UPDATE: Need relationship advice? Is the chick interested?

[icqboy51]

i know.. this is NT and i am asking relationship questions.

well how can i find out if this chick likes me?

story: keeping it short.

i have known her through work and known her for about 3 months. (she is a more conservative girl)

before all this, at work we do talk but not long conversation or anything cause she didnt seem interested in anything. but a month ago out of nowhere she asked for my phone#. i was like why not, make another friend.

and in the past 2 weeks we have been texting each other daily and 1 call every other night that last about 2 hrs, just chatting work and random things. i don't want to damage/ risk our current friendship.

because if i let her know i am interested in her but fails, it would be kind of hard to keep the friendship.

in the text i would kinda let her know she is attractive to me but not saying it straight out that i am interested in her.

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

and would age make a difference? that is, she is older than me...

she broke up with her last BF about 6 months ago because her BF cheated on her.

share your past experience/ advice, thanx NT.

 

[icqboy51]

i know.. this is NT and i am asking relationship questions.

well how can i find out if this chick likes me?

story: keeping it short.

i have known her through work and known her for about 3 months. (she is a more conservative girl)

before all this, at work we do talk but not long conversation or anything cause she didnt seem interested in anything. but a month ago out of nowhere she asked for my phone#. i was like why not, make another friend.

and in the past 2 weeks we have been texting each other daily and 1 call every other night that last about 2 hrs, just chatting work and random things. i don't want to damage/ risk our current friendship.

because if i let her know i am interested in her but fails, it would be kind of hard to keep the friendship.

in the text i would kinda let her know she is attractive to me but not saying it straight out that i am interested in her.

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

and would age make a difference? that is, she is older than me...

she broke up with her last BF about 6 months ago because her BF cheated on her.

share your past experience/ advice, thanx NT.

 

[ohyeah10]

youre in the friendzone. just give up

 

[ohyeah10]

youre in the friendzone. just give up

 

[ohyeah10]

youre in the friendzone. just give up

 

[ohyeah10]

youre in the friendzone. just give up

 

[al audi]

OP............just dont give a ($# you she will throw the P at you within a week.

 

[al audi]

OP............just dont give a ($# you she will throw the P at you within a week.

 

[mycoldyourdone]

i lost my ability to read, in a recent boating accident. the only way to cure me is by posting pics. will you help me, friend?

 

[mycoldyourdone]

i lost my ability to read, in a recent boating accident. the only way to cure me is by posting pics. will you help me, friend?

 

[baby jumpman]

And you didn't post pics because?

 

[baby jumpman]

And you didn't post pics because?

 

[SojuOppa]

Picture? or no help

 

[SojuOppa]

Picture? or no help

 

[xfile 11]

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.


I will translate this for you:  Stop being a simp and either ask me out or do something.

 

[xfile 11]

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.


I will translate this for you:  Stop being a simp and either ask me out or do something.

 

[Kobekobe]

ask her out on a date and take it from there?

isn't that what most people do?

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by xfile 11

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

Friendzoned.



Fixed.

 

[mangudai954]

Originally Posted by xfile 11

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

Friendzoned.



Fixed.

 

[Kobekobe]

ask her out on a date and take it from there?

isn't that what most people do?

 

[icqboy51]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by xfile 11

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

Friendzoned.

Fixed.


^ i sorta figured her replies the same... kinda just want to be friends.

 

[icqboy51]

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by xfile 11

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

Friendzoned.

Fixed.


^ i sorta figured her replies the same... kinda just want to be friends.

 

[xfile 11]

Originally Posted by icqboy51

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by xfile 11

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

Friendzoned.

Fixed.

^ i sorta figured her replies the same... kinda just want to be friends.


I was in the same position with the girl saying the same things....definitely was not friend zoned, its all about how you play your cards.

 

[xfile 11]

Originally Posted by icqboy51

Originally Posted by Mangudai954

Originally Posted by xfile 11

icqboy51 wrote:

every time i text her complimenting her in someway or to signal she is attractive to me, she would reply with i am a nice guy, sweet or a cutie etc - that type of comments.

Friendzoned.

Fixed.

^ i sorta figured her replies the same... kinda just want to be friends.


I was in the same position with the girl saying the same things....definitely was not friend zoned, its all about how you play your cards.

 

[icqboy51]

Originally Posted by al3x89

ask her out on a date and take it from there?

isn't that what most people do?

at work i helped her out once to switch from part time to more stable and more hours.

and about a week later, i randomly text her to see if she wanted to go out for dinner. 'just dinner' not like a date. she was cool about it and we went for dinner
man guess that doesn't count. LOL - fail