solewoman
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I literally have no reason to hate. And she’s from my hometown so I definitely have love for her. But calling a spade a spade. Have you seen her live?
I literally have no reason to hate. And she’s from my hometown so I definitely have love for her. But calling a spade a spade. Have you seen her live?
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I haven't, but she can sing. Now can't SANG, but she can sing.
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Can you sing?
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Probably if trained, but I could until 14 or 15.
solewoman
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WHat's wrong with reading it off the phone?
solewoman
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^ Tacky.
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Is the issue reading the vows or reading it off the phone? Not sure why either way because it is called "reading the vows" and with technology is how we do stuff nowadays.
- Oct 13, 2001
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I am not trying to argue.
I am not trying to argue.
I am not trying to argue.
I am not trying to argue.
I am not trying to argue.
But can you explain why you feel it's tacky?
- Nov 16, 2018
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Wedding vows are dumb as hell & an overall waste of time. Become a 3rd degree burn victim & tell me about those pompous wedding vows then.
solewoman
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Meh I don’t feel like it. I just don’t like it.
What is the relation between the two? Or is there one that i missed?
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I think wedding vows are dumb, but if you were to do them then reading them off a phone is trash. Likely says a lot about the effort u put in that relationship. Reading speeches in general is trash w/ exceptions.
aepps20
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Alpha Dogs and X Factors don't do this.
solewoman
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But what does that have to do with a burn victim?
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I think the main thing to me is the unwillingness to spend time & put in effort to memorize a speech on a very important day. also, speeches don't come off natural when you are reading off something. i guess you can argue the individuals who wouldn't read off something would probably be on average better public speakers but it's just sounds hella off to me whenever i hear someone reading off a speech.
i have done both methods by the way but i was young & dumb when i read it off my phone (thought i would look more fly doing so & also didn't know how unnatural it sounded until i was doing it)...never again
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The vows go out the window along w/ the marriage.
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I liked her in this song. I wouldn't say she can't sing, more like she doesn't have range since alot of her songs sound similar
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The not memorizing = No/Lack of effort is an angle I just can't agree with. Wild claim. You know how many speeches are read and not memorized? That means folks hardly care? Come on man.
I think using paper/phone because you care so much that you want it to be perfect COULD be a reason to read.
I think using paper/phone because you care so much that you want it to be perfect COULD be a reason to read.
- May 27, 2017
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I see where dude is coming from
Something intimate like a wedding vow or eulogy I expect it to come from the dome. Sounds more genuine and authentic. Shows you care about the person
But a general speech is fine when reading from a script
Something intimate like a wedding vow or eulogy I expect it to come from the dome. Sounds more genuine and authentic. Shows you care about the person
But a general speech is fine when reading from a script
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Is there a female version of **** boys? **** girls? they seem to be the main Jhene fan.
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I get this, but the segment is literally called the reading of the vows.
- Dec 11, 2007
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Just the image of someone reading their vows off their phone is cringe. Put in a little effort and memorize that joint.
- Mar 30, 2007
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I’ve seen enough people fail at public speaking to ever judge
you get up there in front of your friends, family and others nerves could get the best of you
dont blame anyone for having that safety net to make sure you don’t forget anything
you get up there in front of your friends, family and others nerves could get the best of you
dont blame anyone for having that safety net to make sure you don’t forget anything
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I fully agree that Janet was another level overall vs Aaliyah. But just singing skill? I get the comparison.
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You are acting like I haven't talked to people who ended up reading off a speech. Also, what do you mean by people hardly care? Just so we are on the same page. Big difference from people using notes just in case they miss something to people who straight up read off something & looking like they never practiced once.
