER man, you did it wrong anyway...scrub. I can't wait to see the thread titled "Proposed to wifey with a FB relationship request Vol. Denied"

 

[murda he]

Like for real tho..Who texts I love you? It can't be love if you gotta text it. If you not **** deep in shorty and staring her in the eye like a HER man, you did it wrong anyway...scrub. I can't wait to see the thread titled "Proposed to wifey with a FB relationship request Vol. Denied"