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Stop thinkin so much.
Perfect example: You're at a party, you see a girl you've met before/have class with but y'all ain't really that cool. Do you:
A.) Look at her, pause, then think to yourself "I wonder if she remembers me, should I go over there, is she gon play me, I wonder if she thinks I'm ugly, is it a bad time" and try to convince yourself if/when to talk to her.
OR
B.) Walk right up to her, say "Hey_____, how are u doing" Give her a hug and make small talk.
Based on this thread you probably pick option A. You over evaluate things trying to figure out the best way to handle a situation, now while that's useful in a LOT of aspects in life, it doesn't need to be applied to simple social interactions.
Believe it or not everybody has their own insecurities, especially women. A lot of people you see that are calm and confident no matter who they talk to, it comes from YEARS of rejection, you can't learn how to be great until you learn how to fail.
Good luck man.
Yeah deep down it is a self esteem issue. I honestly think that's what my problem is. I'm not happy with myself, but the thing is I have no idea where it stems from.
I'm getting better over time but its an extremely slow process. And some days I feel like I take major steps back.
Yeah deep down it is a self esteem issue. I honestly think that's what my problem is. I'm not happy with myself, but the thing is I have no idea where it stems from.
I'm getting better over time but its an extremely slow process. And some days I feel like I take major steps back.
Yeah deep down it is a self esteem issue. I honestly think that's what my problem is. I'm not happy with myself, but the thing is I have no idea where it stems from.
I'm getting better over time but its an extremely slow process. And some days I feel like I take major steps back.
Where you physically or mentally abused when you wee younger?
Yeah deep down it is a self esteem issue. I honestly think that's what my problem is. I'm not happy with myself, but the thing is I have no idea where it stems from.
I'm getting better over time but its an extremely slow process. And some days I feel like I take major steps back.
Where you physically or mentally abused when you wee younger?
nope, i had a great childhood.
i used to be pretty outgoing until about when high school started. no idea what changed me
Da underlying dilemma here is people who are
introverted tend to be real methodical in da way they
Carry themselves... Its great cuz its a reflection of
Intelligence and a due diligence to not eff up in your
Approach to life, da problem lies when it hinders
Everything you do because you're always second
guessing whatever you attempt to do. My advice?
Dont be afraid to fail, failure is something that people
Overdramatize as bad, when in reality its life's
biggest teachers. You already have a mind that is
Self aware, that is already thinking twice as hard as
Da typical human, thats a GIFT, trust me when i say
SO many people lack da ability of self aware and self
Evaluation (da ability to see yourself in da 3rd
person and critique one's self objectively) Use that
skill and apply it in real life and you'll see how fast
You can reverse your bad fortunes into a positive
Net outlook on yourself and life in general.
I really try to take what you say seriously but I can't even understand it with the double spacing. It's annoying to read.
how about eat da food and get da nourishment instead of worrying about what plate its served on....
i struggle with the samething bro. I can't talk to girls or people for that matter. i dont have friends. i have never approached a female.all the girls i have been with have approached me and im not a young cat no more. Im not the best looking dude, i workout though. i look like derek fisher.im broke. Its sucks being awkward and to have no game so to say.
i struggle with the samething bro. I can't talk to girls or people for that matter. i dont have friends. i have never approached a female.all the girls i have been with have approached me(which explains why they all turned out to be *****) and im not a young cat no more. Im not the best looking dude, i workout though. i look like derek fisher.im broke. Its sucks being awkward and to have no game so to say.
everytime i try to be nice to females i get shunned.lately i only gotten approached by straight fat wack looking girls. im not looking for top notch but damn my ex's were pretty decent looking.id say solid sevens.
i struggle with the samething bro. I can't talk to girls or people for that matter. i dont have friends. i have never approached a female.all the girls i have been with have approached me(which explains why they all turned out to be *****) and im not a young cat no more. Im not the best looking dude, i workout though. i look like derek fisher.im broke. Its sucks being awkward and to have no game so to say.
everytime i try to be nice to females i get shunned.lately i only gotten approached by straight fat wack looking girls. im not looking for top notch but damn my ex's were pretty decent looking.id say solid sevens.
Hair or no hair Derek Fisher?This made me laugh for some reason. Not laughing at you, just the randomness of that statement.i struggle with the samething bro. I can't talk to girls or people for that matter. i dont have friends. i have never approached a female.all the girls i have been with have approached me(which explains why they all turned out to be *****) and im not a young cat no more. Im not the best looking dude, i workout though. i look like derek fisher.im broke. Its sucks being awkward and to have no game so to say.
everytime i try to be nice to females i get shunned.lately i only gotten approached by straight fat wack looking girls. im not looking for top notch but damn my ex's were pretty decent looking.id say solid sevens.
i struggle with the samething bro. I can't talk to girls or people for that matter. i dont have friends. i have never approached a female.all the girls i have been with have approached me(which explains why they all turned out to be *****) and im not a young cat no more. Im not the best looking dude, i workout though. i look like derek fisher.im broke. Its sucks being awkward and to have no game so to say.
everytime i try to be nice to females i get shunned.lately i only gotten approached by straight fat wack looking girls. im not looking for top notch but damn my ex's were pretty decent looking.id say solid sevens.
That is the realest s*** i ever seen on here lol
no hair d fish ..... no dont have friends. acquaINTANCEs yes but nobody that calls me up to do anything besides play pickup basketball. add to the fact i'm a single father with twin two year old daughter and no help from anyone besides my folks to watch them when they are asleep which is why i cant work. been looking for graveyard job to no avail..sorry to go off topic. So all this and i have social anxiety.
Hair or no hair Derek Fisher?Not even friends though?
Damb.no hair d fish ..... no dont have friends. acquaINTANCEs yes but nobody that calls me up to do anything besides play pickup basketball. add to the fact i'm a single father with twin two year old daughter and no help from anyone besides my folks to watch them when they are asleep which is why i cant work. been looking for graveyard job to no avail..sorry to go off topic. So all this and i have social anxiety.
Hair or no hair Derek Fisher?Not even friends though?
I feel like i have scratchers type odds against me but i still try and remain as positive as i can be .
no hair d fish ..... no dont have friends. acquaINTANCEs yes but nobody that calls me up to do anything besides play pickup basketball. add to the fact i'm a single father with twin two year old daughter and no help from anyone besides my folks to watch them when they are asleep which is why i cant work. been looking for graveyard job to no avail..sorry to go off topic. So all this and i have social anxiety.
Hair or no hair Derek Fisher? Not even friends though? :\
I feel like i have scratchers type odds against me but i still try and remain as positive as i can be .
no hair d fish ..... no dont have friends. acquaINTANCEs yes but nobody that calls me up to do anything besides play pickup basketball. add to the fact i'm a single father with twin two year old daughter and no help from anyone besides my folks to watch them when they are asleep which is why i cant work. been looking for graveyard job to no avail..sorry to go off topic. So all this and i have social anxiety.
I feel like i have scratchers type odds against me but i still try and remain as positive as i can be .
as ive mentioned in other threads. she was cheating on me , said she was tired of being a wife and a mother and left me and my girls to be with someother dude. havent heard from her in awhile nor do i want to hear from her..............Is your BM deceased ? if not
what kind of winch leaves two twin daughters.
All my life I been dreaming of twin daughters
TF, lolThis is going to sound weird, but sometimes I pretend that I'm a white person.
Like, I make an effort in doing an impersonation of a nosy white dude, but with my voice, and just channel that.
Every minority has done it for laughs, but it's a good tool.
WWWPS, what would a white person say.
OP, I'm sorry if you're white, though.
bruhThis is going to sound weird, but sometimes I pretend that I'm a white person.
Like, I make an effort in doing an impersonation of a nosy white dude, but with my voice, and just channel that.
Every minority has done it for laughs, but it's a good tool.
WWWPS, what would a white person say.
OP, I'm sorry if you're white, though.