Dawwwwwwwg, I HATE that 'fight for me' ****. Just code for 'care for me more than I care for you so I can leave you for the next ***** && make him think it's sweet too'.
As for what I'd do if I found out a chick was cheating on me...probably nothing directly to her, cause somewhere along the line, errors were likely made on my end which allowed the BS to manifest itself in the first place. In retrospect, I'm not mad at any of the chicks who did some 'grimy' ish to me, because the red flags were def. there EVERY time, I was just too blinded by 'love' (or the illusion of it) to see them with a sensible outlook. I'm at the point where I'm comfortable in knowing that I can only control what I can, && another's actions will never be on that list of things. One must accept that, at any point, shorty can cheat, suck, ****, whatever/whoever she wants, while always being prepared to take appropriate action just in case...cause it can all be over as quickly as it began. Microcosm of life...
But IMO a man's self-value shall determine how he handles that. I've personally faltered in this area many times while learning 'the game' through straight, late-blooming, trial && error; always talking myself down in the past with women, yet rationalizing it by calling it 'humility'. The vibe I was putting out to the world && these girls was 'you're more important than me...actually, you're the only important one out of the both of us'. And they felt that, && being emotionally driven creatures, they acted accordingly on what they felt by leaving, as they should've. Nowadays, however, completely different story; I now value myself enough to be picky with women, even at the expense of my 'body count' (I'll keep it 100, it's only at 1
), by sticking to my own morals/standards, beliefs, && not straying from those just because of nothing more a pretty face && a phat ***. If they can't get with that, if they feel the need to cheat, etc...even if I may like/love em...won't take it personally, but I gotta walk without looking back (although, much easier said than done), because genuine self-respect will always outweigh my love for another, as well as their 'love' for me...it has to.